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well i dont know... but we talk on the phone, and she told me she doesnt like any of the boys there, and we talk on msn alot... any ideas?? lol

he can try flirting with her, if she avoids it then she probably doesnt like him, but if she plays along then maybe, but tell him not to take to the extend, like start small keep going until she relizes or something

i'd say men might, when thier very bored.. but usually they have hobbies to do or something they wont be perverty.. yoour uncle might hang out with friends like him and he probably thinks like that every ten seconds, dunno why, but think of a very busy business man, dont think he'll be thinking every ten seconds

that is strange i guess... it doesnt seem like she's really using you from what you said, she could be just lazy, try having something romantic, and see if shes' romantic about it , maybe a beach walk at dawn, sunset... fi shes like bored of stuff, romantic then she probably doesnt even love you, you can also give her a choice, a party, or something to only with you, private time see what she chooses just wodnering what does the green arrow mean?

i think you should jsut tell him, that you dont want a gf bf relationship with him and wants to be normal friends, but you appreciate his thinking.. flattered ect what ever flatter means... best not to avoid it, if not he'll keep on saying i have feelings for you... and so on... just tell him to stop saying it... and hopefully he gets a gf..

move on, to other girls, like the others said she's most likely not interested in you and probably jsut wants to be friends... and she said she liked you in the end.. but that doesnt really count, probably just to make you happy and make you keep on wondering, if she likes you, and that'll just keep you hopelessly thinking and thinking... so yea just be friends.. and thinking.. and thinking... and thinking.... forever..... forever......... until you forget..... hopefully...... yea...that happen to me before... and it lasted for 2 years.... No angry face sorry

what i think of love is,... well like a relationship love, is when your not around her, you will just think about her, not just the apearence, but probably memories with her, and you'll stop doing something just to see her or hear from her, usually love takes atleast i'd say 1 month least... but usually 4 months i'd say, just saying the month lah... but nvm.. when your not around her and jsut think about her face and the way she smiles, just makes you feel very happy in the spot... just letting you know, or other people ... some people are just atracted to the person they like and probably dont love them, but usually you do anything for her to let her be happy, even breaking up, something like that im sure you'll get the idea now.. lol

yea so for those people that are wondering if a girl likes you and dont know how to know... im sure hopefully some people can help here, OR IF a guy likes a girl.. or something you guys get the idea...

i agree too.... but make sure his a good guy, and if you do date him right, make sure he's not hiding he's real personality like, being all mean or do bad stuff, not only too people older then you, but just keep in mind for who ever you date, date right? lol or what ever you were talknig about

thanks, she's coming soon this year,

hey guys im just thinking, that i know this girl overseas, we use to be in the same school till she left somewhere else, other country, she trusts me a lot and treats me as a very best friend, im the only boy that is one of her good friends, im like 4th in her friend list.. lol ha, well i asked her if shes been liking anyone in her new school, she siad no, the boys ar eall imature nad stuff like that, but i thought since she maybe lonely or bored sometimes, so i asked her if i can call her, so i did, we talked for bout 2 hours, then after that, like every 3 weeks i call her when i can, she sounded pretty happy to talk to me, but anyways im the only one really talks to her all the time on msn, as now shes on holiday and does like the same stuff everyday, but never goes out, jsut to let you know the most important part... were both thirteen. which is the time most people are between child and adult . which annoys me, but im on the adult side it does seem like she is too, so im like the only one that talks to her, even though i reminded her that she has talk to her friends before on the phone for 1 hour.... haha lol her bestfriend, but she didnt remember,. when i was talking to her recently, her uncle thought we were both bf and gf, and told me to be good to her. or typed atleast on her account. shes either telling him that she likes me and wants to find out maybe, or her uncle is just making a mistake, or something so yea,. oh yea help me by the way

if he doesnt spent asmuch time with you as usually other people do in a relationship, then i think you should dump him, its only been 8 days, you probably wouldnt be heartbroken or anything, like other people said, talk to him about what ever is happening that you dont like... (what ever they mention above...) if he doesnt reply, then he is trying to avoid the fact your asking him. but if he doens know and al of a sudden buys you a big present or something, then he probably is taking advantage of you, but to the way he act, it does seem like he is taking advantage of you, and posibbly, ( im not sure, but im sure you know best) have other relationships outside and taking advantages of them to, but you should let it go on for 5 days and see how ti goes.

hey maybe you can tell us the good things about the two guys and then maybe somepeople can help you dicide a bit better, you can email this guy for advice too, link removed