I'm a 13 year old gay male and I need advice about what to do about telling loved ones about my sexuality. I've known that I was gay since I was 4 or 5 but I don't have a flamboyant personality and because of this most people don't realize that I'm gay. My parents are divorced (neither of them know) and I'm really having trouble trying to figure out a way to tell my dad. He only complicates things further when he sees women on TV and other places and says stuff like "there's the girl for you," or something like that. He is a pretty smart old man but I really don't know how he could react.
I just don't want my life to turn upside down if I tell him