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    I think you'll find that not all guys think this, and if you find the right guy, he'll love you for exactly who you are. I wouldn't worry.
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    Something tells me if you go on "girls gone wild" you'll regret that decision later in life. But, I do see your point about being single and not having the choices you make depend on anyone else.
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    This is a really interesting topic. I've always had a thought that I wanted kids someday, but this is really causing me to reconsider. With all of the things going on in the world that the OP mentioned, are we really doing the kids a favor by bringing them into this world?
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    I don't think the two of them getting a house together is an option, since he is 18 and she is 17. I was also wondering about Scout's question. Couldn't Sue's older sister call the police, since she's never home?
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    Hi and welcome to ENA, though I'm sorry for the circumstances that brought you here. I think your reaction wasn't psycho at all. I can understand why you'd want to see him for closure, but perhaps it's just best to accept that if he couldn't be bothered to dump you in person, he probably wasn't that into you to begin with. There's a lot of guys out there who are much better.
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    What do you do to study? I'm a physics major with a strong inclination to mathematics, and I found that simply working lots of examples is how I made A's on my tests during calc 2. Are you working with Taylor polynomials and infinite series right now? Edit: If you have any specific questions on calc 2, feel free to PM me.
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    I have a similar problem. I always put things off, but then when I finally do get started, I don't quit until it's perfect. I'll be interested to hear replies on this as well. As far as starting something and sticking to it, how long do you usually stick with something before you lose interest? A week? A month?
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    What happened to number 12? I do agree with the other posters though that you should probably make a move if you're experiencing all of these.
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    Is it that on one particular day he didn't email you, or that it's been several days and you still haven't heard from him? If it's just one day, I wouldn't worry about it. Perhaps he was just busy and he checked on the site for only a few seconds when he had time.
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    To the OP- Welcome to ENA. On this site, I don't think anyone is going to give you advice on how to kill yourself. We will, however, give you all the support you need if you want to talk about your problems. What got you to the point of wanting to commit suicide?
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    Yeah, I'm gonna have to agree with everyone who's posted so far on this one...if she cuddled with you, she's probably interested. Unless there was alcohol involved, and then she might've just been feeling cuddly.
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    Hmm...for some reason, when I try to exercise, it seems to make my stress worse. It's almost as if I have an aversion to physical activity altogether, but that may be another issue. I know what you mean about stress and the "fight or flight" response though.
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    It could be either one, or a reason you might not have thought of. If it concerns you (and I assume it does, since you made a post about it), why don't you talk to your SO and see why he asked for the pictures?
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    I second that...can the mods follow up or see if he's ok?
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    Well, in New Zealand, they're now allowing students to write in "netspeak" on standardized writing tests. So something like "w/" for with, or "gr8" for great is now acceptable as formal writing in some parts of the world. Just goes to show the role internet plays in our lives.
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    Wow...what an interesting read. My girlfriend uses facebook, and she tried one time to stay off it for a week, but ended up cheating. I don't use facebook, but I could imagine how difficult it would be to go a week without checking email. Or getting on ENA for that matter. Anyone else addicted?
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    I agree... I've thought about suicide before, too, and what always stops me is thinking about how my family and my girlfriend would feel if I went through with it. Insecure, if you go through with this, I'm sure your family and your wife will be devastated. Please, please reconsider.
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    insecure246- I hope you're still there...like others have said, it might help you to tell us about what has led up to your feeling this way. Have you talked to your wife about how you feel?
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    I care. I haven't seen your other posts, but I saw this one, and wanted to make sure that you knew at least one person cares. And I'm sure your wife cares. Other than feeling like you have no friends, what's making you so miserable?
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    Maybe try to pick a time when she's more receptive, and tell her that your feelings are hurt when she does this. Be sure to bring this up at the right time though, because if you don't she's just gonna go on not hearing anything you're saying.
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    Lol, I'm seeing a trend here... By the way, has anyone ever been to a psychiatrist for anxiety? What was the appointment like? I'm trying to get a feel for the types of questions that may be asked, so I'm not caught too off-guard...
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    Thanks! My avatar is called a "Calabi-Yau space" or a "Calabi-Yau manifold" and it's a 3-D projection of the 10 spacial dimensions predicted by string theory. Unfortunately, I didn't make it myself, although I know of a way to generate one mathematically.
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    I concur with the others...she enjoyed your company, invited you to another event, and gave you her number. These are all good signs that she's probably interested.
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    Thanks Jeff- I guess I need to just find a way to focus on something else while the anxiety is there. What does everyone else think? Does anyone have experience going to a psychiatrist and can offer advice?
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    After months of indecision and urging from my girlfriend, I finally made an appointment with a psychiatrist. I've always had anxiety attacks, but since I've made the appointment, they've gotten so much worse. I have a fear of doctors, and the idea of talking about my mental health with a stranger is freaking the sh*t out of me, to put it lightly. At least once a day, I'll get so freaked out that my heart rate will rise considerably, I'll start breathing quickly, and I can't focus. It's truly interfering with my everyday life. Hopefully, once I talk to the doctor, my problems with anxiety (among other things) will be subdued. But, until then, what can I do? Does anyone know of a good way to handle the situation when I get anxiety attacks, or of something that might ease my mind? As a side note, yes, I do realize that my fear of doctors is irrational. I can't explain why, but seeing a doctor of any type terrifies me.
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