QTpie87

hey, okay, just so the monaters don't get mad at me. this is not a repeat of a post this is a whole nother Question, just about the same thing. okay so i have been broken up with him for almost two moths now. the thing is that he keeps on doing things that you just don't do with your ex. he calls me on the phone, comes up to talk to me at school, hangs out with me, and the other friday he spent all day at home with me so he could spend some time with me because of how i complained that i wanted to see him a little more if we were going to be friends. well i ended up giving him a really long back rub and he gave me one back, only he wouldn't give me one unless i took off my shirt, he says it's uncomfortable on his hands, lol, yeah right. well i did, but then he leans down and he says i know how i could really tick you off, and then he grabs me and turns me on my back so i was laying on him belly to back. well i didn't even have a bra on. he was respectful about it though. he didn't look and he asked if he could if he was going to and we layed next to eachother under the covers for like an hour. Well he also sneeks into my room at night once in a while to watch TV with me and talk. it's kinda odd though because he still wrestles me, tickles me, hugs me, rubs my back and neck, and this may sound odd but he gives me titty twisters, but not in a mean way just like he is messing around, it also tickles me when he does that so he will do that to try and make me lauph, and he doesn't care if i jokingly poke or pinch his butt. so what do you think is going on. i thought that maybe he still liked me, but since this has been going on it really seems like he does. do you think he still likes me? well thankyou everyone. love QTpie87 8)

so then. i have a post on here right now about flirting and trying to get my ex back. well are there any exact things i could do to get him looking and interested? also, what is something that i could do for him that would be really nice to apoligize for something kinda messed up that happened. he already said sorry, but i want to do something for him. well what turns a guy on more then anything (in order to flirt and get his attention on me and not other girls)? i want to totally blow him away. so any ideas. anything that would maybe shock him, but in a good way. and well yeah. thanks a lot everyone for your help. this girl that thinks she is going to get her dirty paws on my ex, which she wont because he wants me back first when he isn't having anymore problems and doesn't want her because he wants what we used to have, wont stop getting in his face and trying to flirt. she is a total barbie and i am like mad because she thinks that she is better then me and no one is better then anyone. so anyway she just keeps trying to be all cute and all, so how can i be way Cute to a guy? what makes a girl so cute, personality and looks. because i want her to back off before i break her little barbie body in half. thanks. love Qtpie87

Hey, okay so im working on getting my ex back and i was just wondering. what do guys find really attractive. i will do anything to get his attention. what do i wear, how do i act, what little flirty things will drive him crazy, how could i flirt with him ( no other guys involved in this one) to make him so he can't think about anything else? i want to make him insaine and want me really bad. please help.thanks, love Qtpie87 SHIBBY 8)

okay, so for those of you who have read and replied my other posts about me and my EX thankyou very much. so anyway. we are good now, exept that he is starting to kind of like this other girl and he doesn't want a GF right now. however he said that he would try and take me back and give me another chance before he did anything with her. so thats a definate step forward. well he is paying more and more attention to her. so how can i get some more of him attention without clinging on him and making him feel trapped. well what do guys like? and how should i flirt and do other stuff like that to get him attention? well thanks. and oh yeah, i will do anything you guys suggest i really want his attention, just in a good way that will help him like me again. thanks love Qtpie87 8)

hey, so i put a post on here about how My ex and i ended up doing it last night and it ended up he just wanted some and didn't really mean anything (love) and well today i talked to him and he is so horribly sorry that i can not stay mad at him. i love him so much. well heres the thing. last night when i was mad at him he was like go ahead and tell anyone you want because he thought it would make me feel better, i told him that i wouldn't do that to him out of respect for him, however i did it anyway. and know i feel horrible. i told my friend just because i needed to tald, but i also told someone that has a rather large mouth, i really didn't know that she would say anything. I told my ex that i had told them because i felt like he had the right to know and now that we aren't fighting about it any more i feel like the biggest @#$%! in the world. he is so worried that it will get around school which it prob. already has and he will be known as the player with a !#$% for a brain. well, i don't know what to do now. he forgives me and he said he had it coming to him for what he made me think he did that for, but i don't think that he does deserve it at all. he has always treated me so good up till the last month or so and i have been telling him what a horrible person he is for hurting me over and over and over again just to repeat it, but now i am the one who hurt him. how can i try and make it up to him. i said sorry, but he deserves more than that because i love him. Any ideas? P.s. i think that i may be pregnant but i am too embaressed to go and buy pregnancy tests. the thing is for people that know about side affects of pregnancy is that i have been getting, and please don't hate me for asking this i know its gross but i really get a lot of help on things from you guys that i cant really ask anyone else, welli have been getting constipated, and not really hungry but i have been craving things and i have been really really tired and i have had some pains in my stomach so i haven't gained any weight yet but if u were to be pregnant then i think i would only be about one month along at the most so what do you think? please i love everyone to give their opinions because i can get honest answers here and you guys just really mean a lot to me and help me through out a lot of rainy days so thanks. well thanks for listening love QTpie87

