We were on and off for about 9 months, I was honestly in love, she wasnt.
She broke up with me and says she just wants to be friends. I told her I wasnt ready to be friends and have stopped talking to her at this point.
When she broke up with me, she basically said she lied about her feelings to keep me around so that i wouldnt leave her, she knew before hand that if we broke up , i dont talk to my ex's. she didnt want that so she strung me along for a month.
Right after she broke up with me a great girl from work messaged me, and we made plans for a date, i am not sure if she knows about the breakup, she just knows i am single now.
I have been thinking about the leading on thing, we've only had one date so its nothing to worry about now. But if there comes a time to be honest , i will, i am very forthcoming with information.