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bebecole last won the day on June 5 2006

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  1. ok so i know valentines day isnt till another month but i need to get on the ball to send out a package to my boyfriend because hes away in the military and i want him to get it on time.. valentines day is really special to us because its what started our relationship so i want to send sumthing sweet thats less costly.. i already got sum candy but i wanted to maybe make sum thing special since i like doin crafts. any ideas??
  2. i started when i was 14.. it lasted about 3 years and then it got old.. although most say its not addicting, but for me it was.. it took me along time to rid it all together, i would stop for a few months and go back and feel really guilty... it also caused problems mentally for me a few years later i devolped a anxiety disorder..
  3. Thank You All! Youve Helped Alot!!
  4. the past few days me and my b/f have been TRYING to have anal.. im a little scared but more excited to try it.. (sorry for the poor grammer) but when he puts it in it hurts really bad and i tell him to stop. is there any certain postition or way to be.. and what type of lube is good? we have kinda been trying lotion....#-o which i know isnt the best idea.. please any advice would help for 2nite
  5. well i did those classes at my school because we are required to take a gym class bucause my major is physical education/nutrition so im still learning. i do those 4days a week for a hour. plus i just started going to the gym.. im only about 8-10lbs over weight then what is average for my height and frame. usually for breakfast ill have oatmeal and fruit.. lunch ill eat tuna or a salad and for dinner if i do eat dinner ill have a normal meal with chicken, vegs. brown rice.. i dont eat 5-6times a day mainly because i dont have the time i a fulltime student and work full time at night.. i dont eat unsaturated fats, but you sed i should be eating protien more?? im not too sure of that becasue of my classes now im told you shud be eating carbs the most, then fat and potein the least. hummm
  6. i suffered from the same thing. i had generized anxiety disorder and it was probably one of the most horrible things i have ever experienced and people and family who has never experienced it doesnt know how much it effects your life.. i can relate to you, not being able to go out because your scared something will happen your stuck in your room advoiding everyone.. i suffered with this for about 2years, and my breaking point was when my bestfriend died and i new it was time to make changes... i asked my mom about therapy and she agreed to let me go. i was in therapy for about 3 months and im cured. i refused to take medication, i feel thats a temp. solution.. i know you feel like your going to be like this forever and you dont know what to do it get rid of it but you should seriously think about therapy theres no easy way out of this and you have to put the hard work into it..
  7. ive been on weight watchers for a few weeks and im not progressing like i should be.. i usually eat within my point value and have been phyiscal active for the past 4months or so taking kickboxing and body toning classes at my school and i just signed up for the gym... any pointers or advice.. i dont know what im doing wrong
  8. im pretty upset over this issue im having with one of my really close friends. ive considered her my bestfriend for so long and now she doesnt even care. it all started out with her sending my boyfriend messages telling him not to be with me and ect. i couldnt tell you why but for some reason my friend and her boyfriend doesnt want us to be together because my past LDR ending sour. i never confronted her about it hoping she would come to me and talk about it.. well its been about a month now and i feel like she doesnt even care if shes friends with me or not. so i took it apon myself to send her a myspace message today.. i just told her that i wasnt sure what was going on between us and i thought that we were good enough friends that she would be able to come talk to me about a problem & i would hate to see our friendship end over something dumb.. i feel like im stuck back in highschool. and im so stressed over this..
  9. theres only so much you can doand put up with.. theres no excuse for him to treat you that way. if you want to leave maybe you should tell him you've been thinking about it and maybe that will knock some sense that you will not always be there. i think you should stand up for yourself and for your happiness, because if your miserable it will reflect on to your daughter. you shuld do what is right in your heart for your and your daughters happiness. maybe think about moving in with your mother if thats a option. i dont know what type of relationship you have with your mother but maybe ask her for advice.
  10. well you were at a club im guessing?? if you were drunk or if your friend was so was probably just in the moment type of deal.. thats the only reason i could think of, of why she kissed you. just becasue you kissed a girl doesnt mean your bisexual. i was sexual with a girl a few times before and yes i was turned on but i dont consider myself bisexual. Ask your self this question.. do you feel the same way sexual about a man and get turned on the same way when you see a women. if you do you might be bi.. but no one else can tell you your bi, execpt your self.
  11. my advice is get out of it while you can. if hes doing this now its not gona change. The military changes men inside and out into a differnt person. from EXPERIENCE my ex was in the navy and we were together 2years in his enlistment and it got very messy. if hes not pulling his weight in the relationship its gona get WORSE when he goes on deployment. and yes he will be away at long periods of time. any where from 3-6months if not more at one time. You need to talk to him about your relationship and if its worth it to him.
  12. i didnt kno they had sample packs thanks
  13. im missing out too!! dang. ive been soaked before but not a huge load enough to wet the whole bed to seem like i peed. im jelous.
  14. i think you should do whatever you feel is rite.. if you dont feel conforable talking to him then i think you should tell him that.. i dont think theres anything wrong talking to him if it has nothing to do with his daughter.. quite honest i wish i still talked to my Ex's mother.
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