well, i think that for your boyfriend he will understand if you can't buy him something really nice because of money problems, however it should be totally okay with him because getting things is not what the holidays are about. i say that you take a blanket and go somewhere quiet and look at the stars all night and tell him how much he means to you and how much you love him. that would be the best gift he would get. and as for your sister, write her a letter and thank her for the computer. ask her to come see you so you can spend some time together. call her on the phone and wish her a marry Xmas. well it's just an idea, but i think it will do. see ya, love Qtpie87

so last night my ex came and got me from my house because he said he wanted to talk. well, he was acting like he might want to fix things and get back together and he said that he was like way sorry and he pulled me over and started to hug me and then he started to try and kiss me and i let him and one thing went to another and we ended up having sex and then like after it all he was like i shouldn't have done this and i don't have those feelings for you anymore. it hurt me really bad. i thought that he was doing it for the same reason as i was ( because i love him of course) and he wasn't. he talked to me on the phone last night and said that he was sorry that he had done that and made me think that he still loved me like how i love him and it's not good enough for me. it really isn't! sorry will not fix anything. why do i still love him? i can't control my feellings anymore. i cant deal with this. i thought that he was starting over with me when he did that! he knew that he wasn't all along. he knew that it would hurt me and he could have stopped himself and told me the truth. well what do you think? he says he will make it up to me, but how? i really don't think that he can make it up. any input???!!??

wll how can i let him know that i still love him without freaking him out. he already told me a few weeks ago to stop telling him that because he thinks it's me trying to make him feel bad and get back for me. i don't need him i just love him and i want to be together. i love him so much. i want to know how, any tricks or ways to kinda get them back. i love him and i would give up everything i have for him. i would be living on the cold street and i would have nothing and still be happy as long as i knew that he loved me and that he wouldn't leave me. so do any of you know how i can get my snuggle bear back, thats what i used to call him i know he still loves me i think that he is just trying to figur things out. well do you have any suggestions? oh yeah, does anyone know what shibby means?

8) okay, so my ex said that he wanted nothing to do with me, but about a week later, last night, he called me on the phone to see how i was doing. the day before he called me, from salt lake where he is visiting his family, i was hanging out in town with my best friend and his best friend, my ex's best friend i mean and mine, and we all went out for chinese and i was talking about my ex and his best friend was all, you know what he doesn't hate you, he still cares about you and you would know if he hated you. so then last night the night after i talked to his best friend my ex calls me. so he told me like two weeks ago that he just needed some space and then like a week before last night when he called me he said that he wanted nothing to do with me. so maybe the whole space thing and backing off is working. do you think that he might want me back. we went out for 11 moths. well thatst the best i can put it, please reply. thankyou, love Qtpie87 0X

okay, lets just look at what you said. your other friends are cool with it, but your best friend isn't. that is messed up. if she is really your best friend then she would take you for who you really are. you could have kept it a secret, but you chose to be a true friend and let her know what is going on in your life and how you are changing. you should make it clear to her that you don't have those feelings for her, after all she is your best friend not a crush. what you choose ( if you like guys or girls or both) wont effect her. if she is acting like this because of she is worried about what others will think then that is messed up too. you should tell her that you don't care if others don't think that it is right or not. it is your choice and you shouldn't have to be what everyone else expects of you and if you were really her best friend and you mean that much to her then she will let you be an individual and be who you really are. just ask yourself this one Question for your benifit, why was she your best friend to begian with and if something like that can do this to you two then was it really a good or true friendship at all. ask her that Question also. Well best of luck and if your friend can't take you for who you are then her and find a true bud. good luck, love Qtpie87 0X 8)

Okay, i just don't want to go buy any because( im not a slut i just dated him for a very very long time and i love him) i am not even 17 yet. i am 16 and i live in mormon town so you know how those people at the store would be looking at me. and i don't want to go to the dr. because if i am then i want to be the only one who knows for a while and be able to think it through. you know what i mean. i want to be able to find out all by myself.

