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I may have messed up on asking the guy to a movie. I sent him a message to see how he's doing and then I asked if he wasn't busy if he wanted to go the the movies. Well he read the message but hasn't replied yet...is this a bad sign? I think the mistake on my part was asking him in a email instead of in person, that way I could gage his expression.

My best friend had set up a night out with her guy and with another couple, well the other couple broke up before the night out. She called me to see if I was interested in "filling in" with our guy friend, I said sure, I haven't seen him in a while and it would be nice to get caught up. First part of this is.....I was talking to a girl friend of mine about this "double date" and my crush overheard me saying this and he goes " who's going out on a double date" and I ignored him partly to see what kind of reaction he was going to give. Again he goes "who are you going out on a double date with, me?". At that point I had to go but about half and hour later he follows me into the room I was going to and he again asked who I was going out. So I told him a little bit of the situation and then he goes "oh that's not a double date" and then he smiles and pats me on the back. Was he jealous at first? Second part.....well its the day that I'm suppose to go out with my friends and I get a call saying that the guy was sick and he wasn't going to make it. So I call up my crush and say "so you remember the outing I was going on tonight". Well of course he did, so anyway I tell him that the guy got sick and asked him if "he wanted to take his place" and he says yes and tells me to call him in a couple of hrs since he is at work and let him know of the time, which I did. We talked for a few minutes and then he tells me he is busy and he will call me back later. Well he calls me when he gets off and tells me he is on his way home and he will call me then. He gets home and gives me a call and tells me that he is really tired and that he is just going to stay in for the rest of the evening(he didn't get off work until 1am the night before and he had to be back at work at 7:30 the next morning to work a 10 hr day). So anyway we end up talking for about half hour. My question(s) do you think that he would consider this a date or just helping out a friend? He did mention taking a reincheck if he wasn't able to make it, in our earlier conversation when we figuring out times and stuff. Now when we see each other he will say something to the people we are around and look at me and smile. His entire face lights up and his eyes sparkle. Are these good things?

I posted here a few months ago about a guy I like at work, how I was going to take it slow and get to know him better and see if things would fizzle out and he would be just a good friend. However, we are getting to know each other pretty good. A couple of weeks ago he was doing some things for me and he called me on the phone and said, "what do I get for doing all this extra things for you, dinner?" and I thought he was joking(maybe he was??) and I joked around with him and then he said he was just teasing, but I told him I would buy him lunch, which we had lunch together the next day. Things going pretty good it seems. We had a get together a couple of weeks ago and I asked if he was going and he said nah, then asked if I was going and I told him I'm not sure. Later I emailed him and joked about him not going and then he said he was and gave me his number to call him later, which I did to see if he was still going, and he said he would call me when he was on his way. When he got there he came and stood right behind my chair and then when we were getting ready to leave at first he led the way and then he hung back when he realized I was at the back and then we let everyone else walk a decent distance infront of us so we could get a chance to talk alone, but then the group waited up for us. Since then he has bought me lunch at work and both have admitted to one another that we find each other pretty attractive, and we spent lunch together yesterday and I noticed he was hanging around me a little bit more than usual. He was leaving for a long weekend, so I guess that is why he did it. Here is the problem.....he hasn't asked me out yet!!! What could be the reason why he hasn't. Is he not into me? I mean to me the things mentioned above are pretty good signs, and they aren't even all of them. Am I wrong about reading these? I'm trying to take it slow but my goodness!!!!

It is a way of saying they are really that interested in you and they don't want to hurt your feelings.

A friend of mine told me the other day that the guy I am interested in may be "shy" about me. Can anyone explain this to me? I am not sure I am getting what she meant by that. I asked her but no response yet. Any help?

Some things have happened over the past week or so with the guy I like. He has continued to work my shift last week and also this week. I have picked up the flirting a little bit more. Last week, I was having lunch and he came into the room where I was and did some paperwork but only until I left and then he left soon after and this happened on my second break as well. Our work needed someone to stay a few extra hours to help out and he asked if I could stay and I told him I needed to check something, well I was able to stay and then he asked me how long could I stay and I told him a couple of hours and he said you can stay until 8, I am staying until 8. Then the other day I was relaxing in room on my break and he was working on the computer and the light was on but I had put my head down to rest and he mentioned I could turn the lights off but I told him no, coz I didn't want to hurt his eyes while he was looking at the computer and he said I'll turn the lights off and he did. Also the other day our superiors had made a comment I was in an area I should not have been in and he stuck up for me, which I thought was cool. I was walking in a back room drinking some water and he side stepped infront of me to joke with me for a second and then he left. Why not just joke in passing, why the side step in front of me? He was pretty close to me as well(face to face). One of my friends was talking to me and he walked in and she said "I'm talking to my girlfriend, do you have a problem with that" and he said yes. I believe that these are excellent signs. Right??? I have mentioned to a friend of mine that I believe he figured out that I am the one who has a crush on him and she said that it was not a very good idea. I don't get that. Why would she not want me to let him know that I like him?

