So yadda, yadda, yadda, we were together for 7 years, broke up six months ago, were good friends until 3 months ago, stopped talking (her idea), and she got a new boyfriend. In the meantime I did what I needed to do... big time... I finished my PhD, landed an incredible job, moved up to a sweet place in San Francisco (she lives in Oakland) and have been burning through my signing bonus. Okay guys, I cheated a little. I initiated contact by sending a bulk email to everyone I knew with my new address...I included her. She freaked out and called a mutual friend minutes later (good sign?). So she emailed me asking the usual questions and I sent her a nice reply. Now she wants to meet for a drink. I said yes, of course. She's telling our mutual friend (who's sympathetic to the idea of us getting back together) that she'll never get back together with me and she just wants to be "casual friends" so it's pretty clear she's still hurting from our breakup. Still, it looks like she's curious, and why shouldn't she be? Things are going great. So now we're going to have a drink next week! I have to admit I'm really nervous! I know I have to act casual, but part of me worries that this will be the last time I see her so I want to be ready to tell her "everything." I probably won't; I'll have to feel out the situation, but either way it looks like no contact may be working. Any advice from those of you who've been this far? I've read many posts and I think I have a good handle on it. Wish me luck!