Hey. okay so i was on birth control so i don't really know why im worried about this, but i don't want to go to the DR. about it and don't want to go and get pregnancy tests so is there any aother way that i can tell ( not the obvious) if i am pregnant or not. im worried. so please help. thanks, love Qtpie87

hey, guess what im here to talk to. i'll talk to you anytime. i have the same ( like really the exact same) problem as you have. my boyfriend of 11 months dumped me and now for the last almost month i have been like totally miserible. nothing makes me happy. NOTHING i feel like i don't even really have a soul anymore. I WANT TO TALK TO YOU, PLEASE... we could help eachother. you can't say no one is there to talk to about anything now, because im here to talk to and i will be here as long as you need to talk-k- love QTpie87

i am sick of everyone. i am still in love with my ex and he doesn't care. I'm not good enough for my mom. i have like five friends including my ex whom i never really get to see (any of them) i just don't see the point. what are we all here for. i used to believe in fate and now it's just a bunch of crap to me. i also kinda believed that we are all here to learn one thing and understand it and until we do we will be here, in this hell hole. i think that if that is true that i am to learn how to be all alone and lose the people i love the most. i lost one of my best buds in a car accident and now i lost my boyfriend( not to death he just hates me) i think i was sent here to learn what pain is and learn that there really isn't anything that can fix it and non of that time will fix it BS either. i thought about making my ex kinda jealous and see if that would bring him back. and for a while i thought i liked his best friend, but i can't have anyone i love. everyone thinks (my ex) that i am just throwing a huge pitty party, but how is it a pitty party if it is really how i feel? it all i don't even know what i am taling about or how to say it or even what to do. there is nothing that can make me feel better. 0X

6] hey, so most of you prob. know my situation because of how much i have been posting on here latly. well okay so i guess i have been going about trying to get my Ex boyfriend back all wrong. My aunt says that guys don't really care as long as they think that you want them and love them, but if you start to ignor them(not completley just you kinda make them think that you don't care as much) and you get like drop dead hot everyday(just really care about how you look) and you start walking around and taling to a whole lot of different guys then that will make them jealous and want you to pay attention to you. okay so im not saying to totally not talk to them just don't unless they come up to you and then you could be all like hey hows things going and all. and then just be all oh well i have to go and talk to "some dudes name", but you never say the same guy two times in a row so that he won't think im falling for anyone. So i know i didn't word that very well, but Guys do you think that might bring back some feelings from him for me and maybe make it so he wants to talk more and know whats up? well thanks love QTpie87 8) [/size]

okay, so for a few days i thought that i liked my ex's friend, but i was wrong i was just stressed out and he is easy to talk to. well i am head over heels for my ex and would do anything to get him back. i wrote him a note and told him why he meant so much to me and i made him all these promises that i will keep if he can only give me a chance. well it said that i loved him and it said why and i told him the fun times that i remembered and why i started acting kinda crazy and i told him that it was my fault and how i just want to start over because i believe that we are ment for eachother and we could learn from what happened. well those of you that have read my other posts about how much i care about him, what do you think. if you were him could you take me back? well? thankyou all, love Qtpie87 8)

i have two loves. i am in love with my ex and am falling in love with someone i can never have. how can i get him. he has a gf, my friend to be exact, i cant hurt her. they aren't really going out because her parents made her break-up with him. even if i did have a chance my Ex doesn't mind,but he says that he will prob never go out with me, because of some rule that guys have to never date their ex's, although my ex says it wouldnt bother him at all. what do i do. do i keep it inside or tell him how i feel? i am going through hell right now i want my ex back, but he is falling for some barbie and i hate her.

WAz Up! Okay so i just got dumped by my boyfriend like almost three weeks ago and i have defenatly been going through the pits of firy hell " really" well he has started to like this other girl and it really hurts because i still love him and he wont have me back, well to get to the point i have been so confused because he was my first BF and i am almost 17, well i went out with him for 11 months and we are still buds, but he wants me to date other people and i have always had this thing for his best friend and i just realized that it is way more than just a thing. i really like him! he is a total doll and he is a lot like my EX(only more sensitive, not a bad sensitive) well i still and always have a deep love in my heart for my ex. he knows that i am starting to really have feelings for his friend and he says Quote" good luck." on Quote. he really doesn't care if i were to date his Best friend and still wants me as a friend. is there anything wonge with that? well that is only the start of the case. He(the one i like) has a GF, but only kind of. see she is only 14 and he is almost 18 and her parents made her break up with him, but they still sort of like eachother, allthough i don't think that that is right to do to him, because she can not go back out with him until she is 16. he will be 20. Then just to continue the problem she is like one of my bestfriends. i dont want to hurt her. i wont hurt her. i care too much. well she knows somewhat about this only she doesn't know that it is her. i talked to her about it and she asked who it was and i just told her i was thinking about it and i didn't want to tell anyone until i sorted things out. i have to tell her. i think that i will just tell her, but make it clear that i will not make a move as long as she likes him. should i? what should i do? Then the yummy cherry topping my ex says i don't have a chance with him. but like he can read everyones mind. what if i did have a chance. i always thought that he was a sweetheart and had some feelings for him, but i just thought that they were like friend feelings and now i know that they are definatly more than just friend feelings. i want to start going on dates. should i just keep it all bottled in and store it away forever, should i go for it and talk to her first, should i just forget him, oh god i don't know what is happening to my feelings they are just out of controle right now and im clueless. please ANYONE help me i need so many suggestions. [/b]

