QTpie87

hey, i think i could die in a heartbeat i dont want you to think that there is no hope ok talk to people and keep in mind that there are so many people that love you in this world even if you don't think so. i know first hand because one of my friends that i loved very much just died on wed. and he was my boyfriends best friend for over 13 years im 15 and he is 17 and his friend was 17. he felt cornered and like knowone cares but after going to his house and to see his body i know that he must know now that he is with god. he didn't do it cuz he wanted to even though he had depression he just fell asleep behinde the wheel and yeah. but just think about it ok. i love you. love QTpie87.

its okay that your asking yourself this question for example i have been going out with my boyfriend for 7 months now and when i am around him no matter how sad or mad or whatever i am i just feel better around him i think you will know if you really love him. its like you think of him before yourself and you know that you would do anything for them. and when they love you back its awesome you can be throughing up with your hair up in a pony no make-up all pail and it wont matter they can look into who you are and think (know) that you are the most beautiful person on earth and you mean the world to them. same goes for you. just ask yourself these questions and then choose for your self. what does this person make you feel like? is he the best person in your life? would you do anything for him same for him. love ya QT.

ok, so me and my BF have been getting really into things and im only 16. but i have a Question for anyone who really knows what they are talking about hopefully and older person then me. ok the other day me and my BF were doing some stuff but we never really wanted to have sex and his u know kinda went almost all the way in and we freeked out and it happened a few times and i want to know if i am still a vergin of not i know this is a way dumb question but i need to know because we are both vergins unless that changed it and im just like freeking out and i heard that most girls bleed when they do that but i didn't but i also heard that if you use tampons then sometimes you wont and i use them im sorry im just freeking out please help me please. and don't mess around with jokes im really sad. i just want to know the truth. thank you love QT.

okay, so i don't mean to sound like a B#$@% of anything but i can't even start to tell you how aweful that is. i have been seeing my boyfriend for about 7 months now and he would never do anything like that to me and i love him so much that i would die if i ever found out that he had i don't know what to tell you i want to cry i could only hope that i don't know you because i think if you really care about someone that you wouldn't dream of ever doing anything like that. My BF and i fight everyone does and you know what i have been jumping on his A@$ for the smallest things ever and we still love eachother more than anything my prob is that i have been having probs w/my father and other mental things that i am trying to fix. anyway maybe you aren't getting along because you need to sit down and talk. Maybe something is really hurting her or even you snd both of you are not telling the other person because it hurts too much. When i talked to my BF about my dad he kept asking me what was wrong and i wouldn't tell him because it hurt and it was difficult for me but when i did it made me cry forever and he sat outside my house with me till 2 am helping me and talking to me until i felt ok. so just think about that you think about what she or you may be going threw right now and how much worse it could make it if you mess up your relationship by doing this. see ya QT

i know this is very long but if you want help please read it all. . Hey, I am very sad for you. it makes me want to cry. i think that if you really love her and she still loves you that you should try and work it out. Now im not saying that dudes don't have the right to love video games and all but think about it if she was out doing her hair and nails w/her friends 4-5 days a week and stayed out way late and didn't come to bed with you wouldn't that hurt your feelings a little like she didn't care to see you? . i think you sound like a wonderful person and are prob. a very good boyfriend however you have to remember that a girl needs to be talked to, listened to, held, and all that other girly stuff. a relationship is not just knowing who eachother are and dating. it's listening and showing how much you care about this person. I am in a very good relationship right now and i think he is the one. but we get along so well because we can sit there and talk to eachother without having fights. but really if you want to know how to keep her happy. this is what my BF dose he gets home from work and almost always comes to see me he talks to me about what went on that day and i listen because it is important to him even if it isn't something i would be all into and all and he listens to me no matter what it is also because he knows it means something to me. . we like to sit around and just talk and cuddle. even if she is not a very cuddly person sometimes people need to just be held and talked to. make an effert to try that and find out what goes on in her everyday life. for you also. know on monday when you call her this is what i think might work. tell her you want to see her in person and you could buy her some flowers. it dosen't have to be anything fancy of cost alot it can be something nice and simple. for example i would go with the white daisy with the yellow middle. they are cute yet give the point. then take her to the park with a blanket and some sandW's and drinks(soda dude) 8) then you wanna know something sure buy stuff works for some girls but it really dosen't mean as much as just being with eachother and having a good time at home, at the park, at the lake, just anything love dose not require money if it did me and my BF would not be in love so think about that yeah once in a while you could get her something cute but if you do it too much it wont mean as much. when you are at the park( i recall you saying she was stubborn, thats gonna be okay i am also) she might act like she is angery with you and this means nothing to her but look ask her to look at you so you can talk to her. tell her how much you miss her and still love her and when you do that look at her with those eyes that guys have that are like so cute puppy eyes and tell her how you feel about her and how much you love her it sounds like it wont be very hard to do and it might not be but if it is thats ok but if you really do love her and it sounded like you do then tell her open up your heart to her and let everything out. i bet she will still love you and you just need to start over and try. good luck. really! love QTpie87 . p.s. if this doesn't work then just know you tried and if she dosen't want you back maybe she will in a while or maybe there is someone else out there for you. post me back and let me know how it went. Im here to talk anytime. love ya.

Hey, I think im in a bit of a mess. i have been having some emotional probs and don't really know what to do. My boyfriend is always thinking something is wrong with me and he is right. he says he can tell, like a gut feeling. anyway i don't really know whats wrong. i know something is, but what? I have been going to this person to talk to about getting medication for depression. MY mom thinks i need it. MY DR. thinks so, and my boyfriend has been on it before and thinks i need it also. I think it couldn't hurt trying. anyway i keep feeling like for some reason he is going to dump me even though i know he isn't becaus i have talked to him about it and he keeps telling me its okay. I keep feeling down for no reason and try not to but it just makes it worse. he asks me whats wrong and i don't know what to tell him because i don't know. I am deeply in love with him and he is with me. what should i do? am i loosing it?

Hey, U know I live in a really small town also so it is hard to find something fun to do sometimes. Well anyway sometimes me and my boyfriend will just rent a move and hang-out or if you have something like a mall go cruz that for a few hours. sometimes it is nice just to sit around and talk or go to the park and hang-out there. hope I helped.

OK, so I am like so in love with this guy that I have been going out with 4 about three months. He tells me he loves me all the time and I love him. the thing is that we see eachother A LOT and thats ok its just it is getting to the point were we have talked about everything and know everything there is to know about eachother and now i don't know what to talk about. I am fine with being quiet, but I think he is getting tired of it. Please help!

What? Why do you say she broke your heart everyday? Its cool if you don't want to say, but that makes me worry a lot because me and my boyfriend see eachother every chance we get and if something was making him think like that I would want him to talk about it with me. I think that you should try talking to her first, she may love you very much and not know whats the matter. Good luck!