PutYourBackIntoIt

LOL if he peed I wouldn't feel as bad. I would chalk it up to him being a freak and nothing to do with me lol.

He had a condom on. He pulled out, took it off, and did that. I am so offended, I cried over it.

The guy I've been seeing shocked me the other night. We were getting it on, and as soon as he was about to climax, he pulled out and ejaculated on my back. I was completely shocked. I didn't know how to react so I said "Um ok." I felt like a {mod edit}. I don't really know what to make of it, and I haven't talked to him since and honestly I don't care if I ever do. Am I overreacting?

I would send a card if you can't get to the hopsital to see him. My mother passed away in February from lung cancer, and if you can, spend as much time with him as possible. The day before my mother went into her coma like state before death, I told her I loved her and I'm so glad I did. We weren't very close, as we butted heads all the time but I'm so happy that I got to hold her and tell her how much I loved her before she left.

I thought I had been giving off a vibe that I wasn't interested in him. I never called, if I saw him out I would just say hi and hang around my friends most of the night. So when he stopped pursuing, I was like "Well gee, maybe he thinks I'm not interested." I guess he was the one that wasn't interested!

Yea, I think that's the worst feeling in the world. Getting all dressed up and then he either doesn't call or cancels. I was so mad, told him I wanted nothing to do with him and to never call me again. I think Iwas more mad when he tried to contact me after that.

When he would make plans and break them at the last minute. I knew things were ending, and I'm sure he did too. The last day I ever talked to him, about 2 months ago, he called and said he was taking me out for ice cream. I got all dolled up and he called and cancelled. He was doing this quite frequently and I finally realized it was over. I told him to never call me again, that I wanted to go our separate ways. Did he listen? No. He still tried to contact me. Even had his friends contact me. What a jerk.

OK well I had previously posted in the past week or so about this one guy. Well now I am even more confused that I once was! I thought I had been giving him mixed signals..because he seemed like he had lost interest so I opened up the door by saying we should hang out sometime. I text him last Fri. night to see if he was going out and he said he wasn't. Then he showed up to the bar I was at after I told him I was going to be there. Upon his departure from the bar I tld him to call me this weekend, and he hesitated and basically said he was busy and couldn't. I was a little discouraged and I felt denied, but whatever. Then Sunday, I went to the bookstore to hang out, and he was there looking reaaaalllll busy with his friends. So yesterday he ims me and asks me to go to dinner with him! WHAT!? Everytime I show interest in him, he acts uninterested, and then he comes back around asking me to hang out. We haven't been out or hung out in about a month. What is he doing? Is this some kind of game he's playing? I said maybe to the dinner andtold him to call me next weekend because I was really busy up until then. I was kind of mad at him for rejecting me this weekend. I don't get him. Is this how dating is supposed to be?

Thanks everyone. He has been driving me crazy. I don't know if he's intentionally playing games or what but it is so frustrating. I wonder if he's seeing other people...I have no clue. Sometimes he's really into me, and sometimes he's not. Saw him a week or so ago at another club and he stared me down the whole night. I left without saying bye and the next morning he text me asking why I left without saying bye and asking me how my weekend was. And I was so shocked that he went to the bar on Fri. night. He didn't say he was going to go, so I figured wow he must like me. Rejection sucks...especially when I can't understand why I was rejected. Most guys are falling all over themselves to date me, but this one could care less...and I can't understand why he's not tripping over himself. We have already been intimate..a couple times in fact. Maybe the the chase was over for him? And why does he still talk to me? He will im me every couple of days. Is he trying to be nice so I don't feel bad? I guess it doesn't matter now.

We haven't hung out in about 3 weeks now....and now that I'm trying to initiate I'm getting shut down. I'm a gorgeous girl, make great money, and have a great personality and can get any guy I want but I can't have this one. I haven't come on too strong, I let him chase me...but then he stopped chasing. I think it's time for me to move on. I don't know what else to do and I don't feel like getting rejected again lol.

