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    Maybe he's attracted to you and wants to fool around, despite saying that he only kisses when he's in a relationship. Seems contradictory, but I wouldn't put it past some people.
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    So you're saying he realizes that there's something wrong with you not being able to touch him? If so, is he trying to figure out why he feels this way, and is he doing something to fix it?
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    Sadgirl20- Welcome to ENA! As for your problem, how does he expect the relationship to work if you can't even show him affection? I realize there are other ways to show affection besides physical actions, but it seems like a relationship would be missing something important without hugs and kisses. I think he says that he doesn't like you touching him just as a defense to the question. There's got to be a real reason. Have you dug a little deeper?
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    Why don't you tell your teacher how you feel? Tell him you appreciate all the support, but it's causing a lot of stress on your life. I'm sure he'll understand. As fas as where to draw the line, that's probably different on an individual basis.
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    Why not just ask him in person? You could always poke him on facebook, but it seems a little impersonal to me. I'm a guy, and if I were in his situation, I would appreciate it a lot more if you did this in person, rather than via the internet.
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    Hey, nobody's perfect. I look forward to hearing your story too. Welcome to ENA, and stick around!
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    I'd say go for it, too. In the case of my girlfriend, I had known her for 5 or 6 years before I asked her out. And when I did, we just went to a party as friends. That just goes to show that even if there's no "click" right away, it can certainly happen later.
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    How about a letter or email to your aunt and uncle that respectfully and thoughfully explains your position? That way, there won't be any shouting or hurt feelings, and they'll have more time to consider what you're saying. Also, an apology to your uncle would probably be good.
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    Hi and welcome to ENA! I'm sorry for the circumstances that have brought you here, though. Why not try talking to your aunt and uncle, and any other family members that are pressuring your mom? You could always try to tell them that the pressure she's feeling is causing her mental illnesses to get worse, and that if they'd ease up, things might get better. If you have tried talking to them, what did they say?
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    Hmm...if you're worried about the flowers wilting, you could always pick them up on the way to her house, and then be holding them when she comes to the door. Or, if you'd rather give her the flowers afterwards, they should be alright sitting in your backseat for a few hours, although she'd probably smell them, thus ruining the element of surprise. Like sidehop said, just relax and have fun! Good luck!
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    I have no idea why, but I've certainly experienced this. It happened over and over, and then one day, I realized I liked someone who liked me back. I guess for some of us it just takes awhile to find that person.
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    Wow...I liked this one too. Very well written!
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    Hmm...it's a little strange with the gas cooker thing. I don't know. It seems if she was looking to commit suicide, she wouldn't be buying a product online, because then she has to wait for it to ship. However, I think I do know why she isn't studying. It's the same reason people procrastinate. She's afraid of failing, which causes her to avoid the task altogether.
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    Well, after reading your second post, it sounds like your roommate may be packing up her stuff because she thinks she'll fail out. I was able to come up with two possible reasons, but who knows why she's doing it... (1) By packing her stuff, she's assuming she'll fail out, so if she actually does, she's more prepared mentally. (2) She feels that she needs help in her life (despite all of the support she's getting from her grandparents and boyfriend) and packing her stuff is her way of asking for help. (3) None of the above. Talk to her, though, and see if you can figure out what's going on. If you still think she's considering suicide, you've got to do everything you can to stop her.
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    In my opinion, if you're having to ask the question "could she be suicidal?" then you absolutely must tell someone. How about a counselor or doctor at the university? Edit: talking to her about this first might be a good idea, like the others said, but be aware that she'll probably deny it.
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    Well, I haven't read your previous posts, but the first thought that comes to mind is, "why are you dating this man?" From what you described, he sounds emotionally unstable, a bit creepy, and you certainly can't trust him (with good reason).
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    I'm a freshman in college and ever since I got here, I've been trying to make friends. There are a lot of guys that I'm friendly with, but none of them ever call me to hang out. Any suggestions?
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    Do you think meeting up with her will be a step in the wrong direction, as far as getting over her? Who dumped who, and why do you think she wants to meet up? I'm thinking she might want closure...
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    Dako, in your opinion, does the OP have a right to look through the phone records, etc. if he feels his wife is not being honest with him?
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    Jen has a good point. The "I love you" just doesn't seem to fit if someone is actually harassing her. What's even more out of place, though, is the long phone conversations. Though someone could keep saying "I love you" as harassment, I don't think anyone would choose to talk on the phone for long periods of time with someone that was harassing them.
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    Lol, the way I had the page scrolled down showed your avatar and not your screenname, but since it was such a great pic, I decided to run with it. I'll edit it if you want...?
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    Well, I usually end up paying for my girlfriend when we go on dates but if we go out to a casual dining restaurant or to the movies, sometimes we'll split it, and sometimes I'll pay. However, she'll occasionally offer to pay for our dinner and movie (or whatever we did that night), which I really like. I also agree with Simon, who stated it very well: "I think the person who asks for the meeting should be the one to pay for it."
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    I agree with cpc. Her looking at you might be a good sign, but it doesn't necessarily mean she likes you. The best thing to do is to simply ask her on a date. What've you got to lose?
  24. gfein347
    Well, it seems that I'm outnumbered 2 to 1, at least for right now. However, I think a little more information about the circumstances surrounding this issues would help us give you better advice. Edit: Wow, now I'm outnumbered 3 to 1
  25. gfein347
    Have you tried emailing him at all, perhaps to apologize for the fight? If he asks for space, it's best to let him have it, but he should also know that you feel bad for having gotten in the fight, and you'd really like to work things out with him.
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