Confused-guy

She Used to Love me Alot and i can see it from her actions and behavior when she is with me, she used to message me everyday through Handphone. she the one who starts a conversation first. now it seems that everything seems to turn sour. She look bored and say that she is bored when she is with me. we don hug or kiss anymore(been 1 week). She also once said indirectly that she is losing intrest in me. I was shocked and sad, then i ask her if she wants a break up and whether she likes me anymore??? she ans back that she never said that she don like me anymore and she looked pissed off when i ask her that... She now is not eager to go out with me and spent time together anymore!!! Is this the end?? but when i ask her abt whether she is serious abt me?, she say that the honeymmod period is almost over but it may come again and we can stay together and built a good commitment relationship, she even talk about being my wife one day... if she don have strong feelings for me anymore why bother to be my wife one day??? We talked like a Long-bored married couples sometimes!!! she also once said that if we don seems to enjoy each other company anymore that's means we are not eant to be together anymore... DoEs ThiS Sounds LiKe End Of Da Story betwEen Us Or She IS getting More MaTuRed AnD PraCtiCal???

Hi, I get to know this girl, She got special feelings for me but she also stucked with her last EX, she still in the process of forgeting him...... (they broke off for 1 month already) Recently i got fed up and said just be fren and we can't be so close..I am tired of going after a girl who hesitate to be with me. At first she said Ok with being just frens... then as day passes by she get over worried that i won't go out or talk to her anymore!!! She even can't sleep well at night becos of it!! she will Msg me in the middle of the night!! recently also she always irritate me by kept calling and messaging me!!! what the hell she is doing?? i kept reassure her that if she wants to go out with me it's fine with me... now also i don really love her that much anymore... now i don feel anything when she goes out with her last EX anymore and i am not jealous anymore... i treat her like a fren now although i still got some residual feelings for her... I think i should let time heal her wound and let her forget her ex then maybe i day i woo her again... but i sometimes also think that she may not able to forget to forget her ex as her ex always wanted to meet her and kept asking her for a patch up....... >>>>> We Are Together as dating couples again as she said that she still likes me and missed me so much as we are not meeting so oftens as before... i give in to her and try to make thing works... then now after we spent everyday together, she said that the feelings is not so strong as before and she looks and act bored when with sme now, not like when she wants me back and said that maybe we are not meant be together afterall!!! F*ck HER!!! It really hurts me, she kept hurting me like this... when i am there she don treasure me but when i am gone she missed and try to contact/comunicate with me like MAD!!! she did all that when i have almost forget completely abt her in my heart!! after she won my heart, she did it again!!! What Should i do with this BlTCH???? Even if She Beg that she wants to be with me in future, I Should Just tell her to F*Ck Off??? We Have Not Officially said we wants to be just frens or More Than That now as she is still unsure!!! Must I wait Tills she is sure??? Sld i be just frens with her or special fren when she is making her mind??? when we have a mutual agreement that we are just frens last time, she starts her funny actions such as holding my hands and kissing me..... and once the feeling was so great between us- We Have SEX!! when we are just FRENs!!!! Now She Don dare to say that we are Just Frens or That She don like me anymore but she sometimes say that she is not sure that i and her was really meant to be together!!! but i just have to take 2-3 days off and she will missed me usually......

Hi, I get to know this girl, She got special feelings for me but she also stucked with her last EX, she still in the process of forgeting him...... (they broke off for 1 month already) Recently i got fed up and said just be fren and we can't be so close..I am tired of going after a girl who hesitate to be with me. At first she said Ok with being just frens... then as day passes by she get over worried that i won't go out or talk to her anymore!!! She even can't sleep well at night becos of it!! she will Msg me in the middle of the night!! recently also she always irritate me by kept calling and messaging me!!! what the hell she is doing?? i kept reassure her that if she wants to go out with me it's fine with me... now also i don really love her that much anymore... now i don feel anything when she goes out with her last EX anymore and i am not jealous anymore... i treat her like a fren now although i still got some residual feelings for her... I think i should let time heal her wound and let her forget her ex then maybe i day i woo her again... but i sometimes also think that she may not able to forget to forget her ex as her ex always wanted to meet her and kept asking her for a patch up....... What da hell should i DO>?????? I Am FEAK ouT!!! She Loves me She Loves Me NOT????

Hey, I likes this 1 girl and the girl likes me too.... but she said that she donno me well enough to Love me and be with me forever and stuffs... and she said that her special feelings for me has been decreasing day by day as i like to complains abt her way of life( drinking, clubbing,smoking and stuffs)... i onli tries to change her!!! what's wrong with that??? she said that 1 day she fear that after she loved me, i will leave her cos of her bad habits!!! Have I Just Blew my chances away??? Or Should I try again to restore back her liking 4 me and even the love for me?????