I posted a couple days ago about a guy I'd been interested in. IT was called "Interested, or am I giving him mixed signals." Well Fri. night I text him and asked if he was going out. HE replied that he probably wasn't going out because he had to get up early the next morning. He also asked where I was headed and I told him what bar I was going to. So he showed up and I was totally psyched! We chatted for a bit..he didn't offer to buy me a drink or anything which I thought was strange. Anyway he ended up leaving an hour later and I said "Ok well, call me this weekend!" He gave me a couple excuses as to why he couldn't call me, and there was some hesitation. He paints murals and he was doing one on Sat and Sunday. I was totally rejected. My friend later that night said "Wow, he realllllly likes you, the way he looks at you and the way his body language is." I told her about the little incident when he left and she said I was freaking out about nothing. She was like "Noooo he reallllllly likes you." Well fast forward to Sunday night. I went to the local bookstore to hang out and read and guess who is there with his friends. I was so embarrassed, espcecially after he rejected me. He probably thinks I"m stalking him or something. I went over and said hi and then I was like "Ok I"ll be right back I need a drink." I got a coffee, and then I went to go find a book to read. I came back and he was gone. I was so sad, he didn't even say bye. Later that night he was online and he imed me asking me why I left without saying bye. I told him that I went to find a book and he goes "Suuuuure." And then he went idle. I don't get him at all. I thought I was giving him mixed signals, but I think he's just not that into me. What do you all think? SHould I throw in the towel?

I remember sending him a quick email last week asking if he ever wanted to hang out before 9pm, he can call me. When he called last to hang out it was around 9pm and it was too much of a short notice. So I did make some kind of initiative but he didn't call to hang out. He's very busy though, so I can sort of see why he never called to hang out. This is the reason I ignored him at the club. I dunno, should I just say "Yo when are we hanging out?" Or something along those lines, or should I give up? He's not really a shy person, but he has never been that forward with me. The only time he was forward was asking me to go to dinner with him. It was a wonderful dinner but is he expecting me to make some move now or soemthing? I thought by sending that email I had made a move...should I try again?

I like him alot, yes. I'm cautious though, I don't want to get rejected. Absolutely terrified. Do you think I have been coming off as not interested in him?

OK so I started seeing someone about 2 months ago. It was very casual, we were intimate a couple times, he took me out a couple times...nothing serious. Lately though, it seems he may have lost interest but I'm not sure. I haven't been sending him clear signals either so he could be pulling away for that fact. I let him come to me usually, I haven't called him once on my own. He stopped calling. He called me last Sunday night and wanted to watch a movie but I told him it was too late. He hasn't tried to see me since. He will im or text me every couple of days but he won't ask me to hang out. I ran into him at the club on Saturday night..and I said hi, gave him a hug, and that was pretty much it. I had written him off at this point because I thought he wasn't interested anymore. So I didn't talk to him the rest of the night at the club. He kept staring over at me, and at one point we locked eyes and I smiled and he shrugged his shoulders in that "Why aren't you talking to me?" kind of shrug. So he stared at me the rest of the night. I ended up leaving before he did and I didn't say bye to him. Well Monday morning he ims me and we made small chit chat. He asked me "So how come we didn't dance at the club? You sat in the corner all night." I told him I was just tired. He signed off and then text me saying he had computer problems and asked how my weekend went. I said "Fine and yours?" and he said "Great hung out with my uncle." That was that, I didn't say anything after that. The next day I imed him and we made small chit chat, but he still hasn't asked me to hang out. Now I'm thinking he's pretty much not interested anymore...but it could be that I've been sending off mixed signals. When we first hooked up, I was the one that had to make a move...he just dropped subtle hints until I finally said something. I have been firm about not being overly eager or coming on too strong, but I think it's also possible that I may be coming off as not interested in him. Do you think if I asked him to hang out it would be bad? Also, I'm very, very attractive, and everyone tells me I can do alot better than him and they don't get what I see in him...do you think he may feel this way too?

Yea, I really think there are other girls. Too bad for him because they will never be me! I deleted him from my MySpace friends list, blocked him from AIM, and deleted his new number. I don't have time for stupid drama and games.