I have known him for about a year but he has worked the opposite shift from me, so I would normally only see him a couple of minutes during the day, an hour at the most. Makes it hard to get to know him. A group from work went out a couple of weeks ago and he was there but he didn't stay very long and other people were talking to him pretty much the entire time but when he did talk to the group he would always make eye contact with me. He will be working with me a few more days this week, don't know about next week yet. I am hoping that he will be working with me alot more so I can get to know him a little better and drop a few more hints, as soon as I find out what hints to give.

What are some things that I can do to let him know? Subtle hints may not be working on him. I smile at him alot and I am always interested in what he has to say. I am old fashion as well, I think that the guy should ask out the girl, but in todays world if you don't jump some one else will. I think that we just feeling each other out, but I want to get past this point but I just can't get up the nerve to ask him out.

I have been trying to figure out if this guy likes me. I have posted a few things on here recently to try and get advice about this. Well today, we actually worked together for the first time in a few months, he usually works a different shift than what I do but there has been some changes at our work so he was put on my shift. Anyway, first thing this morning I couldn't even say good morning to the guy but eventually after a while I finally did and it broke the ice. We saw each other very early on in the morning but neither one of us said anything to the other person. Well after I finally said good morning to him things seemed to pick up from there. Whenever I wasn't doing anything he would come overr to me and we would start talking a little bit and then some other people would join in. One time he came over to me and didn't say anything just looked at me in the eye and I said "what?" he said "nothing" and just kind of grinned a very small grin but then he got called away, and after that we just talked normal, but of course there was always someone with us while we were talking. Are these good things?? I think the little grin is really good? Maybe he knows that I like him and is just feeding his ego as well? In that case it would be bad? What do you guys think?? I'm trying to take thing slow to get to know him better and see if I really do like him or if it is just a passing thing. We work together so I want to be sure on way or the other instead of just jumping in. Any advice would be great!!!

I'm really shy when it comes to guys I like, however I am working on this "curse" . I have recently moved up to touching his arm, like one day I asked him to do something for me, (he was busy doing his opening count), he stopped what he was doing and did this thing for me, which I know is great. As I was leaving I told him thank you and touched his arm. What else can I do to let him know, in subtle ways, that I really like him? I was going to ask him out but a friend of mine suggested I wait, because he is afraid to date within the work place(understandably so). Should I respect this or should I go by his actions?

I posted about this guy I work with and that I like him but not sure if he likes me or not. Well, last night me and him and some other people from our work went out, and just hung out for a while. I have been trying to figure out if he feels the same about me, I don't want to make a move or anything until I am pretty sure he does, so that if he doesn't then it wouldn't be weird at work with us. So anyway, last night I was going to see how he is with me outside of work. At work we kinda flirt when no one is around and he is always making eye contact with me even when we are talking with other people. Last night it was the same thing. We would talk and joke around and everytime he would talk to the group he would always look at me and talk. My question is, is this a good thing? Always making eye contact with me, more with me than any one else that we were with. I take this as an excellent sign. What do you guys think?

I am getting to be 100% sure he likes me as well. Yesterday when I saw him he justed asked how did the day go but we talked briefly, and today we really didn't talk to each other but a co worker was in the room and they were messing with something and our co worker said something and the guy I liked replied something but I didn't hear what he said but he looked over at me and turned red. Good sign? I think so. We are planning a get together after work in a couple of weeks and he said he was going to go. I don't think he is seeing anyone or I don't think he would have planned to go so far in advance. I think this all sounds positive for me, right?

He has a great reputation at work, all of our coworkers thinks he's a great guy and that he is sweet and nice. I just need some help on how do I let him know I like him without coming on too strong? I really like this guy and I don't want this possibility get a way from me. I'm very shy when it comes to guys that I like. Any suggestions or ideas would be great!!!

I am in the process of finding out if he is seeing someone. He moved in from out of state, so I don't know if he followed someone here or what the story is. I'm pretty shy myself when it comes to guys I like, so if he is "available" I need to find a way to ask him out. Just recently he began to touch me on my back, by patting it when he jokes around with me. And when we are in a room together we usually always make eye contact. I see these as good signs from him, right?

I am needing some help trying to figure out this guy at work. He has a very dry sense of humor and everyone around works sees him this way. He jokes around with people but only in a limited circle, most of them are people working on his shift. However we get along pretty good, I'm pretty much the only one he jokes around with that is not on his shift. Here the thing, he only jokes around almost borderline flirting with me when no one is around, but when other people are around he is very professional and quiet, even when his best friend is around. One time I was talking with a group of people and he just happened to be around at this time, well I was leaving and I had to turn around coz someone called my name and I saw him "checking me out", this has been a couple of months ago. He trained on my shift for a couple of months but we didn't talk a lot and didn't get close. We never have really had a decent conversation because of our schedules but we just click and joking around wth him comes naturally. Finally my question, could he like me? Is this why he feels so comfortable with me? He is not this way with anyone else on my shift, as far as I can see. I have known shy guys before but not this shy and I don't know if his actions are because he may like me or if this is how really shy guys act. Help Plz!!!