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  1. itry
    lol he's flirting. but who cares! she'll be 18 soon and alls well that ends well. let her handle it though
  2. itry
    what area of work are u involved in?
  3. itry
    ...as im off to buy my flowers to plant... i grabbed my car keys...my purse and put on my sandals.. im about to walk out the door and realized i still had no clothes on................ ........... .... stress could be so comical if ur not the one going through it. i am now covered... and off to buy plants.
  4. itry
    oh my goodness.. i am so sorry u are going through this. despite the reasons why ur ex broke it off with u... u ARE better off without that situation. i know he loves u and u love him but kids involved tend to make it a bit more complicated and involved..... be strong.. as in keep busy. u are doing everything right and i have my own situation also and i know at times u feel like ur just going to collapse... its ok to cry. last night i drove around and around and parked in the middle of nowhere to cry for a half an hour... ull have moments like that but just know that it gets easier with time. i know that sounds so cliche.... just take everything as it comes. try to think of something hurtful u went thruogh 5-10yrs ago... and come to the realization that that part of ur life is over... this part will come and go too.
  5. itry
    *sigh* if i ever win the lottery, ill have all u guys fwd me ur addresses and ill send a check. im going to go and.. i dunno.. buy flowers and plant them or something. yeah... i think ill go plant flowers... then im going to rearrange my furniture... then maybe bake a cake or two... then at night.. ill dress in all black and wait at the corner of his house so i can obsess over him.... kidding. kidding. at night ill... i dunno.. rearrange my furniture again i guess..........
  6. itry
    i want the firstttt.. im TRYING IM TRYING. thats why im on here whining!!! i feel like my friends are tired of hearing me. all i have is this website and whats left of my pride.
  7. itry
    what do weee doooooo???????? ive been sitting here beginning to write an email.. then i delete it... im also TRYING to study for a class that im taking...but my head goes blank. yes ur right!! my ex...its NOT fixable. I KNOW THAT ALREADY. but theres little tiny schizophreniac voice that keeps telling me "u overreacted, he will change. he wouldnt cheat on u again with his sons mother" THEN THE REALITY FAIRY UPPERCUTS ME ANS SCREAMS "what are u thinking???? do u want to risk ur feelings again???? do u want ur daughter to see his temper?????" ironically the schizophrenia voice sounds LOUDER. its to the point where i think im going to sleep with someone else who has a thing for me just to get my mind off of my ex. oh.... i broke it off fri. night. and i havent put clothes on yet because im too depressed.
  8. itry
    ok now im re reading my own post and i feel like crying for the miilionth time.
  9. itry
    ITS a gorgeous day and im home WATCHING t.v. I NEVER WATCH T.V. if we were still together.. id be out at his place and we'd probably be getting ready to go out to eat or something like that... he'd be hugging on me or kissing on me. FINE FINE FINE things have been nasty in our relationship. but havent some couples, in the long run, out there survived INFIDELITY??? i mean... he DOES want to change. im doing NC but im about to freaking break it. I MISS HIM AND I AM ABOUT TO LOSE IT. IM WATCHING A DAMN SHOW CALLED "THE PUPPETMASTERS" SITTING HOME IN LITERALLY MY UNDERWEAR CUZ ITS SO DAMN HOT. I WANT HIM BACKKKK BUT MY PRIDE IS STOPPING MEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE. I FEEL SO PATHETIC!!!!
  10. itry
    u are wise beyond ur years kiddo
  11. itry
    amIdreaming, im so proud of u...and i dont even know u lol keep this site in "your favorites" it helps.... see u around the internet!!
  12. itry
    sex on the first date means nothing but a good time!! dont look too much into it. enjoy her and let her enjoy u! i had sex on the first with an ex and we had wonderful chemistry! in the end.. it was his psycho patterns that made me break up.. not the sex on the first date.
  13. itry
    listen to urself.... something IS going on. lose him quick before u fall too deep... im sorry to hear about this and good luck to u
  14. itry
    thats what ppl need to realize... groveling does NADA - NOTHING only makes the person feel even worse after its over... ive been on both sides.. the groveling side and the amused side... from my point of view, the amused sides gets sooo turned off... the groveling side... gets soooo depressed its like a lose lose situation. u want the other persons attention? fool proof plan? pretend to enjoy urself. go out, do something. look good at whatever ur doing.... thatll cause the other side to react as u would have
  15. itry
    and from a womans point of view.... self confidence is def. more attractive....groveling is only amusing...
