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i assumed it's that way at birth. what do you know....learn something new everyday.

mabe it's the fantasy of forbidden fruit, something new, exciting. like the apple which eve gave to adam, that naughty girl.

LOLOLOLOL. no offense taken. that's so funny. i have never had anyone say that to me in real life before. not that i would care. yes, they were all LOSERS. and i was DUMB. but there is a reason they are all gone. i won't put up with that * * * * anymore.

I don't get this friendzone thing. I think of ALL men as friends first unless it changes later on. men must be different.

no. i wouldn't. im not going to risk my feelings and heart for somebody who is being wishy-washy on me. know this: if a guy says he doesn't know what he wants, he doesn't want what he has. then it is time to tell him "goodbye, you are the weakest link" plus i can get a guy who does want me, who does adore me. why would i settle for anything less?

I am really sad to hear your story. You must be in a lot of pain. This is the way I think of it, you HAVE an ETERNITY to die and to dead. forever. you only have less than a century to live, you might as well live it out as best as you can because everyone dies in the end. but in the middle of life, there must be things you want to experience? feel? since you are severly depressed, medication and therapy can help you. when you feel differently, you will think and behave differently and your life will be different. join this: link removed you can always adopt a child and make his/her life special. you have options, they are there, but you have to choose to see them first.

He certainly doesn't understand women. I bet he is sitting home very confused.

Personally, I don't want strange men I don't know grinding up against me. They better keep their parts to themselves if they don't want to feel extreme pain in said part.

This girl isn't a friend. This is the way I think of it, as a girl......I don't think that people should automatically pick and choose sides, but if they are friends with someone, they should open themselves up to hearing the other person's story and consider and observe for themselves. At the very least, as your friend, she should be comforting you, concerned for you, care about you and try to make sure you are alright. I think that that part mabe even more important than the first. Rape is a very serious and scary accusation. As a girl, I would be VERY concerned if I thought any of my friends had been raped. I would probably make her sleep over at my house just to make sure she was alright and I would be very disgusted and angry at the guy. If I thought someone was a rapist, I would want nothing to do with him, to be friends with a rapist? I mean, even in jail rapists are the lowest of the low. How twisted does he have to be to try and get sex from another person that way?! Plus, rape isn't usually about sexual desire. It is about control, domination and power over another person. In my opinion, it is best that you have nothing to do with this girl. She didn't even look out for you when you hung out with her. It is better not to ever hang out with her again - that way you would be protecting yourself from any more possible bad situations, you can't trust someone like that. and Why would you still want to be around her? As a girl......and I think this is girl code..... , but we make sure our friends don't go off somewhere with random guys all of a sudden, especially when drunk or not in a good state. Either way, I know it hurts to lose a friend but there are a lot of girls out there in the world that are way way nicer and better. So even if you lose her, you can find ppl that are better.

That doesn't sound all that bad. But you have to ask urself why you're really upset. Is it because he didn't show enough care about your feelings? Or is it because you felt insecure?

It's possible for a person not to be ready and to not have gotten over a lot of emotional crap. BUT....if someone really likes you, they don't want to risk you going out of their life....Soo....they would at least want to see you sometimes. Mabe not a lot and not often, but at least sometimes. Or they may want to build a strong friendship first.

OOO!! very strange! I always wanted to be designer and a beauty spa owner along with all the other jobs I wanted to do. I really like goals and achieving too. Except I put more on my plate than I can do and end up all stressed out and frazzled. Lady Bugg - Do you own a hair salon? I love to do hair. I cut, style, color - it's my hobby. It's a lot of fun and I know so much about shampoos and conditioners and products. Oh, but I hate making lists. I couldn't plan if my life depended on it. Bondgirl - I usually like to go with spur of moment too. But that gets me in trouble. What kind of agency do you work for? Do you enjoy ur job? Ahh, if only I was superwoman. I would do everything.

he's not a good person. i dont respect him. hopefully, i am better at picking good men now. i would like a genuine good guy. =) but all in good time.

hm wow. she should appreciate you more. it just sounds like she expects a lot and takes it all for granted.

it depends. what size we talking about here? watermelons? car tires? oranges? cherries? oh i dont know......what am i talking about?

my question is, why do u want him?

that's not good...

it's evolutionary biology. it ensures progeny. there must be lots of studies on it. check internet.

i was just venting my frustration. it's a minor irritation but i think that it's been blown way out of proportion. yes, i have a million things to do in the day, housing and rate rates are super duper expensive and i like my parents despite our differences, and i do and have cooked in the past (when i had more free time), and i certainly have cooked dinner for the family etc. but i can't right now, im TOO busy. i loved food network, when i had time to watch tv. but i have not watched tv in months. i love rachel ray, martha stewart, alton brown, tyler florence, etc. etc. i have a million recipe books. i love to eat, go out to restaurants and i cook well. i go grocery shopping with my mom when i can, we go to farmer's markets once in awhile. i am a conneiseur. and i am not bipolar. im not manic. i know what that's like, some ppl i know have it. im cranky and sour. i have too much WORK.

gas prices here are through the roof. women still frequently hit the glass ceiling at work. women are paid 75 cents for a dollar men make in the same positions. so i dont buy into the we are all equal stuff. when women get paid the same as men for the same job..........

mabe she is just being friendly? i think guys read too much into friendliness. way more than woman do. but did you know that scientifically it has also been proven that men have an evolutionary genetic predisposition to do this?

if he is not caring about ur feelings especially when u express them. that is the time to dump. healthy ppl care about other ppl's feelings especially when it is being directly expressed. took me awhile to learn this.

this saying comes to mind and it goes a little something like this...ahem...... "you can run...but you can't hide. MUAHAHAHA" sweetdreams tonight.

the internet. it is a treasure mine. illegal prescription drugs? check. edible underwear? check. chocolate covered spiders? check.

i was thinking chocolate covered spiders..... u know there edible right? it might give a real "kick" to the relationship. but if not...mabe chocolates shaped like spiders.