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hi, i started to chat to her, which good, she says she is not ready to meet up yet. so i told her she got all da time in da world. i really miss her but i guess i have to wait and find out. wish me best n pray it goes well. i keep u up lot up to date. cheers for da advice

Hi, I need some advice. i hope this is the right place. me and this girl went on a date. this was the first time we met as he saw each other on the net. she knows that i like her before we even met coz we talk on the phone and on msn. The date: I was supposed to meet her around 12.45 near the golden jubliee bridge. and well she got lost on how to get there so she calls me up and says i am sorry i got lost coz i am excited to see you coz i really like you. i said i know, i like u too. we met up and ai gave her a rose and when i saw her i thought wow, she is just perfect. we started to walk and decided well have an ice cream she said she was not hungry but so we brought one and shared it. it was funny coz we kept on looking at each other in the eyes and would laugh and giggle and flirt. all was going well. I thought lets do the standard an watch a movie, we started to watch a movie and instead of grabbin her hand, i asked her politly if i could hold her hand coz i did not want to make her feel uncomfortable. and it was all good. we watched the film and then walked to a park, talking about little things u know to make converstation and flirting and stuff. we got to the park we both sat down and held hands and talked about us and it was all good, i started to like play with her hand and she liked that. and we where both starting to look into each others eyes longer and started smiling and stuff. She could not stay for long as she had to go somewhere with her parents. i told her i drop her off close to home, she was like no i don't have to but i insisted and she was happy that i did. we started to walk toward the platform and stuff and we just held hands coz it felt natural and very comfortable. i my head i thought it felt like we are a couple but obviously not yet. we talked about wat we may not like in our releationship and ironed out little things. just a brief thing, like our age she is 17 soon to be 18 and i am 23, we decided age was nothing but a number. and everything was ok. ew talked on the way to her stop and came to the conclusion we both kinda liked each other. Just before she left, i held her hand, and looked into her eyes and smiled. And said i am scared and she said the same. we both hugged and i really really wanted to kiss her but from what i know of her she may feel uncomfortable. i care for her too much to make her feel like that. she went up the escalater and i waited for her to go up, hoping that she will turn around and give me the smile i wanted to see, that she likes or not and she did. i thought well happy as everything went so good. i decided to pop into my old work place and she gave me a call stright away telling me that she has neva been treated like the way i treated her by any1 even her previous boyfriends were not like that. all they did was take but neva give back. she told me that some1 stole her rose wen she put it down near her house and she was very upset coz it meant a lot to her, coz i gave it to her and i was the only1 treating her as so. at this point i thought this is great and felt extremely happy. neva felt like this in my life. and wen i went home. she came online we started chatting and all of a sudden wat she said to me made me extremly sad that i felt sick. so much that i could not sleep or eat for 2 days. She said to me, " i don;t see myself being with anyone any more and said i am worried that i may hurt u" I replied saying " the only way would hurt me is by not giving me a chance" At this point i was shattered, coz the best day in my life just went shattered and broke like a piece of glass. Now she won't pick up the phone, answer any text msgs and has me blocked on msn. i really like this girl and i know that she is the one for me and i know she feels the same. but it hink she is scared that i may hurt her coz 1 month earlier she broke up wid her ex. From wat i know of her, i already have feeling for her before i met her. i love her personility and well the looks aswell after i met her. i really don;t know wat to do. coz i really want her bad and some how prove to her that she will neva get hurt again, coz i will take her pain as best as i can. Please help, sorry about the long long detailed letter. i want her to give me the chance and not get scared. i really want to be able to love her and give her everthing that i can possbile have to offer. if i can't have her then i don't really feel like being with anyone any more. look forward from you response

Well i told her what i think of her and i do hope that shw knows wat i want. but now i got a problem again. when i told her about what i wanted and what i thought of her she started to smile, blush and kept on looking at me. i told her while i was driving and i know its dumb but i almost crashed the car while i was driving coz i kept on looking at her and well she kept on looking back. Any way i asked her out to dinner and well she said no. And at the same time she said no, i was talking to to her and told her she is perfect and she started flirting and stuff. i tried to ask her again but she said no again but with no explaination on why a no but she just keeps saying she got stuff on her mind. But now things are different between us, she want me to make all the decesions for her and want me to tell her when we meet or go to university. And now she asks me for help a lot more, before she felt a bit distant but now close. And well u prolly think its dumb but i have went out of my way to do things for her even though she said to me if u can help me with a certain thing i can but i should not go out of my way, well wen i did and told her she went all silent with a happy sort of tone, which i like. i know she is not using me coz every time i try and help her she says don't worry but i still do it and she appricaites it. Well i want to know wat i should do, coz i want her even more then ever but i don't know what to do next, i really want her to set next to me and talk about it to make things clear where i and her stand but she does not really want to do that coz all she say she got stuff in her head. That confuses me. So Plz Help me i feel lost and i know 100% i love her and i know she has some sort of feeling for me but i feel she is scared to tell me or i may be wrong

cheers for advice dude, i have already talked her about various stuff, and she one time said to me if she wanted she knows that she could take advangtage of me but she says she will neva do it coz that is not her, the other thing that made me want her even more is when she said to, although a while back, she said "sometimes the best of friends can have the best reletionship and i believe that" that made me feel for her even more. i have started to build guts so that i can tell her that i want to be more then friends. could you or anyone else tell me how should i go about doing that, coz i don't really want to make a muppet of myself if you know what i mean

Hi, i have basically fallen for my Best friend, she has been close to me for about 2 years now but i have like known her like 4 years. i know everything about her. Recently about 4 to 5 months ago she broke up with her boyfriend whom she was going out wid for like 3 years. i started to have feeling for her about a year ago but tried to hide coz i always thought to myself that she is just a friend and recetly about 3 months ago it hit me in the face that i need her and always want to be with and would do anything for her. Me and her now flirt a lot and have good eye contacts,i always compliment her and always notice everything she were or changes about her apperance. when i look into her i sometimes feel that she want me to coz i sometimes feel that we are on the same wavelength coz we start to mimic each other behavour, the tone in our voice changes and we somtimes get a bit nervous. What i am trying to say is that how do i tell her that want to be more then friends with her coz at times i feel she likes me more then a friend but at sometime i think i could be imagining it. i am afriad to tell her how i feel coz i don't want to lose her. BTW i can go but they way we treat each other but u prolly don't want me to. Can u plz help coz its driving me nuts, coz i keep on thinkin about her all the time