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he'll also tell me how BIG he is and what not...but the times that i tried to find out how big he really is he has PUSHED ME OFF!!!!!!!!! it makes me feel so uncomfortable! advice pleaseee!!

He Talks About Sex All The Time!!! That's All He Talks About, How He Wants To Be With Me Sexually And How He Is So Good! But When Ever We Are Alone, He Always Has Some Excuse For Not Even Touching Me At All! I Really Dont Know What It Is Anymore. I Have Even Asked Him Why He Won't Do Anything With Me And He'll Either Turn Things Around Saying That "it Looked Like You Weren't In The Moood" Or He'll Just Ignore My Question!! I Just Started To Go Out With Him Like 2 Weeks Ago, But I Have Been Serously Talking To Him For The Past 6 Months!! So Its Not Like We Just Met! I Really Like Him A Lot!! But This Sex Issue Is Starting To Get To Me! I Wouldn't Mind It As Much If He Didnt Bring It Up All The Time Telling Me "he Wants To Do Me, And He Can't Wait To See Me!! Because When I'm There With Him, Its A Completely Different Story!! I Dont Know Anymore. Its Very Frustrating!!!!!!!!!!

ok, well we just started to go out but have been talking for about six months. The thing that bothers me is the fact that he always brags about how good he is in bed and and he knows how to make a girl feel good during sex, but when it comes to me, he has NEVER EVER even grabbed my butt!! LoL! HE WON"T DO ANYTHING WITH ME!! Ok , keep in mind that he is 26 years old! It's not like he's a little kid, he's grown up!!! everytime we are alone, he ALWAYS finds an excuse to not hook up with me. For example, last night, i went over to his house, we were just hangin out there, two hours went by and he wasn;t even trying to kiss me, SO i MADE A MOVE! Ahhh!! i felt like i was back in middle school, just making out!! i asked him, "whats the matter" and HE CAME UP with literally 20 excuses as to why he wasn't in the mood for sex!!! he said he was tired, sick, exhausted, had work early the next day! ALL THESE EXCUSES!! it gets me so mad and frustrated, and it makes me wonder WHY!!! is it me? do i not turn him on? is it him? i even asked him if he's gay!! LOL He got pretty mad about that! I NEED SOME ADVICE PLEASE!!!! I even tried to go down on him one nightt,,, but he LITERALLY pushed me OFF (hard) and he was like stop! IT MAKES ME WONDER!! WHAT IS THE DEAL WITH THIS GUY? I like him A LOT, but this whole thing (((not being able to hook up with him)) is really killing everything. ANY ADVICE IS APPRECIATED! thank you

every since my father went back to college to get his masters, he has shut everyone completely OUT! he bought himself a new computer and is on the internet or doing his homwork ALL DAY!!! he even quit his job, which has left us in some financial problems!! he doesnt even talk to my mother or myself. the only time he'll say something is when hes having some trouble trying to use the computer and needs help! it really frustates me, becuase he locks himself in the damn computer room ALL DAY. He doesnt go out unless its for class. He won't even go visit his newborn grandaughter, unless his having some trouble again with his computer and has to go ask my brother in law for help! im starting to really dislike him. AND MY POOR MOTHER HAS TO DEAL WITH HIS CRAP ALL THE TIME! i have told my mom that we need to seriusly leave him, because hes making everyone soo unhappy. SHe feels bad, and wont leave him. My dad has always been a quiet person, but now it has gotten to the point where i live with a total stranger. HE knows absolutly nothing about me, like how im doing, or how school is going for me. THis guy that i work with DEFINITLY knows A lot more about me, sometimes i wish my father was more like him! I dont really like to say this, but i just cant help feeling this way towards him. I wish i could bring it up, but i feel so weird about it.. I dont even know how i bring this topic up. OH, the only time he opens up is when he is DRUNK!!! he'll start asking me questions like how everything is going for me, and I GET SOOO MAD AND SAY TO HIM " LET ME GUESS, UR DRUNK!! n juss walk out on him. WHY CANT HE BE LIKE THAT WHEN HE IS COMPLETELY SOBER!! I'm feeling soo upset about this whole situation. I JUST try not to show it and try to stay happy for my mother only. HOW can a person stay HOME all day without interacting with others! it would seriously drive me crazy. I want to scream at him !! but if i do i will probably start crying from so much anger. My mother and myself work(i also go to college) ALL DAY and its so aggravating to come home and find him juss there doing absolutly nothing. THANK YOU FOR LISTENING.

my dumb ex said he "loved me" 2 weeks into juss seeing each other!!! I had a feeling he was going to say something like that, and i obviously wasnt feeling the same way!! it felt very weird!! but soon we started going on..and i started to seriously have strong feelings for him.. and It's like YOU KNOW when the right time is TO say those 3 little words!! its nerve wrecking, but 10 months??? i think this feeling should be mutual!!! goOod LUCK!

