TheOneGman23

Hey, I posted here a few weeks ago about asking out a girl in my class that I didn't really know or talk to. Since then I've been talking to her a little and tonight I asked her if she wanted to go get some coffee after class. We'll I didn't exactly ask I told her I was planning to go get some coffee and she was invited to come (something like that). She said yes (something like she always likes to get coffee after class) and we met at the coffee shop. It took me a few weeks to do it, but it wasn't as bad as I thought it would be. She talked a lot about her family and I talked about some stuff, it was non-stop no pauses or anything. The only bad thing was she refused to let me pay, she said it was for getting me in trouble at school but I tried. The cashier wouldn't take my money. I'm not sure how everything went for her but we were there for like 40 min until the place closed then went our separate ways. I had fun, I hope she did too. I was going to ask for a number, but it didn't seem right so I figured I'd just see her in class tomorrow. I almost didn't say anything to her about going but I did it because I figured it would be better than having to go on beating myself up about chickening out. I recommend if you think you have a shot at the girl go for it. I'm glad I did. Now I'm not sure what to do. I'll see her tomorrow but I'm not sure how she feels. Not even sure if she has boyfriend. I figure things can go two ways she didn't really like me and will maybe say a few things tomorrow, or she does like me and we do something again. Anyone have any advice for me?? Thanks

Alright, I'll let you know how I do tomorrow.

Hey. I made a post a few days ago (Title - Want to ask a girl out from my class) about asking out a girl I dont really talk to in my class. I tried going up to her to make conversation in class but that didn't turn out too well since for some reason most of the class started showing up (about only half before) and shes been leaving early. So I dont really have a chance to talk to her in class without making it extremely obvious. Am I better off just going up to her and asking for her number to get to know her better or going straight to asking for a date? Another person I talked to said I'm better off just going to her in class (even if there might be a few ppl around her) and asking her for her number than a date to get to know her better to plan a date later. I'm still not quite sure what to say without making an ass out of myself but I can probably come up with something. My plan is to pull it off Monday before/during class since I told a few of my friends (they're also in my class) about it I'm gonna have to go for it. Thanks

Hi, there's this girl I like in some of my college classes at school. I've been thinking of asking her out, but I'm not really good at these kind of things. I have never really talked to her before, but I'm pretty sure she knows my name and who I am. In a lab at school she's asked me a few questions on how to do something on what she was working on and I tried to help a little, but besides the few times in the lab I've never really talked to her in class. I don't know if she has a boyfriend or not (she's pretty hot she might have a bf), all I really know is her name and that she's in some of my classes. She usually sits alone and doesn't really talk to a lot of people even though she seems to know some of the people in class.I talked to two of my friends who are in the same classes with me as the girl I like. They say they think I have a good chance (or might just want a good laugh heh) and that I should go for it, but I don't know what to say to her. I don't know if I'm being too forward by just coming out of the blue with this to her and if things go bad I've still got class with her for another month and a half. I'm pretty sure that I will at least give it a try (If I have the balls and it works, will have been well worth it). My plan so far is something like... Hi, my names ___. I'm in a few of your classes here at school. Id really like to get together and do something with you sometime. (taken from this site, too vague?).....After that I'll pretty much improvise and throw in a few jokes depending on how things go. So far this seems like its going be extremely awkward for me and perhaps for the girl I like. Can anyone give my advice to help guide me on what I should try to say to her and perhaps on how to approach her? Thanks