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  1. rosalind24
    I'm in for a 4 year LDR too, in which I will see my boyfriend no more than 1 months a year, and no more than once a year. We're happy and we're determined to make it work. Right now.. we're half a year down and 3.5 more to go.
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    Sorry, my situation's a bit different. I'm an atheist, and my boyfriend's family is... very very devoted to Catholism. However, they respect my views. As long as I don't tell them in their face that there is no god, they won't tell me "god bless you" or "I'll pray for you." ^^; They know that super ticks me off. My boyfriend isn't allowed to see me much because he's in Iraq. Actually, I'm not sure if he's in Iraq. He's somewhere in the middle east. He says he's going to file for leave time maybe for summer next year. However, he wants to go to Japan or Hawaii for vacation, and I might not be able to go with him... I also might live home, which means he will not be able to visit me and stay at my house... it's getting really difficult but we're trying to hang in there. I wonder if you and your boyfriend can somehow get your families to agree to leave religion off conversations. If people don't mention the word god, they can actually co-exist quite peacefully.
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    Condom failed

    rosalind24 replied to Finch's topic in Pregnancy

    Ask a doctor. Some doctors think birth control pill starts working after 1 week, other says 1 month... =/
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    Below is about AIDS. link removed Next is about the rest of the STDs (graphical, don't click if you're eating unless if you have a strong stomach like me! *keeps eating*) link removed
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    If you're not happy, get a divorce. You can justify a divorce, but nothing justifies cheating.
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    Which reminds me of my first party with alchohol in college... it was among a few friends, I never drank a sip (has reputation of being the "pure" one, so all guys kept the alchohol off me), well, it got late, so I took a few friends home. Next day, met up with some friends for lunch and my friend just said, "OMG, you cannot imagine what happened to me last night! You know our friend -----? My roommate ended up having sex with her while I was in the room! I couldn't sleep all night because they're moaning and rolling on their bed and I am just accross the room!" "Why didn't you leave?" "I was hella tired and I was not about to give up my bed just so those two can have sex in private!" I can only wonder if my two friends remembered anything after they woke up. I never dared ask them.
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    Seriously, if you're unhappy, get a divorce before you go out with someone else. My father has been cheating for the past 7 years with some.... woman. Well, I know he's unhappy in his marriage. He's unhappy enough to send my mom to another country to live all by herself and visit her 4 times a year with no phone calls in between. Now, if he wants to divorce her and go date this... woman, I'm 100% for it. If he divorces my mom and dates someone else, I hope he finds happiness and builds his life again. HOWEVER, he didn't do that. Now I want both him and his girlfriend to die and suffer in hell. Actually, I hate them so much once I build my own life and return, I'll personally visit her, file a law suit against her, make my mom file a lawsuit against him (in our country you can sue for infidelity), take all of his money AND the house he secretly bought for his girlfriend and thought no one found out, and leave them both in poverty. Expect me to kick him out of my house when he's old and needs health care or wants to see his grand children. IMO, I don't care how much he paid for my family. He got himself into the position where he only pays and doesn't do any other duty as a father. I don't care about what he did for us. He cheated on my mother so he should fix himself a spot in hell and disappear from public eyes. Wait until I help his friends find out about his girlfriend. I think his mom should know too. One day, they'll all know, and he'll know the daughter he loves knew about his relationship all along, and is set out to screw him over. I'm sure your wives will be happier if you let her go before you cheat on her. You can justify a divorce, but you can NEVER justify infidelity. Loneliness, not an excuse. Mistreated, not an excuse. Doesn't feel appreciated, not an excuse. Has no soul mate, not an excuse. Met "the one" too late, not an excuse. Wife changed her personality, not an excuse. ANY excuse you make up for infidelity is not an excuse. If you're Christian, also remember, God reserved a special seat for you in hell if you commit adultary. If you're from any other religions, God(s) also reserved special seats for you in hell if you commit adultary. If you're an atheist, THANK GOODNESS we have morals! Who knows, maybe your kid is plotting to make you a living hell when they grow up. You won't even have to wait until you die to see what a hell looks like, how nice.
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    You deserve to be appreciated... and stop buying everything for your girlfriend, that's the job of a sugar daddy, not a boyfriend. Gifts to be romantice once in a while, gifts to make her happy once in a while, buying dinner when you're out, paying for gas... sure. Paying for her medicine and her living expenses? NO! Hmm... I can't help but be curious though... how heavy are you that your girlfriend will insult you with her cheeseburger comment? I have a standard of obesity I want my boyfriend to never reach too. I know he'll likely pass that in the future. >_
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    PAdreamer, give him a hug after you smack him, so he can get rid of his perfects.
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    >> Empathy.... Yeah, that's my reason for banning myself from political debates now. I'm too lazy to dig out sources to back up my views even though I know exactly where I'm coming from. Sometimes it's even harder to get motivation when you know nothing that's said will change anything. In this topic though, at least everyone can agree to dissagree, so it's still good.
