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bebecole

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  1. ok so i know valentines day isnt till another month but i need to get on the ball to send out a package to my boyfriend because hes away in the military and i want him to get it on time.. valentines day is really special to us because its what started our relationship so i want to send sumthing sweet thats less costly.. i already got sum candy but i wanted to maybe make sum thing special since i like doin crafts. any ideas??
  2. i started when i was 14.. it lasted about 3 years and then it got old.. although most say its not addicting, but for me it was.. it took me along time to rid it all together, i would stop for a few months and go back and feel really guilty... it also caused problems mentally for me a few years later i devolped a anxiety disorder..
  3. Thank You All! Youve Helped Alot!!
  4. the past few days me and my b/f have been TRYING to have anal.. im a little scared but more excited to try it.. (sorry for the poor grammer) but when he puts it in it hurts really bad and i tell him to stop. is there any certain postition or way to be.. and what type of lube is good? we have kinda been trying lotion....#-o which i know isnt the best idea.. please any advice would help for 2nite
  5. well i did those classes at my school because we are required to take a gym class bucause my major is physical education/nutrition so im still learning. i do those 4days a week for a hour. plus i just started going to the gym.. im only about 8-10lbs over weight then what is average for my height and frame. usually for breakfast ill have oatmeal and fruit.. lunch ill eat tuna or a salad and for dinner if i do eat dinner ill have a normal meal with chicken, vegs. brown rice.. i dont eat 5-6times a day mainly because i dont have the time i a fulltime student and work full time at night.. i dont eat unsaturated fats, but you sed i should be eating protien more?? im not too sure of that becasue of my classes now im told you shud be eating carbs the most, then fat and potein the least. hummm
  6. i suffered from the same thing. i had generized anxiety disorder and it was probably one of the most horrible things i have ever experienced and people and family who has never experienced it doesnt know how much it effects your life.. i can relate to you, not being able to go out because your scared something will happen your stuck in your room advoiding everyone.. i suffered with this for about 2years, and my breaking point was when my bestfriend died and i new it was time to make changes... i asked my mom about therapy and she agreed to let me go. i was in therapy for about 3 months and im cured. i refused to take medication, i feel thats a temp. solution.. i know you feel like your going to be like this forever and you dont know what to do it get rid of it but you should seriously think about therapy theres no easy way out of this and you have to put the hard work into it..
  7. ive been on weight watchers for a few weeks and im not progressing like i should be.. i usually eat within my point value and have been phyiscal active for the past 4months or so taking kickboxing and body toning classes at my school and i just signed up for the gym... any pointers or advice.. i dont know what im doing wrong
  8. im pretty upset over this issue im having with one of my really close friends. ive considered her my bestfriend for so long and now she doesnt even care. it all started out with her sending my boyfriend messages telling him not to be with me and ect. i couldnt tell you why but for some reason my friend and her boyfriend doesnt want us to be together because my past LDR ending sour. i never confronted her about it hoping she would come to me and talk about it.. well its been about a month now and i feel like she doesnt even care if shes friends with me or not. so i took it apon myself to send her a myspace message today.. i just told her that i wasnt sure what was going on between us and i thought that we were good enough friends that she would be able to come talk to me about a problem & i would hate to see our friendship end over something dumb.. i feel like im stuck back in highschool. and im so stressed over this..
  9. theres only so much you can doand put up with.. theres no excuse for him to treat you that way. if you want to leave maybe you should tell him you've been thinking about it and maybe that will knock some sense that you will not always be there. i think you should stand up for yourself and for your happiness, because if your miserable it will reflect on to your daughter. you shuld do what is right in your heart for your and your daughters happiness. maybe think about moving in with your mother if thats a option. i dont know what type of relationship you have with your mother but maybe ask her for advice.
  10. well you were at a club im guessing?? if you were drunk or if your friend was so was probably just in the moment type of deal.. thats the only reason i could think of, of why she kissed you. just becasue you kissed a girl doesnt mean your bisexual. i was sexual with a girl a few times before and yes i was turned on but i dont consider myself bisexual. Ask your self this question.. do you feel the same way sexual about a man and get turned on the same way when you see a women. if you do you might be bi.. but no one else can tell you your bi, execpt your self.
  11. my advice is get out of it while you can. if hes doing this now its not gona change. The military changes men inside and out into a differnt person. from EXPERIENCE my ex was in the navy and we were together 2years in his enlistment and it got very messy. if hes not pulling his weight in the relationship its gona get WORSE when he goes on deployment. and yes he will be away at long periods of time. any where from 3-6months if not more at one time. You need to talk to him about your relationship and if its worth it to him.
