SolZee

I would have issues if she has had more than 4 partners because I have only had 4 partners. I am 28 and I think this is very individual. I prefer people who are selective in who they date and these relationships are meaningful and lasting.

I am not going to ask the undergrad. I am 28 she is 22. She is just too young and would not understand why I can't do this and that. I met her once and she complained about things not working out with her law student bf because he was "too busy" Well, I am just about that busy myself. I am also turned off a bit by the fact the the undergrad is into dating law and med students. So, the undergrad is out of the picture. Now I just have to program myslef into thinking that I really don't want this girl who just misled/used/abused me. I didn't even notice her in the beginning and now I like her. What kills me is that she "won" in that she got me to like her and I still like her.

Today she asked me again that we should "hang out" What exactly does that mean? I am beginning to think I am Plan B. Yeah, I think she is all into herself.

I really want to karate chop her in the throat and tell her to leave me alone. But I will never do that. I am just going to ignore her. Better yet, I might start dating the undergrad who has expressed interest. I might even ask her to wait for me outside of our class just to tick Ms. Insecurity off. I realize I sound like a terrible person.

Oh and this bf is someone she has been with "off and on" since high school! So, he didn't just pop up yesterday.

She still gets pissy If I don't talk to her after class. She doesn't say it but she expects me to be interested. Its obviuous from the way she behaves. Its annoying as hell. I thought she was insecure but we are both in med school, she is obviously smart, and she comes from a lot of money. Maybe I am Gump here, but why the insecurity? I do agree that she is bad news, but I am stuck with her until June. Admittedly, I do kinda like her. Mixed signals is what pisses me off - make up your mind! Don't say you have a boyfriend and then be all over me after class like we have been together. I have known her since August of last year.

So, I meet this girl in class. Pretty cute, dresses very well, all around nice girl. But initially I was not interested in her at all. She makes it clear to me that she is interested and then I become interested. We are both busy as hell with school so we talk after class every day and then emails/calls on the weekends. On school days and particularly on Fridays when I don't ask her out she appears visibly disappointed. Finally we go out to dinner a couple of times. After our second dinner date she tells me that we should do this again soon. I think she said this about 19 times. So, I run into her the following week, all is well and she wants to do things, I email her to ask if she wants to go out this weekend, tell her that I want to see her and she informs me that she has a boyfriend and she can't really "date" anyone. What the ....? So, now things are awkward. I am nice to her but I want no part of this and she acts like she still wants me to talk to her and ask her to do things. Am I missing something, or is this woman crazy?