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How is it that emergency contraception is only prescription regulated in Canada i thought that was only here in the U.S...cause they came into a debate about over the counter selling of that morning after pill RU 41 I think is what it is..is there like a planned parenthood clinic or some type of govt run clinic that you can go to..

I would either look online about that or try WebMD they seem to have info on just about everything..I mean you can practically diagnose yourself and tell your doc what to give you a prescription for..lol Well thats good he didn't pressure you and that he'll be proposing soon and all.. But try WebMD thats the only one I can think of Phillip

I wouldn't just leave it to chance so to speak..I mean you more than likely have a 99% chance that its nothing but I would go to the doctor anyways just to be on the safe side.. Just curious here and no offense but I read your previous posts about you wondering how much longer until he was going to commit to you and you two get married..but did he by any chance pressure you into doing this and maybe you felt that by having that maybe will get him to stay with you and you will be able to get married sooner? I was just curious please don't take any offense to that but I would be money on it that your not pregnant. Phil

Just go..don't think about just do it..bite your tongue walk up to her and ask her out!! she's probably wondering why you haven't already..so who cares how many times you've gone in there..Do it!! Let us know how it goes Phil

No offense but why should she take you back after you just completely go off on her like that..you said you knew that was why she called u..did she say that? or is that just your expert intuition telling you that?? If I were you yes I would call her and "swallow your pride"..what pride do you have to swallow if you ask me..you go off on her like she's a piece of **** and you want to Swallow Your Pride!!!!.. Lets not have you look like you want this girl if you gotta swallow your pride!!!..please!.. I would do this if I were in your situation call and apologize and if she goes off on you keep your cool and take it don't argue with her or try to stand up to her and be man and all that crap! No offense but don't be surprised if she won't take you back...I mean this is just my thought but if you make a girl cry you have really hurt her feelings..I mean look how easy it is to break her emotionally because you went off on her like that.. Phil

Thanks everbody for the posts..Mahlina I definetly like how you summed those points up that really makes sense to me cause I know just about one guy and girl who fit into each category for both sexes..although I'm definetly gonna put myself in the Witty Guy category..if i can spell definetly right..i think i did.. Phil

To answer your question on how long it stays in your system..it can be detected after a week it takes a while to completely leave. As for drinking water I wouldn't know. But as for how many doses does it take to get addicted to..guess what You already have the addiction to it!!..trust me you will be going back for more and more..Did you know that doing that wears away the sinus cavity in your nose..not to mention that **** goes straight to your damn brain!!!!..you killed off god only knows how many brain cells..You keep that stuff up you WILL DIE..There's no doubt about it..either that or you'll just be a methhead... You probably think im full of B.S for saying all of this thats fine you go ahead and think that..but no one can help you when your lyin on a cold slab down at the coroner's office with a toe tag and the autopsy states this of death..Overdosage of Crystal Methamphetamine I guess I say all of it cause I spent the last 6 years as a police explorer and they just happened to train me on all the dangers of drug use..not to mention the prison sentences for possession of it and selling it(Don't worry you'll be selling it soon if u keep it up..I mean how else are u gonna get the money to support your meth addiction??).. You probably think what's the deal I just did one freakin line?..well that one line will lead to more and more and more..How many doses does it take..I'll compare this to the Tootsie Roll Pop Question many licks does it take to get to the center..the world may never know"..there's your answer.. Hope you enjoy your "trip"..i'm sure its alot fun to be around the guy who snortin up meth..I bet he gets all the girls...NOT!!..I doubt any girls wanna hang around a junkie..unless they already are junkies themselves... Have a nice day Phil

Try 20 or 22 year old guys.. Phil

Ok I think some of us are a little tired of reading the same posts of "How can I give my bf a better bj and I'm only 14"..and blah blah blah..so read this then: I recently read a post on another message board that women think that wit can be a very sexy trait for man to have. By wit they do not mean farting jokes or sexual-related humor that is stupid..they are talking about i some form of intelligent humor so to speak. I myself have been told I can be a very witty person. So why is it that women might find this trait attractive? Does having this trait show some form of self-confidence or just a really good sense of humor or do women not find it likeable?..What does everyone think? Phil