  16. itry
    take a polaroid picture of urself in ur underwear and tape it in front of ur mirror....hell.....blow it up into an 8x10...in large caps on top of the picture..write "OINK?" next to that picture, look for some hot bod stud...cut his head out and place urs on top...then give it a time frame.... take a picture once every 2weeks and place it next to oink... hey...it worked for my brother..
  17. itry
    find out who spread the rumors then spread rumors about that person saying that u heard that they only own one pair of underwear...and every other day they turn it inside out.....kidding. just ignore it. 9 months later the rumors will go away
  18. itry
    chances are slim... ive looked at my past bf's.... and thought about what initially attracted me to them...wether they were physically attractive or not..it was that unsees chemistry that's just there or not. unless its in ur culture and arranged marraiges are a part of ur life..then without initial attraction...theres no longevity..in my opinion of course.
  19. itry
    this advice should be unisex... i read ur quote " NO ONE screws with your self respect and your self worth even yourself!" and something hit home... man or woman... wake up and smell the coffee...noones worth begging for. its pathetic and demeaning. and if ur with someone and u cant come up with a good reason that promotes a healthy mental and emotional... then dont do it to urself. a pack of double A batteries or some baby oil will be ok until someone else comes along..... *sigh* easier said than done huh? .... but im sure itll be worth it in the end...10years from now..this moment wont matter at all...
  20. itry
    mmf ffm fff mmm - doesnt matter...but is it really as un common as some people think??? does it depend where ur from? holy Lord... im surprised about how UNCOMMON it is... who's been through it and liked it or not liked it? those who did it.. was it with a serious relationship and if so.. ru guys still together? just curious....
  21. itry
    i think its 50/50 ive done it before and its been done to me too
  22. itry
    just curious..? why would she feel the need to mention that she needs to have a talk with the ex? i guess theyre still friends? whyd they break up anyway? anywhoo... ur sistuation sounded like mine 3 yrs ago no title.. just time. just enjoy her and let her enjoy u. mention to her that ur pretty much just seeing her excusively... and if/when u guys start having sex... (depending on u and her) stress to her if u want it exclusive sex or not....this is pretty much leading somewhere.. other than that... no title is required. in due time..someone else will dub u guys a couple and everything else will fall into plan.
  23. itry
    lol sometimes im actually the b**** big sister too. theres nothing u can do here. ray kay's right..move out. if i put my "dirty" feet up on the couch and my younger brother told me to put it down... id probably look at him like he had two heads. i love my brothers dont get me wrong and despite our differences, we're all pretty close but he would never tell me what to do or care what i do unless it was a detrimental affect to our lives. dont play parent. do ur own thing and just ignore it... u guys will get along better. ur all over 21.....
  24. itry
    we are 9yrs apart.. he is older... and for the next miserable 2 1/2 yrs or so i believe i am stuck here with my family.. i recently left my job to attend school full time..i have a job waiting for me after i finish.....bf is an hour away but he plans on moving here maybe in a year... then i believe ill move with him..but that doesnt solve the fact that my family will probably NEVER come see me..and Lord ill miss them...no matter what theyre flaws are..theyre blood.... i can't help my taste. hell...ive tried to date who they wanted me to date a while back..but i was just kidding myself...now i found someone and u know what? regardless what his background was..i love him ..past the superficial.... ive been living here for the past year and i feel like i cant take any more of this nagging... im grown...but they dont treat me like that. oh yeah... my family is not from the U.S. so theyre VERY VERY traditional and what some may call old fashioned...as in..no sex before marriage..no living together before marraige.. and if they had theyre way i probably wouldnt be allowed out past 10pm. im at my quarter of a centurey already mind u...
  25. itry
    what in the world do u do when ur family can't see past someone u loves ethnic background?? i mean... i love my family with all my heart... we're all close... and its one of those things that my parents will say "we don't have a problem being friends with *certain race* but marrying one is out of the question". being that my significant other is divorced with 2 kids makes it even harder...... he's been all i want....but he can't attend family functions or even come over to watch t.v. or something.... luckily he has his own place so i spend a great deal of time there....which result in huge arguments.... its been over 3yrs since i have been with him and my father still refuses to say his NAME!!! my mother is more understanding and tries, but i can see her expression when i try to talk about him. thank GOD my brothers are cool with it....but its killing me to know that there will be NO x-mas family dinners if i decide to start a family with this man.... its getting close to that point where we're talking about marraige...im getting close with his children... but last night i had another huge argument with my father about him. do i choose my family..? will it be wrong if i choose my heart? i grew up with closeness and big dinners and parties with all my relatives..im so depressed in thinking of giving that up... im confused...
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