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1Adam12

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  1. Do you still talk with this guy!..I'm sure he's been great to you but chances are high its a molestor.. Have you ever seen the movie Fear w/Resse Witherspoon?..that guy she was dating was perfect in her eyes til she had sex with him and then tried to break up with him only to get her father involved and the guy literally snaps!.. But thats beside the point..ok you realize its wrong so thats a good start but do you still talk to him though?..are you 'friends' with him still?..just not necessarily hanging out together??..cause if you are then you need to go to your parents because if he starts to pressure you then he can be charged with rape.. Just realize you are 14 and there are plenty of 14 year old guys out there who you can date..they will be much better for you than a freakin 24 year old.. Phillip
  2. Well how would u feel if your bf took pics of you like that and you didn't mind but then broke up with him and he put them on the net for you how do you think you'd react...
  3. Don't chicken out you'll never know unless you try on this one..it may very well work to your advantage. Phil
  4. Uh you do not want to be doing this..it exploits her and say you two got divorced you could distribute those pics on the net or to your friends and she would be ruined and branded a whore or something like that..Don't do this its not right at all Phil
  5. Don't go out with him..chances are either he doesn't know what he wants or he's just having himself one last 'fling' so to speak before he gets tied down..only its gonna leave u feeling hurt..I would just move on he's not worth it Phil
  6. Well talk to her friends about this..find out if this is how she gets during that time period if so then I would say just keep your cool and let her get it all out and she'll come around soon and it will be alright..Im sure she'll be very glad to know you didn't leave her when she said all that stuff to you.. Just my two cents Phil
  7. maybe space out the length of times you hangout with him or come shorten the times you talk..eventually it will pass
  8. it depends on the girl or guy I think..there isn't just One way to ask someone out..I think that is
  9. just ask her if she wants to hangout sometime...good luck tell us how it goes
  10. Have you or your husband gone to counseling or worse I guess consulted a divorce attorney..do you want to stay married to a man who cheated once and could always do it to you again??
  11. Hey Caldus, I used to be just like you but I'm telling you they don't bite when you talk to them!..well if they do then its nothing you wanna complain about huh?!! Like the other day I was walking to class and its pouring rain and Im just walking in the rain with my umbrella up and I see a girl walking ahead of me with hers so I just came up right next to her and just said "It had to rain today huh?"..and she was like I know in this flirty tone so to speak and smiled and everything..I even held the door for her when I got there..All you got to do is something like that..and don't put any stock into then the more and more you do it you gain confidence to talk to girls. Like I said they won't bite for you talking them..unless you want that...lol.. Good Luck Phil
  12. Well why not get her a nice necklace and then spend the money on something else for her..who says it's gotta be jewlery. Why not take her out for a romantic dinner at a nice resturant or get your picture taken with her and buy a nice frame with the pic in it to give to her. Try that I'm sure you'll think of something good. Good Luck Phil
  13. I see where your going on this..sort of like a depressed person has becomed so acustomed to being in this state of depression that they really don't want to leave it because its comfortable to them and something that isn't a change to them. Keep in mind some that suffer from depression don't respond to the medication or there is something else there other than the depression..that being a chemical imbalance that doesn't neccessarily respond to any drugs I've lost a friend to depression..he was on medication but just didn't respond and ended up killing himself over it.. Good topic though Phil
  14. Yea I would talk to her cause there's probably more there than just flirting unless she just gets from you what she can't get with her BF..but you should definetly talk to her cause she may like you and leave her bf for you who knows.. Good Luck Phil
  15. Your just nervous around him or shy thats all it is like t-dog said. I have that happen to me and I just bite my tongue and speak.. If I were you I wouldn't worry about what to say and stuff cause chances are he's just as nervous around you as you are him..you never know.. See it like this..he likes you alot otherwise he would't be going out with you!..so just relax and you'll be able to open up more around him Phil
  16. No Val not all guys are jerks just like all the other posters here have said..but if anything you learn from this situation. You know what to look out for, what to avoid, and I would think any guy that treats you like this one did you should see it as they are not worth your time..give them time they'll realize how good you could've been to be with but when they come crying back you'll already have what you want and won't give it up for anything. Good Luck Phil
  17. I'm curious here and I've always wondered about this: Why do some women seem to have this 'attraction' so to speak towards men in positions of authority and danger such as that of being a cop or firefighter?..is it the risktaking involved, the showing of authority or what?..or do they not do this at all..do they just want the man to be financially stable and there for them in the future when they need him? Just curious what do you guys think? Hope this isn't too stupid of a topic Phil
  18. Start looking for a new job then!..what do you wanna do..I mean do u wanna sit behind a desk all day working on TPS Reports and have a boss named Bill come by and ask "hows it going"!!(If anyone has seen Office Space they know what I'm talking about")..As for your lease how is your landlord towards you..do you two get along? are you always ontime with your rent?..if so maybe they would be willing to help you seeing as how they've never had problems with you and know your a good renter who knows..But get out there and look for a job that you'll want to do and as for your ex gf who cares! move on see this leaving your job and getting rid of her as good for you and that it will all work out in your favor in the end all do all of it.. But wanting to dies is not gonna help you Phil
  19. Interesting analogy they give with the telephone and all.. Phil
  20. I would suggest you up the flirting a little bit..like add touching nothing major just like touch his arm or somethin..I know that would probably do something for me if a girl did that.. You worry about him denying you well talk to him more when your around.. But if you want to just flat out ask him out on a date and see what he'll say then I would suggest handing him a letter addressed to him..do you know what his name is?..and just write a note in there saying you'd like to get to know him a little better and put your phone number in there..I think if he did that he'd be stupid to turn you down. It will all work out for you. Let us know how it goes Phil
  21. This is like a song that Steve Winwood once sang titled "Valierie"..about a girl lost to drug use. If i were you I would go since you say she isn't showing she's sincere than she isn't worth your wait. Phil
  22. That is very nice and it was very well written. Phil
  23. You really need to seek some form of counseling..killing yourself won't solve any of this..suicide isn't the answer to any of the problems you or we face in life Phil
  24. Hey complain but come and look at the American healthcare system...you gotta consult your HMO before you can have freakin brain surgery cause if they don't feel u should have it on well start planing a funeral..its a shame but that is funny I mean they should rename it the Its an emergency after you go to the doc plan b med..but I really can't tell u much on that though im sure you find something on the net somewhere Phil
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