my sister just recently got married about 2 years ago. they recently added a new addition to the family (2 months old) but everytime i go see my sister to help out with the baby, she finds herself complainin about her husband!!! and she also tells me not to get married because it sucks...lol or at least to wait a WHILE n to make sure that HE IS THE RIGHT MAN!! It's kind of scary to hear this, considering the fact that most marriages now a days seem to fail!!! Is it even worth getting married???

soo there is this guy that works with me,, whom at first i paid no attention to,, but as months have gone by, i cant stop thinking about him!!! i mean , he isnt the hottest thing or anything like that, but there is something interesting about him that is driving me all crazy!!! LoL... n the sad thing is that he is like 13 years older than me!! well im 20...soon 21 n he is like 33. He is also very nice and such a gentleman!! its so hard to find guys like that this days.. Ooh, and by the way he has a girlfriend tOo, which ne NEVER mentions...but he kinda flirts with me and always tries to start small talks with me!! i feel confused cuz its wrong!! but at the same time EXCITING!! hehehe help!

she probably just got tired of her man!!! so she figured why not have fun with you!!! im available!! hehehe I am cute n dress very nice tOoo =P well hope all goes well!!

did you get any cavities from all this chocolate???? lol!!!

i truly believe that all things happen for a reason!!! you might not know what the reason is yet......but it will eventually come!!! thats life!!!!!!

i went from 140lbs to 98lbs...and i still thought i was soooo fat!! no matter what my weight is, I always see a fat person in the mirror!! I know that it could all be in my head, but what i see in the mirror is someone who is BIG...and that image isnt pleasent at al!!! ugh

i think i am afraid to fall in love again!! because heartbreaks are soo hard to mend

v-day is no special occasion..i will probably spend that day at work blowing up about thousands of balloons, turning them into bouquetss ( i work at a party store) It's funny when you see those last minute desperate customers trying to buy SOMETHING for their girlfriends...asking you if we have anything in stock!!! its like...ummm, why didnt you come earlier!!!!!!! to me this valentines day will be just another crazy day!!!

i just came back from seeing broke back mountain, and i really thought it was a great movie!!! i felt very sad for them...because they couldnt show their love to one another freely!!!! they were defenitly a match made in heaven they are both also sooooooo hot!!

IVE HAD an eating disorder since i was 11 years old or perhaps even younger than that... im soon to be 21... but i just feel like it will never go away.. That little voice that is constantly playing in my head..reminding me of how FAT and disgusting I am...counting every calorie that i eat....or that i shouldnt eat anything because if i do i will become a BIG BIG BLIMP!!! sometimes i try to ignore it.....but its so hard!!!! RIGHT about now...im feeling sooo depressed because my weight is all i think about!!! it controls my everything!! thats the first thing that comes to mind when i wake up..and the last thing at night!!! how can i make it goo away???? I kno its wrong to say this, but I truly envy all those girls who are super thin!!!! If only i could be like that..... Thanx for listening..i appreciate it

It's Not Even Worth Going Back To Your Ex!!!!!!! If You Two Broke Up...then It Was For A Reason!!!! When Me And My Ex Broke Up..i Was Sooooo Heart Broken!! Hell, I Even Lost 30lbs!!! But Now That 1 Year And Half Passed By... I See That Time Does Make You Forget Things!!! You Will Def Move On!!! Its All A Matter Of Time!!

well after two months of being with this incredible guy,,, we decided to end it for good. We knew it had to end one day because we are both leaving to the military. He leaves in 2 months and i leave in 3 months. Spending all this time together made me realize that i was falling in love with him and he was feeling the same way about me too. But why go thorugh all this if nothing else will happen because once we leave , god knows when i will see him again?? I feel soo upset right now because he really is a very special person in my life and it's going to be sooo hard not to talk to him or see him. I want to be with him sooo bad but everythin is goin to be so much harder when we both have to say goodbye I feel so confused!!! help please

hello! well this is my little problem right now. Last night when i was at my boyfriends house, i decided to be sneaky and look at his cell phone while he was upstairs getting me something to eat. I'm looking at recent calls and i see his ex girlfriends number in there!!!! He was the one who made the call which by the way lasted about 10 minutes. They were together for 4 years!! and everytime we have talks about our ex's, he tells me how crazy she was and how she made his life hell... and WHEn she found out that me and him were going out , she threw a fit and started saying all these crazy stuff about me ( she never even met me) BUT yet he still talks to her. He tells me that when he talks to her,, he feels like he's talking to his sister!!! YEAH OK! I mean we have only been dating for a little over a month and we argue a lot over dumb things. I mean, my ex also calls me once in a while juss to check up on me, but he is nothing like his ex!!! she is crazyy!! whenever my ex or guy friends call, my b/f gets all mad and says that he is insecure and thinks i might do something that is going to hurt him!! There were times when i wantd to end things because of the arguments and all the confusion and mistrust. I don't know what to do. THere are times when we get along and have such a good time together,, but there are times where we drive each other off the walls and are constantly arguing over nothing. He is also two years younger than me (18 and in high school) I feel a lil confused, any advice would be appreciated!! thank you