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    >_ ... other than e-mails that I sometimes get from bf, the only communication pathway is my letters everyday... I guess my valley recently was when he was able to go online for 2 hours a day last last weekend.. and didn't bother to wake me up so we can chat. After he explained he didn't do it on purpose I gave up on that issue though. ... as of hardly any words from him. ... I forced myself to accept that. ^^;;;; =/ let's all work on keeping our LDRs intimate and sweet. ^_^ I'm determined to make mine work! I don't care if I never hear from him or sees him once a year. If I know he'll someday come back to me, that's enough.
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    ... well... I think if you just had one fling, learned from it, and is sure that you will never do it again... I'm kind of interested in why you feel guilty too. I hope you felt guilty before your ex-bf called you for money. Don't give him any money or that's a sign that he can blackmail you with this. Instead, it'd probably be nice to change your phone number, screen your mails, and tell your husband about a man who is trying to ruin your life by taking your husband's trust away from you. ... yes, I know, it's mean... but what can I say, if you make it sounds like the guy's a lunatic and you have no idea what to do so you need your superman husband to save your day... often times it works if you're clever enough. If you think there's the slightest possibility that your husband will find out about the truth, I think it'll be nice if you sit down with him and ask him for help + tell him the good version of the story with minimal sex + intimacy.
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    get away from him? You should always love yourself more than the person you're in love with. If you don't love yourself it's hard for other people to love you too. It's not easy living your life, and you don't need someone to make it harder.
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    No, she's hoping one of us will encourage her to persue him, break his family apart and turn his wife's life into a living hell in addition to giving her methods of persuing an adultary. ... You're not doing either yourself, your family, him, his family, your friends any good... you said it's just something you had to try or you'll regret it. I think the same way about being a porn star, I feel good about never acting on it.
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    it's alright... ^^: I never hugged a guy until when I was 20.
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    Well, a few weeks into a relationship is still play time isn't it? I personally won't go as far as sleeping with the other person, but I don't go as far as sleeping with anyone unless if I have promises of the future. Well... I think, before your relationship stabilizes you're free to shop around. Before you get married you're still free to shop around, just not as...easy to detect... Why shouldn't you have the chance to think out if you really wanted your boyfriend? ... =/ I had my poor poor boyfriend see me off to a club so I can dance with other guys while he's not there... 3 weeks into the relationship? =/ He went a bit far and made sure evreryone at the party knows I'm taken though. Then... I still had dates with various guys for the first 1~2 months after I started dating him. I only stopped when he proved to be worthy of my time and after I decided that he's really the person I want to date. .... maybe DBL thinks I'm horrible too. >_
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    About half of his comments will work on my friends... and me... the other half is just total turn off. There are so many types of girls it's really hard to say what'll work and what won't. Just go with your heart?
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    I'd kill for the opportunity to be with my boyfriend once a month... even if it's a day a month. *sigh* Some people don't know what they have.... *sigh sigh sigh* If you want it to work it will work. Once a month is a lot compared to what some of us on this forum have to deal with. I see my boyfriend... whenever he's allowed to see me. Next time I'll see him if probably sometime after march next year. Chat online, use voice chat programs, send e-mails, send cards, send random little gifts and letters, send lightly weared clothes... ^^: it really isn't that hard other than you won't get to hug each other whenever you want.
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    Not to mention, you said he was emotionally abusive right? Don't be with someone who doesn't treat you right, it's really not worth it!
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    Why did you break up? If you broke up over him acting abusive, then don't go back no matter what. If you broke up over something small... I don't know, I haven't read about why you broke up.
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    You're too dependent on him for emotional support. Try depending on yourself for once, then you won't need him so much. That definitely sounds like abuse to me, and taking him back is probably not a good idea. If he wants to leave and doesn't want to change, it's probably better for you to just move on, and decipline your 4 year old when he throws dirty laundry at you next time. You're his mom, if he's 4 and he can't respect you, don't imagine he'll be any better when he's in his teens.
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    My boyfriend claims that he stopped masturbating after he started dating me... but... T_T him? I highly doubt it. Maybe one of his past girlfriends burned the idea of girlfriends will be upset if they find out into him so he's lying. I haven't had the chance to tell him I don't care if he needs to relieve himself though. I think masturbation is completely independent of sex too.
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    Well, maybe you think it's harsh, but wait until you had your family RUINed by "the other woman" then talk! Yes, I have a boyfriend, and no, if he's married I WILL NOT BE DATING HIM. I have a brain! and I have some self control too! If I ever see that (PROFANITY DELETED BY MODERATOR) the jerk in my family's dating, I'd punch her and get my mom to file a lawsuit against her! She better NEVER show up in front of my face or she'll regret it for the rest of her life!
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    what bader said might work. personally, if any guy tries to pinch my butt (including my boyfriend), I'll punch him so hard he'll be in the hospital for the next year.
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    I'm sorry, this may not be what you wanted to hear, but I definitely agrees with what's said above. My personal view on cheaters is... you deserve whatever misfortune brought upon you and stop making excuses to justify yourself. NOTHING will justify it.
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