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lol u guys are funny. Lord he was soooooo hot. but darnit lol yeah something was up. im glad it wasnt just in my head. some of my friends who have met him were nuts about him too and thought i was just jumping to conclusions. when u take feelings away and put all rationality onto paper (or in this case..onto computer screen) things become a bit clearer

here's my question... i was seeing this guy for maybe a good 5-6 months.. he seemed like the perfect guy. extremely good lookin..a total head turner... he had a good job.. great family values.. own place, car and motorcycle..no kids.... BUT...(yes...mr. perfects always come with "buts") he always talked about this female "friend" of his... he kept stressing that they were just friends..in fact best friends and nothing more. i even met her and she knew everything about me. mr. perfect holds car doors for me..buys me small gifts out of the blue...pays for dinner and even made dinners for me... ok... about this "female friend". Ms. friend calls at all hours of the night... wether it be 3am or whatever. since mr. perfect and i were just starting to see each other, i didnt want to come off as ms. jealous.. so i just questioned it, made a joke and thats that. one evening while mr. perfect and i were waiting for ms. friend to come over and hang out, mr. perfect said to me "hey..could u do me a favor and not tell ms. friend that i cooked for u the other day? i just don't feel like hearing her mouth..." okkkk... so i found that odd and he must have seen my expression so he tried an explanation "its just that ms.friend always makes a big deal about me cooking and i just dont feel like hearing her mouth.. u dont know her like i do" okkkkkkk.... i left it alone. hmmm... i decided to see where this will go.... after another month or so of casual seeing each other.. lunches.. walking around..movies..i finally ask him "hey...have u and ms. friend ever slept together" he looked a little embarrassed but admitted to doing so. ok, thank u for being honest mr. perfect. again, he reassured me that they were just friends and he was in no type of relationship with her. i said ok.. but still felt weird...at this point, mr. perfect and i had been sleeping together already and ms. friend knows about it. i spent holidays with my family and found out that mr. perfect and ms. friend spent x-mas eve together.. and new years eve. oh yea.... ms. friend has three kids but did not spend either holiday with her children..... somethings fishy? i told mr. perfect i didnt think me and him were a good idea and that i had to go with my gut. mr. perfect whined, got upset and asked if it was his friend. i said it had to do more with him. he wrote me a long letter saying he missed me and wanted to try and be friends... one evening i called him...ms.friend was there watching movies with him alone at his place...she said hi to me..... he sounded uncomfortable. u know.., he had that "voice". ladies and gents u know the tone of someone that ur dating... u know how they speak to u when they are comfortable and u know how they speak to u when they are not... he was not comfortable. he still insists that theres nothing. i stopped calling and emailing. he has tried to reach me several times but i didnt respond. his story's the same... theyre best of friends and thats all there is to it. oh yeah... i asked him how long they were friends for...one whole year. wow. yeah right? whatever..... he was too perfect... do u guys think that theres more to their situation than he let on? he insists that he has never lied to me about anything...

wow. kudos to her. i dont know if id have the balls for that lol maybe while im daydreaming

the reason for his jealousy? yes i KNOW its insecurity.. now how the heck can he get over it? will he ever? i feel like im walking on eggshells at times... he's very very attractive...fine, some financial problems due to a divorce... but he knows he'll get over the hump... even posting online here is a problem that caused a small argument! do jealous people ever change? or is it a personality thing? i feel like no matter how much respect, love, attention i give him.. its just usually back to square one.

lol see what i mean? ....italianstalian's from the east coast too i really think its a geographical thing then.

u have absolutley NO reason to feel guilty whatsoever. porn/masturbation is normal. id much rather have my significant other masturbate to porn to release sexual tension than to cheat

anythings possible... i moved out at 16..... but now many many years later, im back home. think it over. and to be honest.. research it within ur states legal laws and what to do rather than post here. i can give advice about feelings and what i may feel is the best to do.. but laws, tangible things should be researched. think it over some more. this may not be the best move... hindsight is always 20/20

this reminds me also of anal penetration for men. i heard it does wonders for cumming but the men here in Nyc look at me like i just asked them to sleep with their father or something? maybe its the guys in my cirlce? im surrounded by "mr. macho all powerfuls" lol wow... eye opener galore..

hmmm... im from queens NY.... where the men think theyre manly.. (as most live home with their mommies..) i cant hardly imagine ANY male i know even admitting to even THINKING about tasting their own cum! maybe its a regional thing?

i urge u to ask 5 males... u know what? make that 3 males... if they would taste their own cum. see how they would react. my opinion of men tasting their own cum doesnt suggest their sexual preference, but their own opinions due to society would make them feel as if they were doing a lewd act let me know what the answers are and i will do the same

LMAO what straight man will admit to tasting their own cum? wow... should that be a new topic? "Men would you taste ur own cum?" hand over the recipe pls?

heheheh i think its sweet that ur consciencious about this at 15

hmmm? where are u from anyway? that does sound weird...

