RagedSparrow

Hey guys, this is mustangsally88's boyfriend, thank you all for your advice, the update is that there was nothing to worry about and everything that was supposed to happen, did (i.e. Period happening on time) Once again, thank you all for your input and advice.

Thank you everyone for your input. as for the temprature problem, i have an above average body temp so i get hot and sweat more easily than others...so i keep fans running constantly in my room. But it doesn't matter how many fans are running, it seems that i cannot avoid myself (And her also) getting drenched. I know there really isn't a cure for this. But anyways, thank you all for your input and advice.

Here is my deal. Anytime my grilfriend and I have sex after eating we end up feeling nauseated (spelling??). This also happens when we get too hot. If there anyway to counteract the nausea?

In my experience, i find that using dirty laundry (usually a white shirt) is the best way to go. Mostly because, i can just toss it in the bin and wash it in the next day or so....buuut, that technique isn't for everyone.

This is funny in my opinion. There were these girls who always said they were interested in personality (that's what they told mutual friends). Yet i could never get a date with them. I was obese and short my sophomore year...i guess i hit my growth spurt late because that summer i grew, and worked out (which is strange cause i heard from some people that weight training actually can stunt growth). Not to brag, but i came back my Junior year 6'3" and benching 265lbs. Needless to say i was buff. What is even more hilarious was that these girls who decided that appearance was more important started asking ME out.. anyways, i got my revenge on them in my own little way.

You might not be comfortable with him, like you and many others have said, but remember thatwomen do have a harder time orgasming. This means that the guy has to work a little harder to get his girl to orgasm before he does. It could be that he just isn't doing it for you. From personal experience, i know that i have to work a little bit before my girlfriend will orgasm. Don't get me wrong, i enjoy every minute of it, but it could be that he needs to spend a little more time with somthing more than his penis between your legs. It's very rewarding for both of you when you both orgasm during sex. And believe me, when he sees and hears you truly orgasm, he will be able to tell the difference. Just be up front with him and let him know that you just aren't quite making it to the big "O" and maybe suggest some ways to help it happen. But like a few others have said, you might just need to work on being more comfortable with him in bed.... it's up to you.

The back of my neck where my shoulders and neck meet.

I'm not sure about depo, never used it nor the patch. But i know that with the pill you ahve to take it every night at or around the same time. with the patch you just keep it on the whole month and take it off at a certian time.

I agree with Italiano. When my girlfriend first went on the pill, I was(and am) still cautious about having sex with her. The first time she was supposed to get her period, it came on Wed. I, not really thinking it through, thought her period was supposed to start, like hours after she stopped taking the hormone pills...so for the next 3 days, i panicked, lost sleep, paced the floors....and everything until Wed...now i don't worry about it as much mostly cause it know it takes a couple days for the hormones to wear off.

My gf has never opposed to me kissing her after oral. She has opposed tongue action after it though, which kind of perplexes me because it's not just the tongue that comes in contact with that region, lol, kind of the tongue, lips, chin, nose sometimes...depends on how into it i get.

I am new here and am just getting to know the forums, but... I know that some guys can put physical pain above physical pleasure. Not saying that sex with you was painful...but here is my example. I produce a more than average amount of body heat. So when my gf and Iget into it, i cannot get too hot or I will start getting sick. Not saying that it was bad for him, but maybe somthing like that arose, i know that there has been at least once i had to stop in the middle because i started getting too hot. Point 2. You say it was a 1 nighter, meaning that he didn't know you all that well, while most guys wouldn't let that affect them, maybe he had a more than average concience adn felt guilty about not gettign to know you more before getting all intimate. This could also be the reason he hasn't gotten in touch with you since then, maybe embarrassment from stopping mid-run. I know that personally, it would kind of embarrass me if i did it. So the best thing for you to do is give it a day more or two and if he doesn't call back, get in touch with him and see what's up..... Just my opinion on the whole thing.