I got To Know This Girl last 3 weeks when she just broke off from her bf... i have liked her since past year but she got bf at that moment and i did not know... Now that I am with her, i found out that she still goes out frequently with her Old EXs... there are 3 EXs altogether.... somtimes it seems that she rather goes out with her Exs than me.. That really pissed me off and i think i am gonna leave her now... Am i un-understanding and jealous or this is what i should do and don't let a girl walk over me just like that???? I met one of her EX(the 1 she just broken off with) before he is a nice guy but then i am Her Bf now the rest is HISTORY!!! why bother????

any1 out there got suggestion on how to completely forget abt ur gf when u are seeing her almost everyday??? i really wanna forget her.... I used to love her like hell and it is decreasing day by day as she kept breaking my heart... but now i am not satisfied with it... i wanna forget her completely... is there any tips to forget a Girl??? Completely Miserable now.......

Hi, this girl has just broke off from her last 1 and half year relationship.... it is 3 weeks ago... From then i started to get close to her... she noes all along that i liked her for abt 9 months already... she also noes that i am serious abt her.. She told me on our first day out(before she broke off with he bf) that she used to have a crush on me when i told her that i liked her then but she just wanna stick to her bf then.... abt 1 and half week after her broke off, we started to hold hands and we mistakenly can't control our temptation, we have sex 1 night... on the third week now she we goes out and act like normal couple. we kissed almost in our every date.... she told me that i am not her boyfren yet... Although she have a crush on me, she does not feels confident that we will be together forever... she don love me that much yet she says... AM I A REBOUND GUY??? she says that she don wanna get into a relationship with me as she says that if she did that she will hurt me more... she says she needs time to forget her EX completely and start to Change the crush into LOve for me so that we can have some long-term relationship.... I really feels like i am her rebound guy and nothing much... day by day i try to forget her and she told me that day by day she feels closer and closer to me... I told her before that if she wants me onli as a fren, i will stop having that kinda feeling and will treat her as her fren and she looks sad and told me that time is all she needs.... Until now i feels that i am her rebound guy.... she still not confident that she will ended up with me as her last ever relationship.... she say she just need rest and freedom for a while and will start a relationship in months time... She say that she thinks that she will finally end up with her first boyfren.. but also say that she got no feelings for him already... i told her to go back to him ler and not me if she wants to be with him.... she says she onli do that if she failed with me 1 day... she say she has been on/off relationship with her first EX for 5 years now... but insist that she can't go back to him as she got no chemistry with him anymore... What am i to her???

Hi, i have some tough situation here... i always goes out with this one girl who just broke off with her bf abt 3 weeks ago... i found out she used to have a crush on me when i told her that i like her last 6-7 months ago.... i goes out with her almost everyday... we hold hands, kissed and have sex once... but she kept saying that she is still recovering from her last relationship and will onli regards me as her fren although i love her and she likes me... she says that time is all she needed... She says that she needs to love me more than this to commit herself to another relationship... usually how long does a girl need to get over her 1 and half year relationship???

She Used to have a crush on me last 7-8 months ago after i told her i have a crush on her... she had a bf that time(a 1 and half year relationship) and she just reject me flat at that time as she wants to be faithful... that time i donno she had bf... Last Month i suddenly talk to her again out of the blue thinking of wooing her as i neber ever tought she has a bf until last month... When we talk, she always says abt her probs with her bf... she noes i like her... i advised her to sort things out with her bf and everything will be OK... the next day after i talk to her we go out alone together and have a nice chat abt her bf and her probs... but i also that time said that although i liked her, i will neber go after her as i am not the type that go after attached girls.... SHe broke off her bf the very next day... then i started to goes out with her almost everyday... she also said she also got some special feelings for me... but just wanna be frens with me as she still recovering from her last failed relationship... We goes out and we hold hands, kissed and have sex when we really found out that we really likes each other.. the day after we had sex i forcefully asked her to my gf(long term 1 not scandals)... she says she needs to love me more to do that... she says that she just needs time to recover.... she said she now had no confidence to start a new relationship... she always says she needs time... one day i said that if she really treating me as a fren, i am also emotionally tired to woo her any further... And she gets so tense and sad that i was making her frustrated as she still recovering and needs to thinks about me also, she also gives me the look that says" Plz Don leave me, understand my plight OK??"... she said that we just be frens for now even though she likes me... she says time will proved everything... she said that if she rush things now, she will hurts me more... what should i do??? just wait???