Hiya,
Me and my girlfriend have a problem, for the first time we tried to have sex last night but we couldnt.
When I tried to insert my penis it wouldnt go in, and she claimed it hurt - I understand she isn't a virgin as she has had sex once before. When I put my fingers up there, I felt a really large hard lump that was obstruction her vagina hole. The weird thing is, its not there when she is not turned on; but as soon as she gets a bit horney it swells up again.
I assurred her it wasn't a problem and we will try and find a way to work around it, we really want to have sex but there is this big problem ahead of us. We do foreplay lots before anything happens although maybe I haven't done enough? I read on other posts it might be her PC gland and maybe she was just a little tense.
Please help.