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  1. Oddjob
    Well i chatted with her briefly online this morning. She says that she hasnt gone on any dates, she was just hanging out with a guy "friend". She also said she isnt hooking up with anyone. Her mother said that because shes "old-fashioned" and thinks hanging out with a member of the opposite sex is dating. I dunno if im being bs'ed or not. I may meet up with her somewhere tonight to see what we want to do about this. If feeling like i dont want to be with her so much anymore.
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    She just has no interest in working, she is currently defrauding disability to get a small amount of money each week. The baby is totally healthy and she has people to watch her while she goes to work. Her mother confirmed to me and my mother that she is dating. The break was to get myself back to normal mentally after all of this, never was there a discussion of dating other people in this time. I dunno if i would even want her back now after what she has done to me.
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    I kinda worded that wrong. We were fighting alot recently and i decided that it would be best to chill out for a little while, take a deep breath and decide whats best for us. I love the girl, i "wanted" to be with her and move in together. Her daily dramatics wear me out and im tired all day at work because of her. Why couldnt she just relax instead of going out with someone new. I dont get it. Im at the point now where i dont even wanna give this a chance because of what she has done.
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    Havent been on here in a long time but here it goes, this will probably be long. Me - 28 Her - 25 We do not live together. We met in August 2005, went out on a few dates and had sex after about a week. She then informs me a few days after we had sex that she missed her period. She was preganant but she says it was not necessarily mine because she was with someone unprotected about 2 weeks before me. I stayed with her, she delivered the baby in Feburary of this year almost 3 months premature. The baby stayed in the NICU in the hospital for a little more than 2 months. She left her job and stayed at the hospital most days and EVERY night. I went there after work for about 90% of the time the baby was there. I supported my gf emotionally and financially being that she was now out of work. The baby came home to live with her at her parents house, i as well still live at home. All the money i spent on her gasoline, food and bills took a toll and decided it was best that we both just stay in the same living situation for a while. The whole living apart with a baby thing took a major toll on me. The mother is still not working taking care of the baby, her parents do not work and are more than capable of caring for the child while mommy goes to work part time. She has ZERO interest in working though. All of this and i have STILL not done the paternity test. I took it upon myself to take a break from it all so i can save money and we could live together. I have little to no contact with her in the last 3 weeks. I have found out that recently she has been going out on dates. I am disturbed to say the least. Ill be on here all night so please ask me any questions or comments about this. Maybe i can elaborate in more detail to questions.
  5. Oddjob
    Dont throw it away. You may regret that one day.
  6. Oddjob
    Thanks gus for starting a argument in my thread. Im holding off on any letters to her, she knows ill always want her back...me still pushing 2 years later is pathetic. If she wants me, she knows where to find me.
  7. Oddjob
    Yes, i was that guy.....I indeed "Burned" her pretty bad looking back on it all. She treated me like a king, and i tossed it away like a total moron. I think me having her in my head is my form of punishment for getting rid of something so good. I think the regret keeps the memory fresh.
  8. Oddjob
    I totally realize that. Its just the fact that i cant forget.
  9. Oddjob
    I didnt cheat, i explained briefly in my first post the reasoning of me breaking up with her. It was just a matter of me being very immature and unable to handle the pressures of being with someone that long. And i wrote a letter probably about a year ago.....i sent a email maybe 6 months ago.
  10. Oddjob
    Yes, i do believed she has moved on.... But she has also spoken about me to mutual acquaintances not too long ago. I think it was upon hearing that i took a giant step backward.
  11. Oddjob
    Already did the "send a letter" thing.....im ignored. I know its more than likely over.....i just cant seem to get the chic outta my head. It sux.
  12. Oddjob
    Of course.
  13. Oddjob
    Ok i never post here but wtf...ill keep it shrt and to the point, ill answer any questions asked about my situation. I left my girlfriend roughly 2 years ago.....were were together 4 years, lived together, etc. I did this because i was immature, thought the grass was greener on the other side, missed hanging uot with "The Boys", etc. Since her ive dated quite a few people but i havent found ANYTHING worth keeping....i thought ive found a few along the way but they werent what i thought they were. Anyways, my issue is that i still think about my ex quite a bit. She seems to just pop into my mind almost every day still.......2 years later. What is the meaning of this? And when does this stop....i kinda feel like its hindering me to be comfortable with anyone new. She hates me, doesnt speak to me on the few occasions ive tried to contact her in the last few years.... Maybe someone out there is or hass been in the same boat as me and can give a brotha some advice
  14. Oddjob
    I just thought that i would update this after 2 weeks from my last posting here.... We have been pretty much hanging out(dinner, movies, sleeping over ) every 3 days or so, we are very much into each other and i am finally a happy guy again. After my relationship with my ex-g/f of 4 years together i didnt think it was possible to be compatible with anyone again like that.....boy was i wrong. I have truly found someone i cant get enough of...... So if anyone is thinking of making a move on someone you didnt think was possible, read this thread. Pretty crazy that 8 years after high school you can actually start something with someone that you knew and hung out with durng those years. Ill keep this updated every couple weeks or so.
  15. Oddjob
    Thx man, im going over to her house in about a hour and a half.....o boy. LOL.
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