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  1. Dont do it. similar story, NC 4 about year, but recently been lightly talking again. I thought Id be fine, moved on with a gf now and all. I sent a bday txt yest, got the "ty". Surprisingly I was affected, but I think Ill be fine now, goin back to NC
  2. Now that u mention it seems like every girl I know including my current gf needs drama. whether it be health, family or someone at work that wants to destroy them lol. at least most of the girls that I know have this and it does get annoying after a while.
  3. great responses guys, and very much appreciated, ahha and I was too busy with the grammar
  4. Hi, my friend asked me to help her out with her personal statment to Law School. I have made some critiques, but just wanted to get a broader range of opinions on it. Any help will be much appreciated, thanks. (working on revised version...thank you for the support) Thanks again for taking the time to help me out. I know, it needs some polishing.
  5. she said no. and she planned it? I think shes trying to tell u something. Man up and tell her ur not happy with this. She will respect u for it, and depending on her reaction ull know what to do.
  6. why don't u invite urself, that's not unreasonable, she can introduce you. IF she disagrees, alarms would be set off for me.
  7. I have been dating this girl for about 5 months now, its been good so far, she already dropped the L word to me early in the relationship. I couldn't say it because I was still in love with an ex that broke up with me without real reason about a year and half ago. So now she tells me she has a "confession", I joked as long as it's not "youre a daddy" or "I used to be a dude", I wouldn't be worried. She pauses and says, what if it's one of the two...and she wasn't born a man. Thank god she was joking, but in the 5 min that passed in between hearing I wasn't going to be a father, all these thoughts of panic flowed through my mind.I definitely do not want kids and thoughts of abortion, how am I gonna raise them, I do not love her enough to have kids raced in my head. One weird thing I thought about was my ex, and how I wished it was her that was pregnant I already made up my mind a few months ago that I was over her, and she really wasn't deserving of me. Now I'm back to thoughts of trying to get her back, and I still have a gf! I do not like this, why do I pine for a woman that I didn't even date long (4 months), was high maintenance, and wasn't even sure she wasn't using me as a rebound of her bf of 5 years. All I can really say is that with all those things, I was truly happy with her, love really is blind. I don't know how to react to my current gf who is trying to tell me she loves me (before the cruel pregnancy joke), I thought I was happy.
  8. this is good advice, but if I just say it's not working out, I would think there has to be a reason why I don't feel the same. That reason is that I still have feelings for the ex, and I do not want to say that to her because that will be spiteful. This will come as a total shock to her, but I'm gonna have to just tell her I don't see myself feeling the same way I guess and do not want to string her along any further... I hope she understands
  9. I have a problem, I just got a new gf 2 months ago (but we knew each other for 5), but ultimately realized that I'm still in love with my ex. I broke contact just to say whats up, eventually it lead me to want to meet and catch up, she agreed which was unexpected. I have been contemplating breaking up with my girl before contacting ex, I still haven't ended things, she already dropped the L word, I still havent reciprocated and don't think I ever will. I'm gonna have a meeting with the ex next week, should I mention that I'm currently in a relationship, even though I am going to probably end things pretty soon anyway? please don't judge me because I have a gf and am going to meet with my ex, I am not gonna tell my gf. I thought I'd give the relationship a shot, but I don't think she's the one for me anymore. Even if I dont get back with my ex, I probably will end things with my current gf, I just don't want to hurt her.
  10. my opinion is you kept putting on pressure with the asking about kiss and all. Don't even mention it again, she seemed to be on the verge of liking you or not. Just play it cool and have fun. The kiss will happen, don't get too concerned about how many dates it's been. Good Luck.
  11. in my case I find myself still thiking about my ex after 7 months and I'm already in a new relationship
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