QTpie87

please don't leave her. my boyfriend has just left me and i am goning throught the same thing as she is. she needs someone to cry on and to love and love her back. she may start to treat you kind of bad sometimes but just hang in there and let her know that you love her because whenever i started to treat my bf bad it was because i didn't feel loved and i have a very low self-esteem. take her in please god.

HI everyone. i am having a really hard time. i don't know how to fully tell my ex-boyfriend how much i care about him. i treated him horribly. i love him and if i could i would change and i am trying. i get too mad and then it is hard for me to control myself. i am now going to anger managment and am trying to get him back. he wants to go back with me in a while and try to fix things but he also wants to date other people and i am worried that he will find out that im not good enough for him and he will end up doing something with another girl and then i don't know if i could ever go back with him. i asked him if he would just promise that he wouldn't touch another girl even if she wanted him to and he said that he couldn't promise that, but i believe that if i matter enough to him to where he wants to get back with me in a while then he should be able to promise me that. he says that he wont promise me something that he can't control, but guys if you care about somone enough then don't you think that you could control yourself. i want everything to be how it used to. we treated eachother like King and Queen and loved eachother more than anyone. i still do love him more than anyone and thats why it hurts so much. i want to spend the rest of my life with him. he is going through so much right now and i want him to let me be there for him. if we got back together i wouldn't have sex with him for a long time though because i think that may have been what started all of this and he matters to me more than anyone and i would do just about anything to get him back. Guys please understand that i love him with all of my heart and i am looking for all of you to help me understand what goes on i your heads and help me get him back. i need him and i want to help him. i will never leave him, even if i found out that he ended up doing something with another girl i ( bad things) i wouldn't leave him and i would still want him in my life. well i don't know what else to do i have tried to tell him how much i love him and it doesn't work it is too hard to explaine and i am too controling and i need to lay off, but i also need him. i will lay off if i get him back and let him go more often, i am just so worried of something happening to him, my friend and his very best friend( the same person) just died and i have had bad dreams and am worried that i will never see Jake again either. well please help. thank you all who took the time to read this! love QTpie87

[/b] okay, so my bf and has just broken up with me and we will prob get back together, but he just wants to be friends right now. well i have been being so selfesh and wondering why everything is so bad in his life that he couldn't stay with me. Well he just told me. his sister just found her mom cheeting on her dad a few days ago, not to mention that his grandma has breast cancer and his best friend just died. Well i still love him with all of my heart and i will stay friends with him until he wants me back, he said he wants to get back together we just have to fix a few probs. i feel so horrible for treating him like he didn't care about me, when the fact is is that he has always been there for me and i haven't asked him if there was anything that i could help him with. i really do love him more than anyone and now i just want to kill myself for doing that to him. WEll i was wondering i really want to do something nice for him, Like way nice, tonight i am taking him out to a movie and dinner, but we have had that planned for over a week now. well i want to get him something or take him somewhere or just do anything to make up for what a BIT#$ i am. i have told him, but i think he needs to see how sorry i am instead of just hear it. Please help me help him, i am bad at coming up with good ideas and i want to make him feel like i do care. i know i can show it by acting like i care but i don't think it would hurt to do someting extra nice. Thank you all, Qtpie87

THat wasn't very nice. i don't really mean mood prob's i mean that i am having trouble dealing with everything that is going on in my life right now. i have really bad depression and i haven't found the right meds to help yet. my step dad hates me and he has hit me, my mom hates me, my dad is a pot head and can't even remember my birthday, One of the best friends i have ever had just died, i mean come on im only 16 i can't deal with everything and he is going threw almost the same thing so we get mad at eachother, but everytime i get like bit#$y i tell him how sorry i am and how much i love him. i just want him to understand that when you are in a relationship and prob's come up you don't say okay well lets just be friends for now and work back up from there. if you really love that person to me that means you stay by their side and never give up. he went threw about 3 or 4 months when i was treated like nothing but crap and now i am having a hard time and he leaves me. i always say sorry for being mean to him, but he hardly ever does and during those 3 or 4 months he never did and it was okay because i love him. look i just want him back. i love him but i don't know how to go about telling him how much he means to me and possibly ever getting him back. i love him so much and i have never hurt this much in my life. not even when i was in 2nd grade and my mom left us for a year, we just woke up and she wasnt' there she had taken off with her boyfriend and left us with our grandparents. she didnt' say anything. everyone has always left me when i needed them the most. i would never leave jacob. if he came to me right now and asked to have me back i would take him back so fast. My heart is broken and believe it or not i don't think that i will ever love anyone as much as i love him unless we had kids someday, but i am just suffering and i need to know what to do to get him back. please guys help me i love him so much.