Maybe that's what happened, you two were doing everything together and spending way too much time together. Seeing the same person everyday gets tireing and thats how arguments also start. I mean yeah you love him and want to be with him, but think of it as you also need time for your friends. Have a serious talk with him about everything that has been going on. It also seems like he's trying to play mind games with you by telling you that he has a girlfriend and then lying to you because he juss wanted to kno what your reaction would be. It's obvious he doesnt know what he wants. Give yourself time to think about things. If you two decide to get back together than talk about things that could make your relationship better, because if You don't... then you will end up in the same situation along the road. There is a lot ot thinking involved, and the worst thing you could do is get back with him because you felt comfortable around him and miss the things you used to do ( it's obivous you will after spending so much time together!!) Get back with him because you truly believe that things could work out!!!

I agree with sweet_bebcho, My B/f goes crazy when i deep throat... He starts moaning soo loud and thats how we get into the mood for more!! Ahhh... Ok now i wish i was with him ( hehehe) Juss thinking about it, gets me thinking of wild things!!! LoL

why did he decide to break up with you?

i met this guy like 3 weeks ago. i only knew him for 4 days before he asked me out. he's always tellin me how beautiful i am and that he likes me so so so much. he tells me he was so depressed before he met me and that now hes so happy with me. i thought he was going too fast, so i broke up wit him and he started to cry. then we got back together. all his friends are like its ur wife, u guys would have cute kids together. His ex g.f of four years also keeps calling him.. and i know they talk on the phone and see each other in school. She is crazy because she is always talking a lot of [Removed by Moderator] to everyone about him and me ( she has never even seen me.) And yet he still talks to her. I feel like its all about the image, he is only with me because he is lonely, i mean yeah he might like me, but he over does it. This really confuses me and honestly i dont think i even have feelings for him. I think im just with him ... just to have someone. Sometimes i wish i had what me and my ex boyfriend had. And i really dont see this happening with my current b/f. SO IM thinking... SHOULD I STAY WITH HIM? OR SHOULD I JUST END EVERYTHING? PLEASE LET ME KNOW.

Im just wondering something, but how long did it actually take you to realize that you have no feelings for you ex? Was there something you did or said ?? IN my situtation, It took me about 6 months to finally realize that i am completely over my ex boyfriend whom i thought was the man of my life. Even though i was talking to someone else in a serious level i still couldnt figure out why i wasnt able to let go off that feeling, but one night the ex came to visit. We talked about things and it seems like he still has some feelings for me. I dont know why, but i even kissed him, and right that moment it hit me that i wasnt feeling it anymore. I was expecting to get butterflies and get nervous but it was the total opposite. I felt absolutly nothing. HIs lips felt so different and even the way he held me. I am really glad i did this because if not ,,, i would still be thinking about him and how much i want him back. But now it's like... Wow wat was i thinking. I mean he is a great person and i do care about him, but that's it. I dont think i could ever feel anything else for him. Well thank you for listening. I had to let this out

I started talking to this really sweet, good looking guy for a little over a week. I met him at the marine recruiting office because we are both going there. We have hung out everyday ever since i started talking to him and everything is going good. On friday we went to the movies and then out to eat.... I had a great time with him. Well, Later on that night he asked me out... And i didnt know what to say because i wasnt planning on being with anyone right now for the simple reason that i will be leaving soon and i dont want to go thinking that something could happen. But anyways , i ended up saying yes to him. two days later, i ended it, because i still was feeling the same way about things, and i told him that im not looking for a relationship, and the fact that things are happening too fast and i didnt have enough time to think things over. When i told him this, he started CRYING!! I was LIke OMGG!! i just met this guy about a week ago and he was crying telling me that he has never liked someone this much in such little time, and that i make him happy and that he likes me soo much. I was like Wow, i mean i like him too, but im not that crazy about it because everything is happening too fast. I have had the chance to kind of think things over it, and i really shouldnt run away from my feelings, because he makes me happy, and i really do like him, So i told him that i was confused but i had made up my mind and that i wanted to be with him. So as of right now, we are going out. But i am still scared at the fact that this is only going to happen for another 3 months and then thats going to be it. I'm scared of really falling for this guy and having to leave all upset thinking we could have had something speacial.. I dont know i am still very confused. Do you think i should just let things be, like stay with him and try to be happy for a few months? Or try to end it because i could end up hurting myself!!. I know that after i leave , the chances of seeing him again are very small. Please give me some opinions!!!

hey, i feel you Im actually feeling like that too.. probably cuz i talked to my ex boyfriend last night!!! AHHHH! Hopefully i'll feel better tomorrow or later on today I hope YOU FEEL BETTER TOO!!!