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    I would just wait it out..I think its like the previous poster said she is probably on the rebound from her last bf. Do you still talk to her on a regular basis if so try to talk to her about how she's doing and what not but mainly you just gotta give her time I think you had a very good date and I think she likes you but more than likely has stuff she needs to get straightened out before she can get back out there again.. Good luck keep us posted Phillip
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    Yea I would like it alot! especially if it was a girl I was trying to get a date with ...that would really take alot of the pressure off.. Phillip
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    Well crazyking your never going to get anywhere sitting around getting drunk.. I'm 20 and I still am alone no g/f, 1 study date, and thats it nothing more but I don't go around moping about being alone cause no one will want to talk to me.. You say you live in a small town..well go out towards a big city near you or something..You have to believe in yourself and act like that..It is just going to take patience..But I don't think any girl wants to date an alcoholic..you should really cut down on that stuff..being drunk only provides you with a temporary escape from your problems and when you wake up with your hangover they are right back there in your face Phillip
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    1Adam12 replied to Caldus's topic in Dating Advice

    I would just go and see if they are hiring Caldus..and when you go there and ask that girl "Hey you wanna hangout sometime?"..and see what she says.. I wouldn't wanna move to that area if u are not sure they are hiring..and just for this girl..be careful cause work relationships can have a backlash I imagine if you two don't workout.. But if anything go for the interview just to see who knows you might wanna do that and the money might be good and maybe you'll get the girl too.. Keep us updated Caldus and Good Luck! Phillip
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    No the good guys have NOT given up..I for one haven't and won't I'm 20 and I've been burned twice trying to get 1 date still haven't gotten it yet.. To the girls...look around and look at some of the guys who you would just put in the 'oh he's cute but I wouldn't date him'..well why wouldn't you..he may not neccessarily look like your type but you have no idea what he's like if you just give him the cold shoulder when he tries to get to know you..(The only exception to this are clubs and bars where its just drunk men trying to get some and you probably don't care to know them).. But ladies you say the good guys aren't any good guys around anymore I say look around just give one or two that maybe you would just consider but just decided against give them a shot..unless your instincts just tell you that guy is a loser then thats understandable.. Phillip
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    Last time I looked there isn't anything to help make your hair grow faster... Your just gonna have to wait it out..usually it takes my hair almost 4 weeks to grow back to before i got it cut but i dont' keep my hair as near long as you are trying to get it.. When do you start school?..Im guessing August late July..it will grow a good bit by then so just wait it out.. Phil
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    Hi VickiRose.. What makes you think he's snubing you..you mentioned your date is a ways off cause you 2 are both busy..You think maybe he's just been real busy and hasn't gotten either of your IM's.. I would certainly worry if you are not hearing from hear the week of the date..do you have a phone number or do u see him at school..if you do then you need to talk to him...more than likely he may have not gotten your IM's cause he's busy with work or school.. Keep me posted please and I hope it works out for you Phillip
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    Hmm this is somewhat of a tight spot I can see your in but i would suggest you wait it out ..yes you say this guy playes games with her head but it is her head and she will like who she wants to you know..but here are some tips though for flirting with her if you just wanna take a shot at it Just sorta compliment her and stuff on how she looks..i.e: her hair, item of clothing she's got on, whatever you can think of Don't always be around her I would say cause you'll wind up in the friends category and you don't want that at the moment..not to say its bad though.. Talk to her about doing stuff together and see what she says.. All in all I would just wait it out but its a free country and if she wants to date the guy who messes with her head thats her choice to make and hers only Keep us updated Phillip
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    You should go for it..you really should.. I think he'll probably be very flattered that you asked him out and will more than likely appreciate you making the first move. If I were you I would just email him or better call him up and ask him how he's doing..whats he up to these days..was he able to get him a better job?..Then just say well why don't me and you get together one night and catch up on how things are going Worse comes to worse is he'll say no but I really don't think he will..besides you never know unless you try Keep us updated.. Phillip
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    If it ended on a good note then your good for starters..Just call her up and make casual conversation with her...ask her how she's doing, hows school, work, etc...Just flat out ask her if she wants to meetup and get some ice cream or coffee or something and catch up on things since you two haven't talked in over 2 months and see what she says... If your real nervous just bite your tongue and do it..cause you will never know unless you pick up the phone and talk to her..for all you know she could be wondering if you will call her up .. Good Luck let us know how it goes.. Phillip
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    This is a really question to raise Trypanosoma.. I don't know if I consider myself a shy guy as much as some others would I don't know..But me for me here are my responses to your questions.. 1st -No I would not reject her I would think she liked me cause hey she asked me out so obviously there is something there 2-No I would not pretend not to like her thats stupid it would make her think I don't like her and she'd basically give up trying to go out with me. 3. I wouldn't stay real quiet but yes I'd be very nervous..not in terms of getting to know her but more on the side of I really don't wanna screw this up who knows where it could go. Hope that gives you a little more insight to the shy people..but then again I dunno if I'm considered a shy guy anymore seeing as how I did ask 1 girl out but got shot down in a way Phil
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    Thanks guys I appreciate it..hubman I'm about 180 right now..I went to that from 225 almost a year ago so I don't consider myself overweight anymore but I didn't know that it could cause it..but the chair yea I knew it was bad but just didn't really know how bad Either way thanks I appreciate.. Phil
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    Does anyone here know how to get rid of pain in the lower back..towards the small of your back?? Just over the past few days I have been having minor pain in my lower back..I've only taken Advil and used Icy Hot pain reliever for it.. At my job I am sitting down alot but the chair isn't that comfortable its a metal chair though I try to getup every hour Im working and walk around some..would that sitting be the cause of this pain? I was in a car accident a few years back and had back problems resulting from do you think maybe that its an old problem starting to come back around? This just really bothers me..I mean Im not in like major I can't walk pain but nonetheless its irritating as all get out! Any help on it I appreciate it..Thanks Phillip
