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Hi AegisRose This is NOT good at all if you ask me..I mean yes Guys look at other women but still if I were married Im sure as heck not gonna be doing that infront of my wife.. If this is really bothering you and I imagine it is you need to be upfront with him about this..I mean he married you because he loves you then why does he need to look at other women?..especially when he's with you!.. When you talk to him ask him to put himself in your positon so to speak..How would he react if you started to tell him that you've been looking at other guys all of a sudden..I imagine he's not going to have a positive reaction to this and then maybe he will realize how much you are bothered by this and in turn will stop looking at all the other women around.. Hope that helps Phillip

You should tell your BF you are not comfortable with her being so 'close' to him so to speak and that he needs to tell his friend this as well. Seems like she may be trying to get a little bit closer btwn the two of you who knows.. You can PM me if u need anymore help Phillip

Sorry to hear about your breakup Outlaw.. Yea I think your right girls are gonna always have that upperhand.. Phillip

Great writing Ang3l.. Phillip

Some people just like keeping that stuff secretive..almost like they don't want you to know they are goin out with so and so .. People are just hard nuts to crack I guess.. Phillip

Hmm I'd say he may be having feelings for you..that may have been why he commented on the eye contact thing..talk to him about all of it but try to make the effort on eye contact I guess Phillip

Very nicely written ang3l Phillip

that's pretty much incest if you ask me thats against the law..don't do it again

Go to Walgreens or a CVS whichever one you have where u are or any drug store and look for Clearasil Tinted Acne Treatment Cream.. comes in a small tube and it's a brown colored cream that can treat the acne and it blends into your skin to hide the effects of blemishes or any acne.. This stuff would be better than wearing makeup if you ask me.. Hope this helps Phillip

ok ang3l just breathe deeply for a few seconds ok... First off I would suggest just not picking up the phone and talking to him..he obviously does not want to try to fix the relationship and doesn't care for you You need to stop talking to him..he's not worth crying over.. Phillip

Ok anyone else!?..Over 30 something people can view this and not give any help..fine..I know I've heard from one person who would reply to this and is busy at the moment and thats fine..but come on people

Maybe he just felt like calling to tell you that..who knows it may be a good thing..he might want to talk to u about stuff but who knows Phil

Go to radioshack and buy you a weather radio that has an alert feature on it..that way when a warning or watch goes out for your county while your asleep it will wake u up..plus you'll hear the sirens go off anyways.. if u sleep in the bathroom when a storm is coming get u a bike helmet to protect your head in the event something were to happen your head will be protected.. Phil

wow..this is a very nice poem ang3l

Beautifuly written ang3l

He's hitting on other Guys??..while dating you Phillip

Talk to them more..flirt with them some and see how they act towards you Phil

Why not go and talk to her parents..have you ever met them?..Let them see that you are a respectable person you are that is wanting to date their daughter..but tell them you are wishing to pursue a relationship with their daughter and offer to make it to where you two are at one another's house when parents are home?..if they say no then say you respect their decision and will be patient and wait but still be friends with her... Hope that helps Phil

this is really good I like how its done in this step form

this is very well written for short notice!..you have a very special way of expressing your feelings in these poems Phil

Ok for the last 6 years I have served as a police explorer in 2 cities near where I live for 4 years in a city nearby my home and the last 2 years I moved to a different group near my home..these explorer groups are volunteer and are sponsored by the Boy Scouts and the local Police Dept's.. Anyways Over the last 2 years the leader of this group has picked on me and held me to a double standard after I was made the leader of the group being I had the most years of seniority on anyone else there at the time..For no reason this person(who by the way is 35 years old! mind you) has done nothing but put me and others down by basically treating us like ****! and he smarts off to us and rolls his eyes at us when he asks us what our career plans are in the near future within the field of law enforcement..he basically thinks we will fail at anything we do..He talks to me like I'm his "whipping boy" so to speak. Several times he has poked fun at me infront of other officers especially on personal issues like calling myself and other explorers gay or whenever I'm seen talking to a girl while working at an event or whatever he puts me down saying stuff like "oh she's just talking to you to be nice to or she's talking to you because she has to or something like that when I don't think that was the case but sometimes its caused me to second guess conversations I've had with girls at school or work now because I have those kinds of messages burned in my brain from this pr*ck!!! I have snapped back at him on these things and I've done it infront of other officers at the dept just to get him back for giving me the same kind of embarrassment(I hold the motto of What Goes Around Comes Around in high regard!!) So what do you guys think..I think its harassment..he says he doesn't do it to hurt our feelings but to toughen us up so to speak..well recently I had an incident where I was cut off by a cop car and asked him would he talk to the officer about it..he proceeds to play a joke on me telling me that they are gonna suspend the officer and everything..I thought this was for real..I wrote a letter to the chief of police stating that he not be suspended and what all happened..then he tells me it was a joke done to teach me to "Keep my F'n Mouth Shut"... I am fed up with this..he has constantly berated me and other explorers with the exception of his niece who he treated with royalty who I wanted to ask out on date and I thought she liked me but turned she was dating somebody and I was told by her uncle(our advisor by the way)..that "oh she just talks to you cause she has to" and "oh you couldn't handle her"(referring to if I had the chance to date her)..I have been picked on all my life until my last year of HS and now on into college because there I am an adult..I have no problems with anyone there they are all very decent people to know in my opinon... So what should I do..I'm thinking of just going right down there and telling him off and then telling filing a complaint with the dept to have him removed from the exploer program... I mean is he justified by any chance to talk to me this way to "toughen us up"?? Phillip

Interesting theory you can just chalk it up with the rest of them on here..But I still think some girls don't think that way..maybe thats just me Phil

You just gotta be strong and not call him or talk to him at all!!...afterwhile you'll start to realize he wasn't ever worthy of your love and support to him and you'll find someone who is worthy of it because you'll have someone who cares about you and wouldn't break your heart like your ex has done to you Be Strong and stick with it! Phil

very beautifully written ang3l

Very well written if you ask me Phil