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If I were you i would give it more time... Why would you want to leave a girl who is treating you good and who is beautiful. You should feel very lucky to have someone like that. And you shouldnt go around comparing her with your ex because shes your ex for a reason... right? You should focus on your current girl and maybe see if things could work out between you two. If you keep comparing every girl to your ex , it's going to be a lot harder trying to get involved in a relationship.

heLLO. Well, he called me yesterday. Ahhh!! And the reason why he called me is because i parked my car down the block from my house and he wanted to know if I was ok. He was like "oh are you ok" ANd im like YEAAAh. He was like "oh your car is parked in an unusual spot so i figured something was wrong." UMM WHY DO YOU CARE ...GO AWAY!!. But then we started talking and then i said i had to go and that i'd call him back later... which i didnt, but now im starting to feel bad and debating wethere i should call him back or not. The reason why I DONT want to call back is because: 1) We are going to talk for a very long time and it's going to get me upset because i am still trying to get over him ( Almost there, because i dont hurt as much anymore) 2) Brings back too many memories of me and him and it's going to bring all these false hopes up. 3) I dont want to know about him... like if he's already with somebody else.. you know. THe reason why i do want to call is because 1) I'ts fun talking to him... like i feel so comfortable and happy... and thats about it. I'm thinking about NOT calling him back anymore. I'm going to be leaving off to boot camp very soon, soo that's going to help a lot, but also the thought of losing him forever scares me.. I dont know im so confused. He was a very important person in my life!!! and I'm not so sure if losing total contact with him is the right decision to make. So should i call him.... OR NOT?? Please let me know.

Hi everyone Well i actually enlisted to go to the marines, and about 3 weeks ago i got an urine test and a blood test to see if i have any type of diseases for hiv or whatever. Ever since i got tested i haven't been able to sleep or eat because i'm afraid the results are gonna come up hiv positive. it's so embarresing to even write this but it just makes me feel so much better to just let it out. i've had sex with 2 boyfriends with no condom. My first b/f , we were together for 2 years and the other one we were together for 1 yr and half. WHen i was single, i hooked up with a friend and had sex with no condom!!! AHHH.. i know i know I WAs stupid!! Shoot me please ! And when i went down the shore with a couple of friends, i ended up having sex with some dude, BUT this time we used a condom, but that stupid thing broke!! OMG... i freaked out soo much. Those are the only people ive had unprotected sex with and now it's killing me because im thinking about those stupid blood test results. It has been 3 weeks already and im not getting anything back!! I have been feeling soo freaking tense this whole time because that's the only thing that has been on my mind!!! AHHH!! i dont know what to think anymore. Why are those test taking soo long to come?? My recruiter said they would come in 10 days!! YEAH OK! it has been 3 weeks and i haven't received anything. Just thinking about it right now makes me all nervous. Thank you for listening . I appreciate it so much

THank you everyone. I have put him down 3 times already and it seems like he doesn't get it. I told him that i dont want to have to do anything with him. I was like LISTEn, FORget the whole thing, i know im' gonna have to see you and all, because you are my recruiter, but lets just keep it at that level." I thought he would get the picture right... But what do you know, he calls me later on that night asking me why i wont get with him. He also made it very clear what he wants from me,,, but i don't want to have anything to do with him at all!!!. I mean, WOW! he is a very attractive man!!. but he is married!!! and that obviously doesnt bother him. HE IS A DOG!!! I was like "LISTEn, why dont you just leave me alone and talk to someone else" And he was like "YEAH i know i will, but after im done talking to you" I was speechless when he said that becuase he was all upfront about it. Hopefully he wont call me, but if he does than that's it . IM gonna have to report him!! Hes giving me no other choice right?

Girl, I have been in that situation too. WHen my ex broke up with me about 5 months ago, I was soo upset mostly to the fact that he never really gave me a straight answer as to why he was breaking up with me. That is actually what hurt me the most, not knowing exactly why he was choosing to do this. I tried to get back with him two times ( wrote him letters, Called him ) But none of it worked. He was stuck on the decision that it was over and that nothing would change his mind. So i really think that whatever you do, nothing will change your ex boyfriends decision. And you should also stop having sex with him because you think that by doing this, he's going to want you back, and at the end it will only hurt more. The best thing to do to get over him, is to just completely stop talking to him. Let a few months go by and you will notice that you will miss him less and less each time. TRUST ME!!! It was a little harder for me, because my ex lives down the block from me and i see him often, which still bothers me a little bit. But i dont let it get to me because me and him are done. Well what im trying to say is that You are still soo young and there will be many other guys out there!!! You obviously know that he isn't the one for you, so you have no other choice but to MOVE ON with life.!! Dont let something like this stress you out!! I mean, yeah, i know moving on isnt the easiest thing to do, but it's all up to you and you willing to put the effort into it!

