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    25 pounds

    bebecole replied to Gecko's topic in Personal Growth

    thats awsome!! you should be proud!! Congratss
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    you didnt really explain what he lied about it all depends.. but if it upsets you ofcourse you have a right to be made. you deserve the truth. you need to work it out or it wont get resolved
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    i gained weight on paxil. he just needs to maintain a healthy diet and go to the gym to keep the weight of while on it. lexapro is supposta be a good anxiety medication... i had a bad reaction from it but thats just me it works really good for some people. and it suppostally has little to no sideffects.
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    it works for me
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    you have to be gental when you shave down there. exfolate your skin first and then shave. i think everyone gets razor burn though.
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    do you have anxiety??? b.c my therapist is giving me a book to read to help calm down, and also reading excerises in the book too. when i find out the title i can message it to you
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    why would you want to become a hoochiiee!!!!!!!!! you should respect yourself and your body. you shouldnt pretend to be something that your not. guys who like the hochie girls are only looking for one thing, sex. do you want to be used and thrown around to guy to guy? o really hope not!
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    well i got out of a bad 2year relationship a while back, he ended up being a real jerk and cud careless about me. well a few months ago i met a guy through one of my friends. we hit it off, and in may he left for the marines and he just got back on saturday! ive been having a great time with him and its so amazing. Everything ive been through this summer with my ex leaving me, my bestfriend dying, && and my horrible anxiety disorder, Finally something good has come to me!! i thought id share my excitment with everyone, and thank everyone for the great advice you've given these past months. woohoo for me for finding a great guy!!!!!!!!
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    i only took the first pill and thats it. and since that happened i didnt take it the other day, well because i didnt want to faint again and get sick! the next day i felt like sh*t, but im fine today. i have therapy on tuesday so im gona look in to the cognitive therapy as well.. my therapist sed i do have a chemical imbalnce so she might want me to try another medication
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    ask your doctor about it, give them a call. but dont stop taking it. your on it for anxeity?? i have the same thing (GAD) You also shouldnt be drinking coffee, caffee is bad for anxiety, well unless its decaf. a few days ago i started taking lexapro for my anxiety and i had the worst reaction the first nite. i ended up passing out in my bathroom and throwing up from it the whole nite.. ehh.. i think it just takes a while to find the right meds.. are the symptoms worse then your were feeling before you started taking the medication.. i think it takes time for you to adjust but just for safty talk to your doc.
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    i recently just lost my bestfriend in a car accident and my boyfriend left me. i just try and keep my friends and family around, and the people who care about me. i know how you feel about waiting. i feel like im sitting around waiting for my life to get better and be happy again. but the only thing you can do is enjoy your life at the moment. and yes everything does happen for a reason it may not seem like that now but it does. a few years ago when i was with my boyfriend i had a abortion and i started to regret it b/c i wanted to have a happy family with him and at this point im glad i went thru with it because my boyfriend is a total @$$hole, so now that i look back it happened for a reason.. heres a quote i found that will hopefully make you feel better.... When time passes, it's gone forever. So slow down and savor the life you're living.
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    you seem like a great friend, and you need to sit her down and tell her how serious this matter is. She needs therapy. Its just not gona disappear and shes never gona forget what happened, she cant go threw life like this. she needs to step up and explain what happened to her parents so she can get help. She needs to be a adult about the situation and understand shes just gona get worse and its going to affect her in the future
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    it doesnt happen to me because i dont let it happen to me. you need to stand up for yourself. your boyfriend seems like a jerk. he oviously doesnt care about your feelings if hes hanging up on you and telling you to shut up. thats very immature. go with your gut feeling, if you think he doesnt care about you, chances are he doesnt. you should put yourself first and worry about how your feeling. Dont sit around thinking hes going to change and things will be different, because hes not gona change. if hes doing this now to you, you shud get out of the relationship. You dont deserve to cry every night and be miserble. Their is someone out their who is going to treat you with the respect you deserve. If you keep finding yourself crying every nite; heres my advioe get a notebook and before you go to sleep wrote how you feel in it. write whats going through your head and what you want to do. Like a journal. its a good way to get your emotions out
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    Pain