Hey, so i would like to know what to do tonight. my BF just wants to be friends right now because i am having some major mood problems and haven't been treating him that well. well i love him more than my own life and tonight i am taking him out on a date. what can i do to prove to him i have been trying and how much he means to me. i don't want to just be friends i want for him to lvoe me the same, but i can't make him. so what should i do because i would do anything for him so maybe i should just let him go but i can't do that. i love him more than i could every tell anyone. well please help me. i'm young, but i know that i am in love and i want to spend the rest of my life with him. im really bad at talking to people to where they could understand how much i care so any suggestions.

Hey, yeah whats going on. i live in Hurricane UT. thats like a pretty big a@# hick town. I basically have my own name for UT, moron city, get it. LOL. anyway i think that our state is just a little messed up. i am not really a big fan of harry potter, but because of how almost our whole school are mormons it isn't alowed in school. we have smenary and i think that if they are provided with a religious class then every religion in the school should have that same offer. you want to know something really funny? our wal-marts in st.G. and around there had to take down all the pregnant barbies off the shelves because she didn't have on a weding ring. LOL. like little tiny people (kids thats just what i call them) are going to notice, and if their parents don't agree with that and don't want them to have that barbie then they don't have to buy it. any way down here we have tiny malls and hardly anything to do. me and my boyfriend want to move somewhere bigger and nicer someday when we get married. hey i feel the same way you do. i mean most of my friedns are mormons and they aren't bad people, but how about a little bit of veriety, someone like with the same hobbies and beliefs as you and not have everyone be the same. well anyway like the emoticons i chose? see ya, Qtpie87

What is a guys fantisy. I am totally agianst threesums and anel sex though. besides that i need i would love to here any and all of your fantisies. i want to surprise my boyfriend and start a really nice little romantic/kinky sort of thing. thanks.

Okay, well i just got some tips from a few men and i want to thank you if you see this post -k- so thanks. well i have another question. what is a guys fantisy? i mean i know that they are all prob. diff. but they couldn't all be that diff. i would just like some ideas. if your gf were to do anything ( REALLY ANYTHING) in the world besides anel sex ( just stuff to trun you on) what would it be. I'm sorry if this grosses you out i just want to do something really cool for him that he definetly wouln't be expecting. you know like his fantisy. i would ask him, but then it wouldn't be a surprise. i need step by step details on what you would want though. Any and all ideas will be very much wanted and i will have to thank all who adds a idea. i want ideas from lots of diff. guys. um any ideas shared will not be gross to me. REally. so thanks. and if anyone wants to share but not were everyone can see it then please PM me anytime. i'm on this sit all the time so start posting. thankyou. and for all who need any kind of help from me i love to talk to people and would be more than happy to help. THanks, QTpie87

Hey, well i love my Boyfriend so much. we have been having a little trouble lately but we are good now. i have been dating him for 10 months now and we both love eachother more than anyone. i love him so much. i want to do something really sweet for him and make him happy. something cute. nothing too expensive though because i just spent all my money when we took them out on our sadie hawkens date. The girls are the ones who pay for that dance. well we have done things (sex), and i would also like some tips on what guys like. thanks

