Newfoundglory

Ok, Im 17 and I have never had a girlfriend or anything.And Im geting pretty depressed about it.I notice girls looking at me but I never do anything because Im so damn shy and I dont know what to say.I mean what do you say to someone you dont even know???I need some tips/advice (again)Because lately I have been thinking about this girl who I could see myself with, but I only see her every once in a while. I think I would have a good chance if I could just get some MAJOR advice.Like maybe day by day.PLZ im so tired of being alone.But I need very detailed stuff because I dont want to screw anything up and Ive never had any experience, and this is the only girl at my school I can see myself with, because I go to an alternative school with only about 150 people.

Hey man, you dont want to be just her friend. TRUST ME TRUST ME TRUST ME. Ive been in that situation more than a few times.Matter of fact thats about all Ive been in.Oh, its ok at first.But then she starts telling you sh*t you dont want to know.Like who shes sleeping with etc.The worse part is if you get in a situation where your around her and her boyfriend.Its painful.Dont go for "friends". Go straight for bf man!!

Im 17, and I have never had a girlfriend... never even close.I have been close to girls that ive liked but when I tell them how I feel I always get the same response... "I was attracted to you at first but then we talked and became friends" or something along the lines of that,give or take.Im beginning to think theres something wrong with me... like I might have a bad personality or something.I think I look pretty good, I would say a 7, but aside from that I have no self-confidence whatsoever... and I was told girls are attracted subconsiously to self-confidence...

I need help interpreting what this girl is doing.I met her a few months ago.She came up to me and talked to me first because I was a little shy.Well im over that now Im pretty comfortable around her now. So we've been friends for a few months, and since day 1 I have had this huge crush on her.We are exactly like, we both like the same kind of music and we just click together really well. Well she has a boyfriend.I know,I know, it sucks.But despite that she has been sending me mixed signals since Ive met her.Like she wrote "I And the past few days she's been staying at my house because her mom isout of town.ANd she wont sleep in the guest room, she sleeps in my room,I sleep in the quest room.And she told me she masterbated in my bed last night.... I know it might seem obvious to some people but the way she says it she makes it really unclear. and another question.I wanted to flirt with her to see her reaction.But I dont know really what to do and Im kinda nervous about doing that... any advice is appreciated....

No, some thickness on a girl is actually attractive thing in my opinion.And they actually get points on the 1-10 scale because I think its sexy.And this is coming from a 5'5' 110 pound guy..I get so tired of seeing toothpick bleached-blonde brittney-wannabes I could puke.

damnit! wrong thread.

sigh.... the mission is dead.My "good vibes" are gone.I can tell when a person is attracted to me and when theyre not,almost 100% I am always right, its just a little gift I have, I call it empathy.sigh...and those vibes are dead! I can tell she just wants me as a friend.And im not going through that again.... loving someone forever and all they want is friendship, its tortuous and I absolutely refuse going through it again.Here comes the ironic part.... how do I lose touch with her? I want out... but I dont want their to be any hard feelings. I hate my miserable existence.I HATE IT!!!!

If he really does like you then it shouldnt matter to him at all, in my opinion at least.... then again thats me.

Heres the situation,I am 17,I have never had a girlfriend or been kissed due to being in private school for a long time.Ive been in public school for 3 yrs now and have recently started going to summer school so I can graduate on time. I met this girl in summer school and at first I was way too shy to talk to her but thanks to you guys me and her have become good friends in just a few weeks.Im not a bad looking guy,In fact I would say I look pretty good.And lately she has been giving me signs that she's attracted to me, at least I think so anyway.But I found out that she is in love with this guy who just uses her and plays mind games with her head.What can I do to stop this?Ive never had any experience in this type thing and even though Ive only known her for a few weeks I cant help but think about her ALL the time, am I heading for a collision? Am I just going to get hurt here? Or do you think I can pull her away from this loser? Any advice or tips are appreciated Btw this week I would like to drop some hints that I like her via flirting but Ive never really done this much, and I never trust my own opinions especially when Ive never done this before, any input is welcomed

hehe sorry about that, I just thought the other threads were dead and no one would come back to them after I updated them

this community gives me hope for the internet,everywhere else I went I got laughed at and flamed, thanks everyone for the great advice. read part III!!!

Hi again, just posting to say Ive been talking to that girl I was to shy to talk to for the past few days during our 10 minute breaks between periods.Her name is Paige and damn is she hot.But I still have so many insecurities and issues to cover!!... She still kinda makes me nervous, though not as bad as it was.Will I ever get over that?? Also, I would like to ask her for her number but im not too sure where to bring that up in a conversation or how to say it.Im almost 100% sure she will give it to me because I have a strong feeling shes attracted to me to, and top it all off we are exactly alike, I would say we are a perfect match.And if I do get her number, what do I talk to her about?? I hate long awkward pauses while im on the phone with a friend, Im sure it will scare the hell out of me if there any of those with her... any advice or tips are welcomed!!

find someone you can talk to, having someone to talk to gives the that same feeling of released tension, for me anyway, cutting yourself is really dangerous,Ive only done it once and I had to wear longsleeves forever.And think about it, if you slip up, or just get a little more frustrated BAM! theres your life gone down the drain, you just killed yourself.And you dont even know your problems are solved when your dead because well...your dead.You may even want to talk to a proffessional, hell I dont even cut myself(besides the one time) and I still like to unload on my guidance counselor once in a while

Nope no class with her. If I did it would be so much easier on me.Thats what my problem is, I only see her going down the hallway and I would feel very very awkward stopping and talking to her with me not even knowing who she is.She does sit at a table before school officially starts and thats when I would be more comfortable to make the attack,because the whole hallway deal is just awkward.I just dont know what to say,actually what you said is perfect to say, I just have a hard time breaking the ice.Maybe one day next week ill take a few shots of brandy before I go to school

I dont know, I just see her on the way to class, and she is obviously attracted to me.On breaks she always happens to be near me,she looks at me in the hallway etc, I just cant talk to her, even though theres like a 90% chance.I posted here yesterday and I got good advice, but when it came down to it I just couldnt do it, I guess im just doomed to die a lonely old man...