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  1. kuys
    Dont do it. similar story, NC 4 about year, but recently been lightly talking again. I thought Id be fine, moved on with a gf now and all. I sent a bday txt yest, got the "ty". Surprisingly I was affected, but I think Ill be fine now, goin back to NC
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    Now that u mention it seems like every girl I know including my current gf needs drama. whether it be health, family or someone at work that wants to destroy them lol. at least most of the girls that I know have this and it does get annoying after a while.
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    great responses guys, and very much appreciated, ahha and I was too busy with the grammar
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    Hi, my friend asked me to help her out with her personal statment to Law School. I have made some critiques, but just wanted to get a broader range of opinions on it. Any help will be much appreciated, thanks. (working on revised version...thank you for the support) Thanks again for taking the time to help me out. I know, it needs some polishing.
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    its normal, don't worry it'll pass
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    nice thread, made me lol
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    she said no. and she planned it? I think shes trying to tell u something. Man up and tell her ur not happy with this. She will respect u for it, and depending on her reaction ull know what to do.
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    why don't u invite urself, that's not unreasonable, she can introduce you. IF she disagrees, alarms would be set off for me.
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    I have been dating this girl for about 5 months now, its been good so far, she already dropped the L word to me early in the relationship. I couldn't say it because I was still in love with an ex that broke up with me without real reason about a year and half ago. So now she tells me she has a "confession", I joked as long as it's not "youre a daddy" or "I used to be a dude", I wouldn't be worried. She pauses and says, what if it's one of the two...and she wasn't born a man. Thank god she was joking, but in the 5 min that passed in between hearing I wasn't going to be a father, all these thoughts of panic flowed through my mind.I definitely do not want kids and thoughts of abortion, how am I gonna raise them, I do not love her enough to have kids raced in my head. One weird thing I thought about was my ex, and how I wished it was her that was pregnant I already made up my mind a few months ago that I was over her, and she really wasn't deserving of me. Now I'm back to thoughts of trying to get her back, and I still have a gf! I do not like this, why do I pine for a woman that I didn't even date long (4 months), was high maintenance, and wasn't even sure she wasn't using me as a rebound of her bf of 5 years. All I can really say is that with all those things, I was truly happy with her, love really is blind. I don't know how to react to my current gf who is trying to tell me she loves me (before the cruel pregnancy joke), I thought I was happy.
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    this is good advice, but if I just say it's not working out, I would think there has to be a reason why I don't feel the same. That reason is that I still have feelings for the ex, and I do not want to say that to her because that will be spiteful. This will come as a total shock to her, but I'm gonna have to just tell her I don't see myself feeling the same way I guess and do not want to string her along any further... I hope she understands
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    I have a problem, I just got a new gf 2 months ago (but we knew each other for 5), but ultimately realized that I'm still in love with my ex. I broke contact just to say whats up, eventually it lead me to want to meet and catch up, she agreed which was unexpected. I have been contemplating breaking up with my girl before contacting ex, I still haven't ended things, she already dropped the L word, I still havent reciprocated and don't think I ever will. I'm gonna have a meeting with the ex next week, should I mention that I'm currently in a relationship, even though I am going to probably end things pretty soon anyway? please don't judge me because I have a gf and am going to meet with my ex, I am not gonna tell my gf. I thought I'd give the relationship a shot, but I don't think she's the one for me anymore. Even if I dont get back with my ex, I probably will end things with my current gf, I just don't want to hurt her.
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    my opinion is you kept putting on pressure with the asking about kiss and all. Don't even mention it again, she seemed to be on the verge of liking you or not. Just play it cool and have fun. The kiss will happen, don't get too concerned about how many dates it's been. Good Luck.
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    in my case I find myself still thiking about my ex after 7 months and I'm already in a new relationship
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    seems pretty obvious to me
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    Hmmmm..

    kuys replied to RagedSparrow's topic in Sex and Romance

    Haha I caught a cramp last time I was doing it. She told me to relax till it passes, I said NO!
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    I feel you buddy, I went raw and finished inside her, and was worried even tho she was on pill. I was happy when she got her period yesterday, unhappy cuz now I can't get any for a bit.
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    It's been over 7 months now and things are getting a lot better. I even have a new gf, I guess I was thinking about the "ghost" of the relationship like what was said here...just remembering the moments of how we were, but that's what life is. Nothing lasts forever, we live for the moments, we always remember those types of moments, be thankful for those. Good luck.
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    honestly for my standards thats a hell of a lot. I guess I'm drawn to girls who aren't as promiscuos (sp?) I am very picky and have very high standards. Last 2 girls I had relationship with had 2 or less partners in their lifetime, and they are about 22 yrs old now. I would consider them to be very good looking so I don't know if there's a correlation...
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    I'll tell you about my story which just recently happened. I was friends with this girl I liked, but didn't do anything because she was going out with someone and so was I at the time. Couple of months later, I am interested again, I make a couple of innuendos, and subtle touching during the next few weeks. One night I just made a move, we start making out but we stopped. A week later, she calls me says we need to talk...I was already convinced it didn't work anyway. When we met up, she asked me if we became more than friends, would it affect our friendship, I told her I don't really keep in touch with my exes. While taking her home, I said what the hell, and made another move, we fool around for a while and she asks me where things are going...I tell her we're "dating". Right now I'm taking things slow, but definitely went from friendzone to this, it happens.
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    The answer to this is very clear, MAN LAW. Other fish in the sea, how many "best" friends do you have?
  22. kuys
    it's the tongue in the ear for me, that is my sweet spot.
  23. kuys
    cute band rat, I'm curious as to how things are goin i your situation? I wonder how long is too long if she doesn't initiate a meeting, or at least hint at it. I'm about to respond to her tonight.
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    llol it's funny how you mentioned cartwheels Because I literally couldn't sleep after I read that...and I was trying so hard not to get excited, but it felt real good..hope feels good.
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    I know I posted before about contacting my ex of more than 7 months, and but I couldn't resist writing a quick email. 4th of July was the first thing we ever talked about to each other, because she spent it alone in her house while her family went out. We went out till about end of november but we broke up cuz she was pulling away and I was getting too needy when she did, she said she needed space for her new job and she was going through family problems. So I email her two lines friday: know it's been a long time, I just wanted to say hello. This July 4th reminded me of the first time we spoke, maybe this time you didn't watch it through your window at home. I hope things are well. She read it saturday morning but didn't respond, (I checked AOL status), so I said fine, thats ok. I check my mail last night, and I see a response from her, my heart started beating fast...her reply: Hey, How are you??? I hope everything is super!!!!!! And Yes, I didn't see any fireworks this yr either..... that's what happens when you are single 4 so long and your parents leave to florida and your sis is with her man..... I end up alone once more.... how was your July 4th?? Say hi to the family 4 me!!!! I'm not into reading too much into things, but it's interesting how she mentions she's single and alone now, she is a truly gorgeous girl who def has no problems finding anyone. Nevertheless, I plan not to reply till Wednesday, but keep it light for a while, just to take it slow, first contact in a long time. I was kinda down even though I'm dating, new car, business is good, just something was missing, but now I feel real good. It's probably the new hope. This is a different situation to me, I guess I'll keep the emails light and upbeat, not too fast to reply. I don't want to bring "us" up too fast. Also I'm trying so I won't get too hurt if things don't go as I hoped....just sharing with you guys
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