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    If you ask me you should both just cease fire..think about this..you say each time you 2 fight your 5 year old has been with her day..who'se to say your not gonna fight when she's there?..it will happen you may say it won't but it will.. You say you've tried counseling..how hard did you to try it? did you really want it to work? did you put any effort on BOTH sides to try to make it work?? You two both need to sit and down and act civil and discuss this matter without either ones temper or ego getting in the way cause if you don't this will just get worse..one day a neighbor will hear your fighting and call the police..you might say no that won't happen but you never know.. Phillip
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    I think she is either very forgetful or just doesn't wanna do anything with you..In my opinion it sure seems like she's avoiding you..I mean agreeing to a date and then u call 45 mins ahead of time and she doesn't answer...just my thoughts but if she was into u she'd be looking forward to the date and not forget about it.. If I were you I would call her again and ask her whats up and tell her straight up if she doesn't want to go out with you she needs to be upfront about it instead of stringing you along..and if she wants to reschedule I'd say go ahead with but call the day before instead of 45 mins..that way if she cancels then atleast your not all ready to go and then finding out she's going to be a no show.. Hope that helps Phillip
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    Your welcome..PM me if you need anymore help with all this Phillip
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    Cyankino in my opinion I can't tell you what decision to make..YOU are going to have to think this one over Very carefully.. One side of you says help her, and her family and all try to help her get back on her feet and keep clean from using meth or anything else. Be her friend and perhaps try to start back where you two left off in the relationship. The Other side says You are Free..Go and be gone with her she's on her own..she had her chance with you and she blew it..So what about her or her family they don't need me they'll live.. You say you risk getting dismissed by either for talking to the mother about this well you are going to have to weigh the consequences and think about what you think is right..But whatever decision your going to have to stand firm and not back down from your stance on it.. Hope that helps Phillip
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    I would say just wait it out..call her after graduation and ask her again if she wants to try and get together if she says yes then go ahead and make plans..If she doesn't answer or doesn't call you back I would just chalk it up to maybe she just doesn't know what she wants or doesn't want anything with you right now who knows.. But if she doesn't answer I wouldn't call her back again and if she doesn't call after a while I'd say its safe to assume she doesn't want anything...just go on and see it as her loss there.. Hope that helps Phillip
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    He's probably just as scared as you are..go and get you a calling card and call him up..think about it whats the worst that could happen..he not like you?..well then you'll know he wasn't worth your time Phil
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    Well if he was like that before hand it was probably because he's nervous talking to you because he likes you and is just shy.. He's different in person probably because he's ok talking to you there because there may be other people around but on the phone its just you and him and maybe he can't think of anything good to keep the conversation flowing.. Good Luck hope it works out in your favor. Phillip
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    I think yes he still loves you but more than likely he is a little uneasy talking to you on the phone because he's talked to you on the internet for so long. I think him asking to call and not call you back is he's probably nervous cause he called you 3 times that day and maybe scared that he made you mad or agitated at him for calling all those times trying to talk to you.. I think it will work itself out maybe you call him up or just keep talking to him online until he's more comfortable to talk to you on the phone.. Hope that helped Phillip
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    Hi gallaway welcome to enotalone.. First off I haven't been that far so with regards to NC and all..But In my opinion I think that she is saying that because she maybe wanting to get back together with you. Yes, I think NC seems to have worked but I think when you sent the bulk email out that she happened to get maybe she started thinking about it all.. You are prepared to tell her everything..are you sure you want to do that?..I mean what if she does just want a casual friendship?..Is that what you want? Since your just meeting her for drinks I'd say yes act casual and just talk to her about stuff and sorta move into that area cautiously and just sorta gauge her reactions towards the conversation to see if you should go further or back away from it.. Good Luck let us know how it goes.. Phillip
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    Ok your too nervous to call him...well whats the worst that could happen..he not feel the same way?..I don't think thats going in his mind if you ask me..Call him..just bite your tongue and dial the number and talk with him about all of this OR Call him and ask to meet him face to face somewhere that way you can gauge his emotional reactions to what all your talking to him about and see maybe he will start to talk about this more I think if you just bite your tongue and talk to him either way it will turn out in your favor..more than likely he's just scared to make the first move fearing he may get burned ..I think he would greatly appreciate you taking the iniative to make the first move .. Hope that helps you some. Phillip
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    Just be direct in your approach..tell him "Hey if you like looking at these other women you won't have any problem with me looking at these other guys then will you?"... I don't point the blame at your or your sex life..in my opinion its more or less he may not realize how much this is hurting you. Just because he may think he's not "getting enough" is still not an excuse to act like a 17 year old boy!.. Just be direct about it and tell him this bothers you Alot Good luck Phil
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    Hi luvedup welcome to Enotalone.. I think the best thing for you to do now is call him up..not txt him actually call him up and have a talk with him. I wouldn't come right out and admit your feelings to him but sorta hint around with the idea that you really want to try and take this to a more serious level. Try to gauge his reactions to what your saying..listen to what he's talking about too..He may want a relationship but maybe he doesn't want to because of the distance btwn the two of you..maybe he feels that distance would not allow the relationship to progress and would leave both of you hurt. I think he likes you and wants more out of this but there is more than likely something holding him back from wanting it and you need to talk to him and pinpoint what that something is Hope that helps u some Good luck Phillip
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