  12. i didnt kno they had sample packs thanks
  13. im missing out too!! dang. ive been soaked before but not a huge load enough to wet the whole bed to seem like i peed. im jelous.
  14. i think you should do whatever you feel is rite.. if you dont feel conforable talking to him then i think you should tell him that.. i dont think theres anything wrong talking to him if it has nothing to do with his daughter.. quite honest i wish i still talked to my Ex's mother.
  15. what are some good condoms that will enhance pleasure that you all have tried. me & my bf uses the warming ones for shared pleasure and they were horrible. they made me feel like i had to pee whenever we have sex. and i cant seem to find the rite kind for us. any ideaS?
  16. even if you do take the diet pills you will gain it back. its not the healthy way to go. You should join weight watchers and loose it the real way plus weight watchers you keep the weight off forever if you stick to the meal plan. i havent even been on weight watchers a week and already lost 2lbs. if you do it the unhealthy way with pill i almost guarentee you, you WILL gain it back. ask anyone who has taken the pill they will tell you the same thing
  17. start buying sugar free candy and ween yourself off the sugar with the sugar free candy... im a freak about sugar too. i know the sugar free stuff isnt the same, but its satisfying enough.
  18. a microwave?? wow. i think my ex was a little worse. one christmas i bought him a 300$ mp3 player, and i got sum junky silver jewlery and stuff from the dollar store (those crappy kicknacks) and thermal pjs. i was pretty disapointed but i could tell he was really embarresed and felt cheap, atleast were not together anymore.. you should def, ask him about a budget.
  19. has anyone ever experiences astral catalpes (sp)?? ive always heard about it but it was until about 6months ago where it happened to me. and i have to say its the scariest thing ive ever experienced.
  20. i think i have a eye infection but its under my eye near my eye lashes and its a sharp pain. its not in my eye ball though. its a little swollen too. i showed my mom and she said she thinks its a steye(sp) i dont know what that is and i cant get a doctors appointment for a few days cuz im in school and there booked up. whats a steye and what can i do to until i go to the doctors becuase its really irratating.
  21. yeah i also have a d cup and i have stretch marks as well, ive tryed cocoa butter, and other creams it didnt really help. i am a total tanning addict, and honestly ive heard on tv and stuff that stretch marks show up more when you tan but i dont think so, there less visable for me because my skin complexion is tan anyways, but sometimes if you tan stretch marks they turn reder but i think it all depends on your complexion.
  22. Im so upset at a friend because she still talks to my EX. and its not like me and my ex broke up on good terms either, it was quite messy. It ended about 6 or 7 months ago. A run down on what happened was, me and my ex were together for about 2years. He was in the military, even though he was away we always kept contact and maintained a truthful relationship. One weekend he came home and we got into a silly argument because i didnt want to sleep over his house because we werent together at the time but we still talked. i didnt want to risk me getting the idea in my head were gona get back together if i slept at his house. which i think is understandable, so i told him i wanted to sleep in my own house and ill see him the next day. We'll lets just say he didnt like that and it turned into a fight. To sum it all up ever since then ive never heard from him again. it was devestating for me, i called him constantly leaving him messages that i was sorry and for him to call back. No Word. Then a few weeks later the worst possible thing happened, my Bestfriend died in a car accident. My ex heard of what happened b/c my friend called him, still NO WORD. Till this day ive nevr heard from him again, he disapeared out of my life with no word and no exlaination. from there on i decided to move on. but what upsets me the most is one of my friends still talks to him! i told her before i dont appeciate her talking to him, and she sed she wouldnt. She knows what he did to him. She leaves him comments on myspace saying " i cant wait till you come home, so you can hang out with me." i dont know the reason for that because she has a boyfriend, and im sure her boyfriend wouldnt like that. well please i need some advice.!!
  23. acually i dont like gel.(it doesnt look bad) i just like clean hair because i think it looks cuter. im sure you look good both ways, maybe switch it up, some days gel it and some days leave it! Problem solved. lol
  24. ahhhh so im totally confused on what to get my boyfriend for christmas. and its extra hard because hes in the military and always moving around and has limited space. i cant get him clothes b.c he barely wears civilian clothes, and i dont want to get him nothing big because he'll have to drag it where ever he goes. ALSO!! He will be home for christmas and were driving up to his mothers house for christmas for a few days. this will be the first time meeting his mother and i want to make a good impression and i want to get her a little something for letting me spend christmas at her home. Help!! please!
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