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i think she has had enough time to make a decision. she is just nibbling on both cakes.

holy cow. you have my sympathies. u sound like you live in the middle of nowhere in a small town with a bunch of hicks. my nightmare. i live in a fairly large suburbs next to the big cities and i am still bored. i have met a bunch of ppl who's lives consist of working, drinking, smoking, going to bars, and sex and drugs. and mabe struggling to earn a living, pay bills, and movies, video games and dvds. *sigh* i ask myself, isn't there more to life than that? apparently there are ppl like this everywhere (not limited to where u live). and these ppl are in their mid 20's-mid30's. i kind of think they will live like that the rest of their lives. it's not my business.......but i would think there is more out there......don't they struggle to find more meaning in their lives? which is to say, i wasn't able to get any answers from hanging out with them...i felt like a fish out of water. what are the experiences you are missing out on that you are referring to in ur post?

it's a oft-used figure of speech. also known as KISS. i mean that problems can be very complicated in any relationship. but if two people are really willing to work it out, then often the answer and resolution is much simpler and easier. doesn't mean the answer in itself will be an easy answer......but the process. however, if two ppl are not willing, or if one person is trying to resolve something and the other isn't.......or they just don't see eye to eye...then it makes it tough.

i don't mean that if things don't work out easily ppl should just give up. but i think the solutions should be simpler. it's hard to find the words to describe what im trying to say....

im becoming a strong believer in the above 3 words. (or is it 4?) i read some of the relationship stories here....this and that...so much drama! so much work! so much mumbo-jumbo-hocus-pocus...i think if things are meant to work out, relationship wise etc.....the simple answers are best. otherwise, usually the two shouldn't be together. so what do u think? discuss.

have you no sensitivity to my broken heart? im wailing my pain here.

i have a dream, that one day all the women in this world will realize that the men need us more than we need them. me thinks u forgets who has the power...

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sounds great! u'll be in for the most wicked freeze of your life. they do throw such delightful temper tantrums.

what? ice queens and lady beavers aren't good enough for you?

i most certainly would rule him out. im 5'4 and im not carrying him to bed.

u might have to look for a magical wardrobe.

pshaw. check in the closet first. never know what's lurking there.

i like to jump up and down on the guy and put my arms around his neck or stand on my tippy toes and give him a *SMACK* on the lips. i can't do that if he's shorter....i would have to.....err.....stoop down?

they do say love is supposed to hit you straight on.

u know what? the last time i was on a date, i drove, and guess what? he KEYED my car! how unforgettable. i'm never driving again. if he doesn't drive. i ain't going.

sulley? is that you? u might be right. i think i hear snoring. either that or it's the sound of love. who knew love was like the rumblings of a train track down a lonely midnight rail?

i like them big, tall and strong. like a tree. wood included. okay. u have permission to groan. that was bad.

hush. i know love is lurking under my bed. either that, or it's a monster.

news flash! - as a woman, and a very attractive pretty beautiful wonderful fantastic amazing evil talented one at that........pause.... i already heard about this trick before....just as the guys are aware to unlock the door for me....i am aware to unlock the door for him. so whatcha really learn is that i know what ur up to and im up to it too. game on. let's play.

two thumbs up! more dead on than shooting a fish in a barrel.

u say, "woman, im not your pillow" get thee to hell. works betta than fryin' an egg on a hot summer sidewalk says i.

robowarrior, will you dance with me? let's do the robot.

funny ain't it? it's been 6 months. it was never anything. but i'll still think about him from time to time. it was the first time i was actually happy on a date. first time a guy actually treated me right. i honestly don't know if he's a good guy or not. if he was bad it would be easy to just forget. we clicked though. we just did. it was weird. i never expected to. but i liked him. i just did. i wonder if i am stuck in a dreamland. i wonder why i still think of him. not to say im heartbroken or anything. life is better. even in the bad moments. it's still better than any best moment i've had in 10 yrs. (no, not talking about abuser. that would be gross.) sure. i could date another guy. but i haven't been attracted to anyone in months. don't want to date either. too much stuff to get straight first. but i don't know anyone like him. how am i ever going to be stoked again? that's stoked, not stroked for you dirty bastards out there. oh wait, that might be me.