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  1. If you ever decide to run an online personal ad, make sure your ex-boyfriend is not in any of your photos. We guys hate that. Crop out his head, arms, hands, fingers, feet, shoulders, ALL of him. Or better yet, use a photo that he was not in.
  2. What a coincidence! That's exactly what I did yesterday. I did it about eight times.
  3. I've made a new acquaintance through an online dating site. She and I have been exchanging emails for the last week. We have not gone out yet. I'd say we're hitting it off pretty well. However - our conversations tend to be more intellectual than emotional. I'm a bit frustrated and worried that we might end up "just friends" like every other girl I meet. I wonder what is the best way to avoid this.
  4. What a thoughtful question. Let me see... Cutting is a pretty handy attention getting device. So when your family and counselors start to ignore your complaints, cutting is a way to communicate with them that is much harder to ignore. Keep in mind, I am not addicted to cutting, or if I am, I am highly atypical of cutters. I cut about once or twice a year, and I started at a late age (eighteen). Hope this helps!
  5. This morning I was hacking at my wrists with a potato peeler. First time I've ever harmed myself in that particular way. Didn't bleed much. Everytime one of my friends gets depressed, some "thing" always comes along to pull them back from the brink. A new girl, a new job, et cetera. Now it's my turn. Where's my "thing"? Why am I the only one who, when he gets depressed, tends to stay that way? Why am I the only one who gets to the brink of suicide and then just sort of hangs there, in unbearable pain, for days or weeks at a time?
  6. It just occurred to me that I can sometimes go weeks at a time without being spoken to by another human being, besides my parents and psychoanalyst. I don't understand. I'm enrolled full-time in university. Isn't that supposed to be a good way to meet people? We're nearly three and a half months into the school year, and I have yet to make a new "friend". I try chatting with people, but our conversations always fizzle out far too quickly. I go to parties sometimes, too, but I've yet to meet anyone willing to talk with me for more than a few minutes. What's wrong with me?
  7. Umm...the next time a guy asks you out, how about saying something other than "no"?
  8. Thank you IKK!!! for that ice-cold dose of reality. A thousand blessings upon your house.
  9. Thank you for your reply ShySoul. I was diagnosed with clinical depression 2 years ago, and have been receiving drugs and psychotherapy ever since, but it hasn't done any good. I've gotten worse, not better. In the last 2 years I've lost many friends and not gained any. I want SO BADLY to like my life, but when nobody else cares whether you live or die, its kind of hard. The only person who cares is my shrink, and I have to PAY HIM to care.
  10. It's one thing to hear from older virgins. I know men in their 20's, 30's and 40's who are virgins. But I have NEVER heard of anyone making it this far and then losing their virginity later. It's like there's a point of no return.
  11. I never got on well with my parents. They have been extremely cruel to me, and I give as good as I get. Well that would be nice, except I don't have any close female friends, or any friends whatsoever who are close enough for me to talk to about this. Is this even something friends are supposed to do? It seems bizarre.
  12. It's supposed to be about whatever I want it to be about. I don't know what an "emotional connection" is, as I don't think I've ever had one with another human being. I would view visiting a prostitute as an experiment, just to see what happens.
  13. I think I'd rather run the risk of an STD or the night in jail, than have to put up with the current state of affairs much longer. When you're abnormal in this way, it makes you question whether you are a man at all or just half of one.
  14. It so happens that I live in Toronto. Any suggestions for clubs?
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