OMG. I dont know what to think anymore. Why the hell does he have to stalk me soo much? I MEAN he is the one who decided to end this beautiful relationship that we had. I've learned to get it over, but everytime im outside driving...he's behind me. THat throws me off so much. I just dont know what to think anymore of this situation. Last night, he seems me driving some where, so he makes a U turn and goes right behind me the whole time. im like "what Is the matter with you, LEAVE ME ALONE!!!." You don't understand how much this confuses me. I don't know what to think of this anymore. Either he has gone CRAZy like my parents and my friends are saying... or I dont know. I wish i could ask him why he does that , but that would it make it so weird. ALthough, my friend did. SHe was like "Why do you pass by her house in a circle with your music soo loud like 20 times in 5 minutes" And his response was "because i live around the block , you genious" LOL LOL. SHe was like "yeah but there are other ways to get to your house". LoL. Well thanx for listening. It makes me feel so much better when i write it down

omg. This post is soo similar to what happened to me. I pushed my ex away too. I was also feeling stressed out and we were arguing a lot so i told him to just leave...and he finally did. I tried to get back with him, but he said that He cant because he says that everytime we argue, he hurts too much and he cant go on like this. I see him all the time which really doesnt help at all because i still am trying to get over him. I dont know if he still has feelings for me or not, probably not. I mean it has been almost 5 months since we broke up, but it is still kind of hard. He told me it wasnt my fault that we broke up , that it was all his because he got me mad... BUT then again He had many excuses as to why he couldnt get back with me, but the main one was that it hurt him too much to try again. I really didn't think he would just end things, because i thought he was crazy about me.. But then i Guess i toOk HIM for GRANTED!! and he ended up getting sick and tired of my Sh*t. thanx you for listening.

Well, He came to pick me up on valentines day because i had to go to the office to do some physical training. On the way there he tells me he got me something very nice...So he gives me the present and when i opened it There was nice and sexy lingerie!! I was like OMG! You are crazy!!, I told him that i couldnt take it because It's not right... and he is like well you are gonna have to take it because it's for you and i cant bring this back home. So blah blah I took it.. And then he tries to kiss me and all, but i told him that he has to stop. I mean, HE IS MArried!! and i dont want to start having feelings for him because nothing Will EVER happen and im going to end up Hurt!! AHHHH Well, thank you everyone for listening )

Hey everyone Thank you so much for listening. I just wanted to get some opinions on this matter because it is all so strange. I mean he is the one who dumped me and i tried two times to get him back, but then i just gave up and have only treated him like a friend whenever i see him. I dont know what to think anymore. I just want him out!!! hehehe. Wow i can't believe im actually saying that, but it's the truth. Oh yeah, he was also a compulsive liar too!! SO HEy, i dont need a guy like that right right? Well thank you again.

Hello Well it has been almost 5 months since me and my ex b/f broke up. It hasn't really been that easy considering the fact that he lives down the block from me and i see him quite often or should i say he makes himself known that he is passing by. OK, well he broke up with me because he said that we were fighting too much and this whole situation was really hurting him. I was seriously heart broken because me and him were together 24/7, i loved him and I was just soo used to him. It was just amazing but i guess at the end it didn't work out. ANyway, I think he has gone a little crazy because let me tell you, whenever he sees me walking my dog or just walkin outside my house, he will drive by in a circle like 20 times..and he has his music all blasting, and he presses on the gas soo much . And it's like "HELLO, I know you are there!!...Go HOme!! He does this aLl the time and it is soo annoying. The other night i was talking to some guy outside my house and OMG, my ex went crazy, he drove around me sooo many times that the guy i was talking to was like "wow, this dude is so weird" In a way, i kind of like it too, but at the same time it is soo much harder to get over him. There is no point on holding on to any type of hope because he made it very clear we wouldn't get back together, and sometimes i just wish he didn't live so close to me. I dont know, i just felt like spilling my feelings out. THank you for listening.

Hello everyone. I am currently being trained to go to the military and these past few weeks me and my recruiter have gotten sort of close. He is always flirting with me and telling me that im beautiful and all those pretty things girls like to hear....BUT the thing is that he is married!!! A few nights ago, after i left the office, he called me and asked me to come back because he wanted to tell me something. I obviously knew that he wanted to do more than talking and I got kind of nervous but showed up anyway. I mean, nothing big happened, Just a few kisses here and there but that it all. Ever since that little episode he has been calling me constantly telling me that he wants to see me again... but i feel so guilty about it because he has a wife and what I did is so wrong!!!. two days ago, I told him that this can't happen because it just doesnt feel right to me.. and he stopped calling me. I mean, I know this is WRONG, but at the same time i am kind of starting to get some feelings for me. I dont know what to do!! Oh yeah there is also a big age gap between us. I am 19 and he is 29. I know nothing could ever happen because he leaves back to the west coast in may and i leave to SC in JUne. Please just give me some feedback. thank you