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okay. my boyfriend thinks that i should get out of the house (my moms house) but i don't know what to do he says that there is a lot of abuse going on that has been going on for a few years. IN the past my step dad has hit me( not slaped but made a fist and hit my more than once) he has seen things that he shouldn't have ( it was his fault and i didn't want it) and he always calls names and goes around the house swearing. the last time we were in a fight was in julyand that is usually how it goes, we ignore eachother for a while and then get in a big fight. it was a huge fight though he kicked me and hit me and threw things at me i had to kick him in the balls to leave me alone. my mom had a migrane and didn't do anything about it. she says that i am a drama Queen and that when i get punished i think it is abuse. she doesn't think that there is any abuse going on in the house and that i am just a spoiled brat, she always says that he will back off and he trys for a while but then it happens again and it is just a horrible cycle. i don't feel loved all the time, but sometimes i do. i know my mom loves me but my boyfriend says not enough or jack wouldn't touch me. i don't know what to do. the school doesn't even take me seriously, because jack came in and acted like his perfect self. My BF says that jack is always calling me names and i don't even notice half the time anymore. i would get out of the house, but i love my mom and i don't want to go to a diff. school. i could go w/my grandparents, but i would be at a diff. school and too far away from my boyfriend. i want to move in with my friends mom. she offered and i know that i would be treated like family there and welcome to stay but my mom won't let me. if i press charges and get taken i would prob. have to go with my stoner dad or my grandparents or someone out of town i don't know. if i could stay here for sure and stay with mrs. L. then i would. What should i do? i know im not being a drama Queen because my Boyfriend feels the same way and he is worried about me. i am so stressed out and so is he. what can i do? i hate this and i just want to die and stop causing everyone so much trouble. What the F$%# can i do?!!!!!???????????!!!!!!!!!!!1

Okay, so heres the deal. I really want to be able to turn my boyfriend on and make him crazy, but don't really know how to go about doing that. He keeps telling me that he wants me to strip for him all sexually and all, but I don't think that i really know how to right. so any tips there? Then I want to know what really turns you guys on ( sexual games and stuff), I touch him and everything and I have given him oral sex and that seems to work really good. I want to surprise him though. I want to get him when he least expects it and really really turn him on as much as possible. he is really good at turning me on, but i could defenitly use some advice for improvement. THANKYOU SO MUCH TO ALL WHO TOOK THE TIME TO READ THIS AND DIDN'T GET ALL GROSSED OUT!!! love ya, QTPie87 p.s. It's cool if anyone would rather privite message me then reply for everyone to see. 8)

hey man in order to get a girl you have to be confident and also you need to be able to make them laugh because if they don't laugh then it's a boring relationship so just find a girl your interested in and just start talking to her and be friendly with her and you'll be able to get a girl in no time at all so remember to be nice to them while in the same time, joke around like your kind of a jerk and they'll be more attracted to you and not know quite why. so just be patient and take your time with one girl and you'll be able to get her.

oh, Hey Im not from around there and I'm also a girl but thats so cute. I don't mean what your going threw is cute thats not cool at all, but it's cool how you had that idea. I didn't really think that guys really went threw the same stuff like girls do in that area. don't worry it is most likely not your fault and hang in there. you can post me and talk to me in the private messages anytime and i will talk to you even though I'm not a guy. don't worry theres a girl out there somewhere that will make you very happy. I know that it can hurt i don't know what i would do without my boyfriend i love him more than anyone. but just remember that not all girls are evil and you just have to wait until you find or she finds you and you will be so happy. see ya and good luck with the club. love QTpie87

8) okay, so me and my BF are active right. anyway we have this bet to see who can go the longest without doing anything or saying anything sexual. we both have so totally embarrassing things we have to do if we lose and i don't wanna. so do any guys/girls have any suggestions to make him horny and do something or give up because if i can't get him to then i most def. will lose because Im bad at that kind of stuff. PLEASE HELP ME! PLEASE!!!! THANX SO MUCH!!! love Qtpie87

Okay I'm a girl and I def. agree what they said only one thing... do everything up to putting your hand down her pants. my Boyfriend first looked @ me in the eyes and then he said is it okay. I said okay for what and he wanted to know if he could rub it and i said okay. DO NOT SAY YOU ARE GOING TO PUT YOUR FINGER IN HER, HOWEVER I WILL GET TO THAT SO BE CALM!!! okay then you keep kissing her. kiss her neck and rub her chest a little more. stop everything but the keep rubbing down there just not the chest anymore look her deep into the eyes and start to very slowly take ONE of your fingers and feel around with the opening, then start to kiss her like you are really turned on put her hand over your pants on your penis and slowly start to move the finger in. just not the whole finger at once because if she hasn't done anything like that befor it can sometimes hurt the inividual or even be too freeky. then soon as you have spen at least a min. just rubbing and puting it in only about an half an inch put the whole thing in and move it around inside her and take it out one in a while and just rub her. there you should be good from here just listen to what he said too but remember to fallow this and ASK HER IF IT IS OKAY BEFORE GOING DOWN HER PANTS WITH YOUR HAND!!! 8) GOOD LUCK!!! love Qtpie87