    bebecole replied to redrose85's topic in Sex and Romance

    do they sell creams and other things for yeast infections at cvs and drug stores?? maybe do some research online or check out your local drug store.
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    all colleges are differnt. the best thing you should do is look it up on your college website. or call.
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    from what you wrote it seems like you have a good life. your healthy, have great friends and a cool job. your depressed about going out by yourself? and doing things on your own?? i can see how that could maybe bother you but who wants to do stuff by themselves anyway?? you can always start going to the gym and start running. Exercise is a good way to rid depression. And after a workout you always feel your best. I dont think your in a huge mess. if you want a lady then your should maybe as your friends if they know i nice girl for you. Try going to a bar or something with one of your buddies.
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    i took paxil too. i didnt like it either. i was against meds as well my my therapist insisted that i would love it. im going to look into the cognitive therapy. thanks
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    well i posted in pervious post that i was gona start taking Lexapro for my generalized anxiety disorder (GAD). i went to the doctors yesterday and she gave me my perscription of 10mgs. of lexapro. i took the pill around 8:00pm after i ate dinner. i was fine until i was just about to go to sleep around 12:00am. i tried to fall asleep but i was feeling a little weird, after a little bit i started to dose off. i woke up around 2:00am and sat up and felt even wrose than i did, something was just not right. i got up and went to the bathroom thinking i would splash some water on my face and get a glass of water. when i got to the bathroom i started to feel extremely dizzy then my vision started getting blurry, i knew i was gona pass out. i ended up falling on the bathroom floor. When i was on the floor i started throwing up and thats when i screamed for my parents to come help me. i was so out of it, i honestly felt like i have gotten poisoned. My mom just told me i had a bad reaction from the medication and to just go back in bed and relax. my doctors office has been closed, so i havent even went to tell my Dr. what happened, & my next therapy appointment isnt until tuesday. I was against medication and hesitent about taking it to begin with my my therapist told me it will change my life around and rid my anxity. Ironically my anxiety and fear is fainting and passing out. Since ive been in therapy ive been getting better but i think this episode that happened last nite has set me back and my anxiety is worser than ever. i dont think i want to go on any medication at this point to cure my anxiety disorder. my therapist told me in the past about cognitive behaviour therapy (sp), and she said that it doesnt work as well as medication. **Has any here been thru the cognitive behaviour therapy or knows anyone who has done it. **Do you know any other methods that can cure my anxiety disorder. at this point in my life its killing me and i so sick of living like this. Please if anyone could help me and respond it would mean alot.
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    you should seek therapy if you feel its the right thing to do. theres nothing wrong with therapy, im in it rite now. it helps me sort out my problems.
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    packages, homemade things. recent pictures, letters. just get creative it dosent mean you have to spend alot of money
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    everyone is differnt, just because you hear a story of someone elses ex coming back wont make your ex come back quicker. Your gona drive your self crazy hoping he will come back
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    ive put on a good amount of weight over this past year in college. i need to get rid of it. ive always been a small girl and i guess in my head i still picture myself as being that small girl. but these past few months i can see a drastic change in my phyical apperence. && its quite bothering me. Im 5'0ft. and weigh 135lbs. before i started school i was between 115-120. i have a small frame. so i really want to get this extra weight off once and for all and maintain it. i go to the gym regularly and ive been going for about 3months now, and nothing has changed. my eating habits are average, i dont consume junk food and sweets. i really dont know what im doing wrong!! any advice on food i can try to help me slim down! or any food i should advoid. i will do anything at this point
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    shes probably still not over the break-up. but that doesnt mean she doesnt like you. if shes venting i say let her, she needs to get it out and maybe it will be a way for her to get over him. But in a way i can see how you get pissed, most girls vent to their girlfriends but maybe she doesnt have anyone to talk too.. humm.. well if this goes on for a another week or two. i would def. say something to her about it like. why are you always bringing up your ex?? ya know? i think she just needs time to heal from the breakup and she rushed into the relationship with you maybe to get her mind off him.. like a rebound?? maybe.
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    one thing i can not stand while having sex when a man asked if you orgasmed yet!!! my ex use to do that all the time, i felt like saying shut up, you would know if i orgasmed or not!!!! i only orgasmed with him a handful of times the rest i faked
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    my job isnt a serious one, i work their while im in college. Me and my manager get along really well. She also knew my friend who passed, her bestfriend is my friends mother. I think ive been okay with mantaining my job performance. yes i can be a little scattered brained and forgetful but thats about it. at my job i answer phones and make appointments, ect. So there really is no right or wrong to it.
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