WOW.. u sound like what one of my friends went through just a couple of months ago.. u know what was the conclusion....? he came out the closet

play hard to get. and do flirt with other girls so she DOES get jealous. females tend to "catch feelings" once they see theyre ex bf is interested in another female. playing it cool is fine.. but if u kinda ignore her... then pay her attention again at the last minute.. then itll rekindle her emotions again. unpredictable guys usually win at the end. let me know if this works for u! .... it worked for my bf of 3yrs...

i didnt even read the other replies. not for anything, break up with mr. jealous. he won't change. break up with him and have fun getting drunk at the reception. besides, i hear most hook ups (long terms - marraige) meet at weddings anyway. ...he's not going to change. i have a jealous one too.. but if he doesnt like it then thats his problem. i cant let him control me.. itll just get worse. good luck.

i started off being fingered. if u like being fingered then ull probably like the rest lol no but seriously, one thing i learned is that u have to relaxxxxxxxxx or else it will hurt. and u cant be nervous. train urself to relax... and oh yeah.. use lots of lube.. or else the only thing ull be putting down there for awhile is Preperation-H

whoaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaa......im reading all this and i feel like im blessed.... sex w. my bf is usually more than 10 minutes and he's one of those multi orgasm men. he said im the first woman he's ever been with that makes him cum like that.. maybe it helps that im 10 yrs younger lol we have sex at least.. umm.. 2-3 times a day. in the morning before work.. when he gets home.. and before bedtime. our longest was probably.. all night literally. not like an 8hr hard on, but on and off and on and off.. for 8hrs. it was 6 times that night. we've never topped it off. should i start snooping around for a hidden pack of viagara or something....? he's in his mid 30's... i'll admit that it's slacking since the beginning.. but quality is still there. oh and as for me orgasming.. penetration sometimes is enough. but i need other stimulation for a sure thing.

my bf likes it..im trying to get used to it. mission accomplished more than a couple of times. but how do those xxx girls slip it in so easily? my bf has to talk to me, coax me, and ease it in. but once its in there... Lord is it in there. how do i get rid of that..."oops im about to CRAP on myself" feeling? seems like ill only enjoy it as long as im being stimulated in hole #1. thoughts? feelings? advice?

..the dreadful spit or swallow. my boyfriend loves it when i swallow. sometimes i want to puke but i have to keep my "sexy" poker face on. id much rather him cum on my face because sometimes his semen is so darn bitter. sometimes whem im really into and and i feel like it would be a great finish, then yeah, i wont think about it and just swallow. what i HATE the MOST about sucking is when my boyfriend enjoys making me gag. he gets a kick out of me choking. its like, come on now, my throat is only so far and NO i cant get ur balls to touch my chin damnit!! on those uncomfrotable throat choking nights, i go to sleep praying that he will be reincarnated into a woman....we'll see how he likes it. hmph and what in the good Lord's name is up with this new thing of cum swapping??? i mean, i see the threesome girl on girl thing and the two vixens are there SWAPPING cum in each others mouths?? what is remotley sexy about that? someone explain???? if i dare spit my boyfriends cum in his mouth i think his reflexes would get the best of him and id be having to explain a black eye for about a week or so...

lol have someone ask him

*sigh* ever had one of those hard hard hard break ups...? its like i want to say something but i cant... maybe if i post it here itll help me realize how PATHETIC i am You have no idea how hard it is.. To ignore your text messages. And the smell of Coolwater that I've never washed off from the sheets Is the only thing… The ONLY thing… that helps me sleep When you pass by my usual spot at the café And you see that smile on my Maybeline face I feel your eyes on me… It's like razor blades slicing my heart To focus on looking away I know that's you calling my cell phone.. "Private Calls" have a designated ring tone The only voice mails left.. Are the sound of ur breath.. Which…I pathetically still save.. And listen to at home…..[/b]

take ur flirting up a notch. ru good at flirting? talk about alot of hypotheticals about a made up "friend" sort of like... "hey Mr. So and So, my friend thinks one of the teachers here is so hot and i really think she has a crush on him" more than likely his testosterone will kick in and he'll be confused and won't know for sure if ur friend is made up or not. throw in the fact that ur "friend" is over 18and is going to college see what he says oh Lord!! tell us what happens lol im in a relationship, so i'll have to live the single life through ur stories lol

wow.. kinda harsh. why the hell would she do that in ur own house? u sound more mad than heart broken..