Yeah i have already had sex with him. thank you for answering me. i'll try that. does anyone else have any suggestions? Thank you so very much. love QTpie87

okay, so heres the deal. (p.s. i would really like some suggestions i never get any here and this is the only place that i can go and talk about it.) My boyfriend and i have been getting a little more physical and i was just wondering what really turns a guy on? I MEAN REALLY TURNS A GUY ON LIKE FAST!!! i just wanna be able to do the same he does for me because he is so good at everything, but he is my first time at this kind of stuff and i wanna know how can you like mess with them. not like mean, but i guess how do you play a game and seduce them. Basically i just wanna know what they like the best. I just wanna be able to be more confident like he is when he is doing stuff and be pretty sure that he will like it so i'll be able to start stuff. YES I DO WANT SOME DIRTY STUFF!!!. please just send me priv. messages and posts. thanx to all who can understand and try to help. Love QT

okay, would anyone please tell me this. my friends, even my mom have been making fun of me because i have no clue where the female cliterus is. i want to know. please tell me. thanx, love QTpie87.

okay, so i have been posting a lot of kinda gross sounding posts but this is the only place I can find out so please help me. okay so what does a male orgasim feel like and how is the best way to give one to your BF without orel junk? and i have already asked this but what really truns most guys on. ( how/ where to kiss, things to do , stuff like that. Thanx love QT.

8) Hey, so I just thought that maybe someone could help me out with this. so i have a boyfriend that love very much and He always starts everything (making-out, touching, all that kinda stuff) and I don't want that. sometimes i start it, but i just really don't know if he is going to like what i do and stuff and i just wanna make sure that whatever i do choose to do to him that he is going to really like it. so i need outgoing honest answers please anyone! I just want to be able to turn him on and for him to not always have to start everything. i know about like kissing him and letting him see stuff and all, but maybe someone knows something i haven't thought of. thanx love QT. P.S. I thank anyone who has taken the time to read and answer my post because i can't ask anyone else. love ya!

okay, so what does a female orgasim feel like and how can a male give one to a female with out having sex? please help. Thanx love QT

okay, so the other day my BF sad that i never put any moves on him and he always has to start everything, but if i start to kiss him or something then he never keeps it going however when he starts it we do. he said that i should just start it once, but i am freaked that he won't wan't to and i will feel bad. but we do stuff so what is something that i can do to him that would feel really, Really, REALLY GOOD i have touched his thing before and he likes that but we will never do anything with the mouth because we both agree that that isn't cool, but it doesn't seem like im doing everything that i could to make it feel good. PLEASE IF ANYONE CAN TELL ME SOMETHING THAT WOULD REALLY MAKE HIM FEEL GOOD WOULD YOU TELL ME. i just don't feel like im doing everything for him that he does for me. please don't think im odd. love ya. P.S. THANX SO MUCH TO ALL WHO TOOK THE TIME TO READ THIS AND GIVE ME SOME TIPS.

okay, so what are you tring to say. it would help if you where a little more clear on things but anyway yes you did do the right thing but only if you love your girlfriend more than the other girl. it would prob. crush your GF if you left her for her friend and she might love you very much so how about you send me a message and tell me a little more about it i would be more than happy to help. love QT

okay, this might sound not right to some people but i can't find out from anyone i know so please understand that i just want to know and its driving me crazy. so can anyone tell me what a female orgasm feels like and how you can have one. me and my BF are active however i have never had an orgasm and i want to know why. he does but i don't and i have tried things that i listened to and i guess we aren't doing it right or something. please just help me. thanx to all!