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  1. QTpie87
    that happened in my last relationship. i think that you should calm down and just talk to him. i was like that and now i realize that i had nothing to freak out about. at the time it seems so horrible and just like you are so mad, but a day later when you have cooled off it seems so dumb. really next time this happened i would take some self time and just think about it. it seems so bad and you'll think you need to be mad and you wont get over it, but trust me you most likely will and in the end you will be glad that you cooded off and then talked to him instead of flipping out.
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    i think thats dumb! i think that if you two want to be friendst then you should. he needs to get a life, because even if he did keep her at home away from everyone he can't stop her from doing everything forever, and she could see whoever she wanted at school and someday she will be all grown up and he really wont be able to choose who she hangs out with. it is non of his business who she is friends with, so i say stay friends and don't worry about it.
  3. QTpie87
    how old is this guy? maybe you should sit down and tell him that you are concerned about your sex life. does he need viagra or something. is he gay? well i don't know. if you would like to talk about it then private message me and i'll get back to ya. well good luck. love Qtpie87
  4. QTpie87
    well i would just let go of it all together, only i do still love him and today things between us got like a million times better after i talk to him, so im just young and very confused. well thankyou all anyway, and i really do listen to your opinions or i just wouldn't ask. its just so much eaiser said then done. well see ya, love Qtpie87
  5. QTpie87
    hey, that is really sweet! i think that you are a great person to just come out and say that you are here to help anyone in need. you thought of others before yourself and that is awesome. if you need anything i am here also so pm me anytime. love ya, Qtpie87
  6. QTpie87
    holy mother! are you playing, only once a month. why? you need to ask yourself something, does he really love you. he is going to strip clubs often and crap. well im sorry but you also need to ask yourself. is this guy worth it? do you really love someone who would ralther go to a strip club then spend his time with you? maybe you guys could work this out if there is really love in it, but man you need to talk to him. if he loves you then he will sit down and talk to you about this. i think that it is so wrong to be dating someone and be doing porny stuff like strip clubs. go talk to him. hey and private message me if you need anything, Questions, to talk, whatever. Love ya, Qtpie87
  7. QTpie87
    well if you want to know that from her then i think it is only fair if you share your feelings also. sometimes girls will say that they only like you as a friend if they are worried that you don't like them back in retern. well i think that you should ask her how she feels. don't try to get it out of her. that is manipulation (sorry i can't spell) well i just think that you want an honest answer from her so give her an honest answer. it sounds to me like she really likes you. go for it dude!well love ya, and if you have anymore questions then private message me. love Qtpie87
  8. QTpie87
    hey, hi im Qtpie87 i see this is your first post here, well this is a great place to talk and get help. there are so many people that have huge hearts and are willing to help. well i don't really know how i can make your pain go away, if i did then everyone would feel good again. i think that it might help you to talk instead of keeping it all bottled up inside though. Im going to send you a private message and it says private messages up on the top of the screen when you log in and all you do is click on it and it shows them to you, so i think that you should pm me back and we can talk whenver you need. im here for you and so is everyone else here. see ya, love Qtpie87
  9. QTpie87
    no i don't think that after a certain amount of time a man should be ready. it's a personal thing, when they are ready then they are ready. maybe he doesn't feel comfortable about someting, or he is afraid. try talking to him about it. i don't think that you should leave him and go separate ways if he isn't ready on time for you. i mean what if you weren't ready? if he really loved you then don't you think that he would wait for you. if that is the only thing wrong in your relationship then i think you are very lucky, a million girls would want to be in love and have the person that they love there with them and i don't think that having to wait should matter if there is really true love in it. well anyway just think about it, you love him right? and he loves you so he should consider the fact that you are ready also -k- well pm me if you would like to talk about it im always here. bye.
  10. QTpie87
    um, well i have heard that sores like that are a form of a sexually transmitted disease, but some people are born with it as they just said. well it isn't anything big to worry about. you can get them from other people by sharing lip gloss or kissing them, but it's not going to kill you, almost everyone has had them. and one fact about them is that once you get one they usually come back in the same spot. but really it isn't like some dangerious thing. so it's okay.
