Hybrid_Worm

How do you know if you are Really in Love? Good question ain't it? Im looking for opinions on how you know if your REALLY in love. I know that love cannot be described but we all have opinions about that and i would like to know em, if you people dont mind Anywayz my opionions on how you know that your really in love are: -When you enjoy the simple fact of just hanging out with that person. -When you find yourself thinking of the person whenever your not with him/her. -Whenever that person feels happy you feel happy too. -With just the fact of looking him/her in the eyes or thinking of, you feel a great feeling all over you. Well this are some of mine, i would like what ya all have to say, take care everyone, cya

Thanx for the quick answer. I know its a lot of work. A lot of my time and energy willl go into this. I know im not her therapist in fact she has one, but she asked for my help and that is what im gonna do. How can i help her? talking things out. I was thinking of doing something that will boost her self confidence. I have some knowledge about this type of probs. from experience and books ive read. I know i could use my energy in helping myself out, its not that i dont care about me but she is in a worst situation that i am, ive been up n down emotionally for years and right now im in a long "up" I just want her to feel better. Thxs for the Url s u gave me, ill read them in the morning, 3 am here, and i really wanna put attention to it so i better to read them well rested. Ill let ya know how things work out and again, Thanks.

Hello, srry to bother ya all.... again. Well my problem is this... I have this friend a girl, whom im nuts about, we have a pretty good relationship, i know she has feelings for me and i do for her. What i wanna do is help her, thats why im here, she wont get into a serious relationship until she straightens up all her problems. What she has is lack of confidence in herself, she used to care a lot about what people say bout her, she needed theyr approval for everything. For example we both are very fund to music, when she makes a song she has to hear from someone that it is good, so that she believes its good, if somebody tells her that it sucks well, i think you all know what happens. She doesnt care about herself, imagine a mountain of people, she sees herself in the bottom while everyone else is on top. for more that i try to help her talking we get nowhere and she stays as confused as she was when we begin talking. she talks to me about everything. I HAVE to help her. shes my friend and i love her, so i have to help her no matter what. So thats why im here asking for all the advice i can get in this situation. I have to make an event or something special that helps her recover that self estime, that faith in herself. I just dont know how so im asking people with experience here to help me out. HELP PLZ!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

You should talk to her, phone her and ask her to go out for some coffe i dunno, and talk to her. Maybe shes just going through problems right now, i have a friend going through something like what ur ex is going through. She doesnt know what she really wants. In my opinion confont her, tell her how you feel about the situation. Another thing, do you really like her? Its non of my bussiness and you dont have to answer to me or here, just ask that to yourself. I hope this helped ya somehow Well if you need someone to talk too contact me.

You should talk to her, she has issues and maybe she just needs someone to talk to, tell her suicide is NOT THE WAY TO GO, been there, done that, talking from experience, help her out. Show her that she has a friend to talk to, let her open up to you. About the hotline, i cant really advice there, i have no idea, srry. You should register at this forum so we can talk more of this if you want. Contact me if u need someone to talk to.

Well, in my opinion you should confront him, its best to let the other person know how you feel and where you stand, maybe he just has no clue about how u feel, maybe he is going through rough times, maybe he just wants to end the friendship. Sometimes people dont know what they have until they lose it. So i think you should talk to him and tell him everything, see how he reacts. I can just wish you good luck, losing a friend is not something easy, but hey thats life. If you ever need someone to talk to contact me.

thats a good idea, the only prob is that if i fall into the "good friend" category ill never be able to date her I would so much like to help her out with her problems, i just dont want to turn into 1

Hello everyone, this is my first post here, im wrting about this prob i have. I met this girl last Monday, since i saw her i fell in "love", i cant stop thinking about her. I've never had a prob to date or stuff like that. But with this girl its different. I dont want to loose her, with all others i had nothing to lose, with her i can lose her, If she rejects me and our friendship goes to hell i dunno what i would do. Im 18 in a few months and she'll be 21 in a few months also. I asked a friend to ask her how does she feel bout me, he told me that she has too much problems in her life atm, and that looking for a Bf is not in her prioritys, well if i could only be there to help her out, i dont want to put another problem in her head.... I have no clue as of what to do, wait? tell her how i feel? will she reject me cause of my age? too many questions and no answers. I need some advice