Do you work anywhere?..that can always help u..more than a hobby..try reading a book or something.. Phil

I see exactly what your trying to do here and I do this often and it seems to work..but you must understand I am master when it comes to wit..you think i'm kidding try me..haha..It took me a while to get this way. Like ok I'm a movie geek for real..I've seen alot of movies in the last few years and still do watch them..but one of the best movies that helped me master my wit was Airplane!..it is sooo funny you must watch it..Also watch Comedy Central's Standup shows along with jay leno, jimmy kimmel, conan o'brien, and lewis black..they can help you. All I do is I go up to a girl and just make a silly remark about school or something just think of something funny about the teacher in the class or make a silly remark about the homework. Its hard to explain this I guess being witty is just a trait but I've heard girls love it! Phil

I would add these: -When you stop and realize you honestly want to spend the rest of your life with that person..you see your future together and he/she is in it..you see yourself raising a family.. -When you wanna do everything you can to take care of that person and be there for them through as the vows say "Til death do us part".. Phil

I would probably handle this one of two ways..but just like Burger King you can have it your way...hahaha 1. When you two are together and alone..or in a area where there aren't alot of people around just go ahead and kiss him..Since you say you have little experience that may set him off..I know its a bold move but I don't think he'd have anything wrong with it.. OR 2. You could just ask him "aren't you going to kiss me?"..or "when are you going to kiss me?"..try that..let us know how it goes.. Phil

Yes you should say something..you don't have to put up with that!!..You say your possibly interested in him..sounds like he'd want one thing from you if you date him. Why would u want someone like that..it just shows all he wants from you is basically sex and that he doesn't give a damn about you or your feelings at all!! or even has the same level of attraction towards you more than likely he'll just want sex from you then when u don't want to give it to him he will leave.. I think Some..hence Some guys use sexual innuendo to boost their own ego or to show off their cockiness which just makes them look stupid..not to mention using sexual inneundos in the workplace will get you fired! I mean I honestly cannot think of any girl I have known or knew..but I know for a fact there are A Lot of guys out there who don't do this. I'm a guy and I wouldn't dare open my mouth and say those to a girl, thats asking for trouble. In my opinion its degrading to women out there who we are supposed to treat with respect..goes to show you the kind of society we live in these days.. Anyone else have an opinion?? Phil

Fretless those are all very good ideas..I did the weight loss one right after graduating I lost a good bit of my weight and I still am able to keep it off with being able to workout all the time..Yes its helped me gain some self-confidence but... WaitForever is right you gotta have a better self-esteem..if you walk around with your head down you'll not only run into a wall but you'll give off the vibe of unapproachable or depressing ..etc...but if you walk around with your head held high and walk with confidence stand tall dont slouch people will notice that also say Hi to people..act approachable and talk to girls more..just strike up a conversation with them..they won't bite you well maybe if your lucky!!!lol!! Hope that helps some Phil

Go back there for lunch or whatever when u know she's working and ask her out..like I guess you could be silly about it and like write a note on the check when she comes to get it or actually just flirt with her about getting a date with her like I dunno just ask.."So whats it take to get a date with such a pretty girl like yourself?" Let us know how it goes..Good Luck it should work out for you Phil

Just calm down and take some deep breaths and you'll be fine..it's not like she's gonna bite you on the date..well maybe a little..lol.. Let us know how it goes Phil

Come on TheOneGman I think it went well so get your mack on pimp! j/k I bet everything will turn out good for you just find out if she has a bf or not Good Luck Phil