Hey, so would you please clarify what you really meant in all of that. i am going through a really hard time now also and may be able to help, but only if i know why you feel the you do and what happened to you. Well? i have also been going through suicidal thoughts, thats all i really got out of that. hey Privite message me and answer a few Questions so i will really understand. First, why do you feel like this, you may not know for sure but you should have some idea of what started it all? Second how old are you? that should do, don't want to ask for too much info and freak you out. hey i understand what you mean about the whole "oh things will get better, life goes on", bullSH@# though so really just answer back and i will see if i can relate and poss. help. keep smiling, love QTpie87 8)

well that sounds like an idea, only i want to come on a little more strong in the whole i want to get to know you thing. hey if any guys read this then tell me would it freak you out if a girl never really talked to you, but she came up to you and said, " hey you know i was thinking about it and i want to get to know you, you seem like a pretty cool guy and maybe we could go hang out on saturday and get to know eachother." what do you think about that? like honestly because i don't want to sound lilke a stocker or some freak that well ya'all know what i mean. today is a short day at school for us and it is already 9:40 and 4th hour. i have him my 7th hour so i only have like an hour and a half to figure out what I'm going to do. another thing is he is popular and im not because i get along with everyone at school and i don't segregate people, but I'm still wondering if he wont want to hang out because of that fact. 8) well thankyou. please keep the inputs coming. love QTpie87

Hey, before i have posted about wanting my ex back, well he just wants a little space and thinks that i am young and should date other guys so that i can know all that is out there. well i still am very in love with him, but i decided to back off a little like he wants and start going on some dates. i just want him to be happy. So heres the deal, i liked this guy a few years ago and he is in my english class now and my friend and i were going to see if he would like to get to know me and go out on some dates. One problem, my ex is the one who asked me out, i don't know if i can do it. Im so shy and i haven't even ever really talked to him. So my friend thinks that i should just walk up and be like hey baby, but that isn't really me. well its today that i am talking to him so please help. thanks love QT

well everyone i feel like i am in the movies. i have lost the love of my life and it's my fault. he doesn't want me right now anymore. he said maybe latter but not know and it is all because of me. i was selfesh and i didn't treat him as well as he should have been. i have tried everything to get him back. i knew that i loved him but i never knew that i loved him this much. i believe that he is me solemate and know i lost him forever. please tell me anything to get him back. How can i show him how much i love him? How can t prove to him that i can treat him better? how do i tell him that i have made the biggest mistake of my life letting him get away and not fully showing him how wonderful he is. he is the best man on earth. there is no man in the universe that could hold a candle up to him. i have really blown it. i lost my sole mate. i have lost the only man(person to be honest) that i love. i would do anything humanly possibe to get him back. should i ask him for 2 weeks to prove to him how much i love him and to give me another chance. please everyone, i swear to god that if you will help me get him back that i will never treat him any less then he should be. i want to spend the rest of my life with him and i want to have his children and i want to grow old with him and love him with all of my heart. please you guys are my only hope. :

please someone, i need him back so much i love him with all of my heart. i would do anything for him, but he doesn't want me right now. i love him and it hurts how on earth can i get him back. please please please please help me!!!!!!!!!!! i need him. please everyone answer me asap i can't take it anymore i know if i did the right thing that i could get him back but i don't know what the righy thing is right now, i have told him that i love him. and gone into many details on how much i love him and how i would do anything for him. please tell me what to do. love Qtpie87

Hey sweetheart! i told you to come and read my post so i hope you might understand a little. you know what go to the login at the top of the screen and register it's totally free and all you have to do is fill some stuff out. i wish that you would write me back on this post. i love you.

okay so if you have already read my post of about 3 hours ago or not i have another thing to ask-k- so how should i go about telling my ex-boyfriend how much i care about him. i can never make him fully understand and i love him so much. i would give my life for him. should i tell him and then grab him and give him a kiss or would that just freak him out ya think? well i will do anything to make him get it. i think i still have a chance to get him back and i am seeing him tonight. so what should i do. eveyone always says just tell him how you feel but that never works because he doesn't understand, prob. because i am not very good at expressing myself and when i try and i can't i just end up getting mad. i don't want to get mad. i want him to know how badly i need him and love him and how i would do anything for him. if i had the choice i would go to hell just so he could have a good life. he is going through so much right now and i know that i will never be worthy of him, but i he will take me back i would be the luckiest girl to ever live. i want to spend the rest of my life with him and be there for him. please help me. i will keep posting here until i can get an answer from someone. i have gotten some suggestions so thank you to those who have tried to help me. just please understand that he is my life and the only one who has always been there for me and i messed up and i want him to know how sorry i am and how i want to always be there for him. thank you so much. love Qtpie87