  11. QTpie87
    okay, LIke my comments always are, go ahead and sit down to talk to her. don't get mad while you are doing this. let her know that it is normal to want to see her friends and that she should, but you should get time with her also. im not saying to take her from her friends, that is a huge no no because i did that in my last relationship and i will never hear the end of it. also i hogged my ex and he never really got to see his best friend, well he gets back from mexico and his best friend and a very good friend of mine dies. we both shoul have spent more time with him, expecally my ex. well she does need to spend more time with you alone though. so just talk to her, work it out to where somedays you hangout with your friends she hangs out with hers, you all hang out with eachother, and you two also have time to yourselfs. because just one of those is not a healthy relationship, you don't want too much time together, believe me, but sounds like you def. need more. well pm me back and i'll help you more if you want -k- bye, love Qtpie87
  12. QTpie87
    i think that you two should sit down together at a time while you are both calm and work it out. my ex and i had that poblem, he wouldn't admitt that he was jealous but he would always be like well all the other guys you think are cute don't look anything like me. well all i am saying is just get it out in the open, let eachother know that you love eachother and can trust one another. if you don't do this and start working on it now then you will prob. be sorry latter, just like me. well go ahead and pm me if you want and i'll try to help if you have anymore questions. see ya, love Qtpie87
  13. QTpie87
    im gonna say that i think you should totally hang out with her, that is if you can handle it. i would die to be able to hang out with my ex now. i miss him so much and all i know is that if he called me wanting to hang out i would be all over it. well that is only my opinion though. good luck, and feel free to pm me about it if you have any questions. love Qtpie87
  14. QTpie87
    well as you know (some) my ex was thinking about everything this weekend, about what he wants and if he may want to start over with me. well this is right before first hour and im taling to him 4th. i just gotta know, if you were him, how do you think would be the best way to ask for forgivness and for another chance. im basically spilling my heart out to him. so i just want to know if just asking for it or doing something else would be a good idea. if anyone has any ideas please share! i have another 2 1/2 hours to think this through. thankyou, love Qtpie87
  15. QTpie87
    hi, i think that if you like her that maybe it would be a good idea to sit down in person or on the phone, just no notes, and tell her how you feel. don't act all needy, but ask her why she wants to go back to him if he is so crazy when she says that you are the perfect guy. maybe she just needs a little time to think. anyway good luck, love Qtpie87
  16. QTpie87
    well is that a good thing to you or is it a bad thing. who broke up with who, because if she is the one who broke it off, then i would say it sounds like she may regret it. well best of luck. love Qtpie87
  17. QTpie87
    hey, she has a good question, i myself have wondered about that. how can shy girls be more out going and have more self-esteem?
  18. QTpie87
    i say you sit down and tell her how you feel. if the relationship is good then you two should be able to sit down and work it out. i mean it too. me and my ex went through almost something like that exept for the sexual part and never talked about it, and one day we both just blew up and went crazy. you need to talk about it before something like a really big fight comes on, or (if there already has been a fight) before another one happens. the more you love eachother, the worse the fight, the worse the pain, but if you can work it out the more the forgivness. good luck, love Qtpie87
  19. QTpie87
    hey, im going to send you a pm in about 10 min. saying what i think. hope it helps. love ya. Qtpie87
  20. QTpie87
    hey, That sounds excatally what my ex is going through. what school do you go to? if this is my same school, then i'll be haveing a little talk with her.
  21. QTpie87
    i would just try and trust him and watch out for the whole jealousy thing. i had the same problem with my old BF so i understand that it is hard. but i will start to drive him crazy and make him think that you don't trust him. maybe you should try talking to him about it. that helped me get over it a little. well see ya. love Qtpie87
  22. QTpie87
    so does ood mean something, or did you mean to write odd. i was just wondering. anyway i say that you should just go up to a girl that is nice and start talking like you would to someone at school. i think it's cute when guys act kinda silly. well other then that i have the same problem so i don't know. well i gave it a try. see ya, love Qtpie87
  23. QTpie87
    hey, i sent you a private message asking some Questions that i thought would be important to know before i go shotting my mouth and giving opinions on something i don't know everything about. well yeah, just pm me back and then i will see what i can do. i am here for you -k- love ya, Qtpie87
  24. QTpie87

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    QTpie87 replied to prelude93's topic in Jealousy

    Hey, i sent you a private message with some suggestions in it. maybe it will help.
  25. QTpie87
    maybe sense he doesn't drink he just doesn't want to go to the bar. maybe the bar isn't a place that he feels is fun or he is comfortable at. me and my ex would always go to the mall, then a movie, and then to dinner. do something like that. try getting him to go out paintballing, movies, mall, walking, swimming, shopping, out to eat, lazer tag, have friends come over for a game night ( it sounds like there shouldn't be any alcohol though) tell him you have something planned and take him out to dinner and a movie for a surprise. you say you like the bar, but that is evidentaly not somewhere he likes. sit down with him, find things he likes to do also, and then compromise, a relationship has to be giving. if that doesn't work then i would ask him more about it and maybe be concerned. well best of luck, Qtpie87
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