First off let me tell Mahlina here that is a real good looking pic of you!!.. Don't worry about paying for college DragonSlayer..if you make good grades in high school and start getting involved with your community you'd be surprised how many scholarships and grants are out there for you to get..go to this site removed[/i] and do a scholarship search..the results are real good and also talk to you guidance counselor's about all this..that's what their paid to do..otherwise we wouldn't need them for the "guidance". As for knowing what you wanna do when u get older..More Power to you..when I was in 9th grade and 15 as well I had already decided I was going to do some form of public service whether it be working for a local PD or the FBI..well today..I'm in college and still on the same career track and hopefully in the next 2 years I'll have my B.S degree and I'll be headed to Washington D.C to join the U.S. Secret Service.. Your parents can't control you forever but still talk with them but like Mahlina said Don't let anyone get you down..I took a lot of slack in HS for wanting to work in the criminal justice field..what can I say a lot of people don't like the cops!.... But remember one thing..stop and have fun once in a while especially make your college experience an enjoyable one..and don't say If I make it to college think I will and I am going!!..don't change your attitude on that at all... Thats all I have to say.. Good Luck Phil

I think she would Love it!!..I knew a guy once who sang "Can't take my eyes off you" and he held eye contact the WHOLE time with her and when he was done she was in tears cause she loved it soo much. Sing her something u know she likes?.or sing her My Girl, or I only have eyes for you..those are ones I'd play on CD since I can't sing well Phil

What I look for in an ideal girlfriend..well everyone's seen all my posts so I'm gonna take a crack at it and see what those who know me think as well.. 1. What do I a guy really look for in a relationship: I look for the love and companionship..I don't care one bit about sex..to me sex is too overrated I'd rather it be with someone I love and am gonna spend the rest of my life with through marriage. In my ideal relationship I want the committment to be filled on both ends, and I want her to know I'm there for her and that she will be there for me when we need each other the most. I also want her to know that I'm gonna be there to protect her and that she can count on me to always keep her safe and secure. 2. Things I find irresistible about a girl: Anytime she smiles or laughs at silly things I say. I love it when I hear a girl I like start voicing her views/opinons it brings out this intelligent side of her that if you just saw her walking by you wouldn't see..I love it cause I think intelligence in a girl is sexy..thats just me don't know about others here. Also when a girl plays with her hair..like straightening it out or putting it up and letting back down I love that..I love it when girls wear their hair down more than up I think it makes them look more attractive. 3. Things I can't live without in the relationship: I would say I can't live without the communication..I mean I don't want to sound clingy but I'd always wanna talk to her and ask her how her day was what all she did whats she gonna do tomorrow , stuff about work and I would like her to do the same. Another thing I couldn't live without would be the affection..giving it to her and getting it from her..I always would want her to know how much I care for her by being able to hold her hand or kiss her or cuddle with her on the couch watching tv. 4. What would make me decide to terminate the relationship: If it honestly looks like its going south, not returning calls, dodging me, showing signs of falling out of love with me then I would have to take a look at our relationship and see if it is worth trying to salvage. Hope that is what you were looking for Phil

I would think asking her out would mean going somewhere on an actual date..just my 2 cents. Phil

Well then if Girl 1 seems to be going well as you say it is then have at it and have fun and I hope everything turns out ok..Girl 2..I don't know..its kinda iffy..by that I mean these bf's she's had may be just cause she wanted to get closer to you and then again maybe she just doesn't want a serious relationship. But stick with Girl 1 for now I guess..anyone else wanna comment on this?? Phil

I think by teasing she's going to be playfully making fun of things you do or how u act and you gotta do the same. Its just a matter of flirting only you have to walk a fine line so u don't hurt her feelings with something you would tease her about that she might take seriously. Hope that helps. Phil

He's probably just nervous cause now he has a chance he didn't think he'd get..I say keep calling him, talking to him..heck just flat out ask him out to something where u and him can be together..I don't think any of this would view you as aggressive because he hasn't even turned you down. Phil