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  1. bebecole
    the other day at work i left my cellphone on my desk, the next morning i called in and asked if i left it their and if they can place it somewhere for when i come in that night. My manager took it apon herself to lock it in the office so noone would steal it. later that evening i came into the office. I called my manager if she still had my phone she sed she'll come in when i was about to leave to unlock her door so i can get my cell phone. She must of been a little pisted she had to drive from home to unlock her door, but i didnt tell her to lock it up knowing i would be in for it. i was out of work for a month because my bestfriend passed away in a bad car accident a few months ago. as she was getting my phone she asked me why ive been forgetfull lately and ect. then she proceed to say in some what of a rude tone of voice "Nicole, its been two months You need to get over this now." how does she expect me to get over my bestfriends death in a matter of two months!! Am i Overeacting?? i tend to be a bit sensitive.
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    the cramps might go away but i dont think the other stuff. i still got cravings for food and i still got pissy. lol but no cramps
  3. bebecole
    go to the halmark store!! omg i buy everyones gift there.. maybe take him out to his favorite resterant and/or to a movie he wants to see.
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    yeah thats alittle rude by sending a text. wait till she calls you, it looks like shes been advoiding the date. dont call!
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    thats a good rule
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    all of my favorite foods!! yumm
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    well my therapist says i have to go on medication because of my anxity disorder. im okay today, im acually at work rite now but im filling in, in a differnt office. thanks all for the advice when i got home from work yesterday i went to the gym to excrise i havent gone in a while but hopefully i can stick to it to releive my anxity and depression.
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    i really dont think girls shove there breast into someone on purpose or expose them on purpose, anything ive done was on accident
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    yes for a while i was exercising.. i havent done it in a while because the weather has been horrible with a bad heat wave.
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    when i was on birthcontrol i never got cramps but now im off of dem i get bad cramps.
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    ive been so depressed these past few days, my anxity has been bad. just recently (in the past 2 months) my bestfriend died. in the mix of everything my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years stopped talking to me for no legit reason and ignored all my calls knowing my bestfriend passed away. ive started therapy about a month ago, im not sure if its working, but im starting medication soon (lexipro) for depression and anxity disorder but im worried things arent gona get better. i Stopped hanging out with my other friends because of how bad things have gotten. i hate this feeling so much, i just want it to go away, just when i think i have grip of things my depression comes along and ruins it. i just dont know what to do anymore dealing with my friends death and my boyfriend screwing me over for no reason.
  12. bebecole
    just drop it off at her house. if you dont wana see her wait till shes not home.
  13. bebecole
    i dont think ignoring her calls is a good idea. Do you think she wants to get back with you. Talk to her about it and ask her! the worst thing she cud say is no
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    Did you just start taking the pill?? Sometimes (i think) its normal to have a brown Discharge/period. i use to when i was younger. But you should just go to the doctors to make sure. My friend was bleeding for 2weeks and was pregnant. So its possible to get your period and be preg. too. maybe wait a week and a half and take another test.
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    i was a dumbee. He disapeared out of my life for no reason. stopped calling me. everything. We were together for over 2 1/2 years. A few weeks after he ignoring me, my bestfriend died. And my other friend called him and she talked to him to tell him what happened and he still didnt bother to call. So what i wonder is how damn cold can he be, what does he acually think about this whole situation. i havent yet heard from him, & i dont miss him at all. and rarely think about him. But i do think about how he could do that to me for no reason.
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    well i know how you feel! i was a military (navy) girlfriend for a little over 2years!!. Personally Military relationships are Completely differnt from a regular LDR. My relationship ended because he was always away on deployments, tours, ect. you know the deal. Theres only so much he can take. Alot of men in the military change becuase their lives have changed so drastically, some guys it doesnt fase them at all. In my case i dont think my boyfriend new what he was instore when he left for deployment and he came back a total differnt person. Your situation sounds Just the way mine was. I understand the whole thing with not being able to call back and they make up excuses on reasons they couldnt call. Believe me- been there done that. The key to a military relationship is COMMUNITCATION! You have to talk to him about serious issues when your in person together. I dont think your picking any fights its a really coplicated to stablize a relationship in the military. You both have to make the comentiment to keep this relationship going becuase if only one of yous is holding on its not gona work. In LDR's you shouldnt argue about little things it just makes it harder. You need to set time up to discuss whats going on and if he doesnt want to do that its not gona work out because its not fair to you to just sit around and wait for him. Im currently dating a man in the marines also rite now, so if you need anyone to talk to with advice just privite message me. because i know how messy and hard things can get.
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    im a female who goes to clubs, and i dont think thats a place to go to meet someone to date. Maybe you should try going out to different places at nite. Or if theres a girl that your intrested in and shes into you at the end of the nite tell her she seems like a cool girl and you would like to take her number down to go out, out of the club sense
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    i learned probably when i was in 7th grade me and my best friend (were both females) watched porn together and we ended up having sex together and hooking up all the time!! Its kinda weird till this day we hang out and were both straight. haha. But i didnt learn about sex-ed till 10th grade!!! and by the next school year i got pregnant. haha. i guess it didnt help that much.
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    i think your best bet would be just to tell her exactly what you said. becuase if you go easy around the edges she may not get the hint. if you dont wana do that maybe tell her your extremely busy with work and everything else. i dont think lying is the way to go but if you must i dont think it will be the worst thing you can do. or maybe tell her you have a old flame that came back into your life. im not sure how far you wana go with that but if you want to tell her the truth, you can always say im looking for someone to be more intimate with and more romantically and i only see you as a good friend, but i would like to see you again as friends.. maybe something along those lines would work.
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    ive acually never bleed. But if you think theres a problem you should see a doctor. better safe than sorry
  21. bebecole
    im 5'0. and i weigh 130. i think for our height any where between 115-120.
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    you hit the nail on the head!! so true, most guys are like that.
  23. bebecole
    you dont need a response for closure!!!! him not responding is enough clousure, you need to just stop thinking about it and obessing. I think alot of people had someone just disappear out of there life. i know i have. my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years Just stopped calling me and everything for NO REASON! A few weeks after of him not calling my bestfriend died. He knew it happened and he still never called to say sorry or anything. Some people just have cold hearts. Even if he didnt text you back it wouldnt make a difference, rite??? If he adventually texts you back or call DONT ANSWERRR!!! its just gona make it harder on you. you need to move on without the agervation.. YOU KNOW YOU DESERVE BETTER THAN THAT!!!! and yes you deserve to get some type of closure from him. but its not gona happen. you have to execpt what happen and stop beating your self up about it.
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    tell us about a Hookup/fling/date gone wrong!!!!!!! i think this will be pretty funny if your stories are anything like mine. haha
  25. bebecole
    my reason for life- well i really never knew what my life was about up until recently. My bestfriend just died in a horrible car accident. i would always talk to her about everything; life, relationships, family. EVERYTHING. Now thats she passed alot of the stuff i want to do is for her. I want to make her proud and stand my own ground for her. Alot of the advice she gave me im using till this day. so my point of life is to be happy and healthy. thats its, plain and simple. so thats all i really want out of life. i dont take anything for granted, i love my family and friends in my life and i wouldnt change it for the world.
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