Jamiegirl

i totally agree. maybe he does want you back and is hoping that you will ask him and hes trying to bring back old memories to hope that u will feel the same about him agian. but if you have feelings and possibly might want to get back with him, then just tell him how you feel simple as that.

if your young and beautiful im sure hes interested, with all the signs you have been getting it seems to be that he is. I have dated guy alot older than me and its weird because when to know them u stop thinking about age and see the person from the inside who they really are. you will see that they react the same way as you do now to signs of flirting. I hope i made sense...

you know what, i have had this done to me before... and when it did happen i found out that he was with some other girl. I'm not saying thats what it could be. But im saying that there is always a possibility. think if this issue bothers you that much, u need to bring it up to him. he needs to know how u feel. Good Luck

I have to put a different perspective on this situation! how long where him and his ex togeather for. If they were together for a long time, it is natural for him to wonder about her and even miss her at time, because im sure they shared great times together. I'm sure she was more then a piece of A#$ to him, but im sure they were friends too. I think u are over reacting a bit. If he is with you and doesnt speak to her on a regular bases then you have nothing to worry about. Don't let this issue become bigger then it needs to be. On the other hand i do understand how you feel. It can be frusterating, but the more you bring her up the more he will get mad about the situation thus pushing him away from you. The situation i think would be different if he were talking to her on a regular bases and/or seeing her in which case then i would lose him. I hope this helps

Yes OMG, my daughter went through that phase of scary noises too. She was scared of every noise. the garbage truck especially that would drive by the house when she was about 18 months old she went through this phase. Thanks for everyones advice, I believe this will help me better to deal with this situation.

Yeah your totally over reacting... i mean if it bothers you that much why dont u tell her that when i am calling just pick up the phone so i can say whati have to say for like 5 min then i will be off the phone with you and you can be back to your conversation. Otherwise just let it go. Sometimes when ur in good conversation with someone u dont want to click over and talk to the other person. I am guilty of it and do it sometimes.

when u feel like this and u cant get away from where u are. Call a friend, talk to someone to help distract ur mind away from these thoughts of ur ex. i totally understand how u feel. keep strong~

If u cheat on your wife, you will not only ruin your marriage but the other womans marriage will be ruined as well. Don't cheat it only brings issues and drama that is un needed. U need to keep it professional and thats it. Dont do anything with her and if u can't take it maybe u need to consider another job.

I think u need to show them that hes a good guy, as for now yes keep it quiet. But still keep bringing the subject up with them about your bf. Remember this is your life and u need to do what will make u happy but at the same time. U have to think about the future as well. Do u think this relationship will last? and when i say last i mean lasting years not just months maybe till marrage? U have to think if this guy is worth risking ur family over? Your parents only want whats best for u. In the end yes its your decision and like i said its your life make your self happy but agian think of might happen in the future and if this short term happiness with worth to burn bridges with your parents... good luck with this and i hope i have helped.

You guys need to do a work out plan togeather and do this togeather. Only encourage her with good words. not only will this motivate her, but in the long run i believe it will bring you guys closer together and make things better in the bedroom.

If u want to have a long term relationship with someone you should always wait a couple of months before having sex. Thats how u know the guy will be serious and that is how u gain respect. This isnt advice from me... My guy friend told me this. Girls that give it up too easily are easy to quit as well. hopefully this helps u. U dont need to please a guy with you body please him with your mind. Good Luck

oh and also the weird thing is, when we go swimming she isnt scared to jump into the pool with no floating device at all. Now this i dont understand. And that totally freaks me out. but even with floaties on her she will jump in the pool.

Yeah i know how that is. My mom told me that i was scared of that stuff when i was little too. the shampoo that i use for her is tear free. so if it does get in the eyes it wont sting. I i dont think she understands this yet. My main thing is just how to deal with this situation. I try to talk to her calmly but sometimes she just totally acts irrational and freaks out.

My mom also watches her on the weekends. and her dad when im at work or running errans.

Hi, its been a long time since i have posted a thread on here. My daughter is 3 years old and is absolutely puzzeling me with all her phobias. She's scared of the dark, scared of taking baths, scared of going down the halloween ailse in walmart. scared of bugs. I dont know what is going on with her. but shes scared of everything. The current issue is with the bath. She is afraid to wash her hair which i have tried to get her to wash it her self but then she doesnt get all the soap out so i have to help her so she screams like im murrdering her. And shes even too scared to get into the tub. scared that the water will get too high. I dont understand. She used to be ok with it before and now she isnt. Please give me some advise as of what i could be doing wrong. I try to be patient with her but sometimes i have to just walk away, but i will go nuts. What could be causing all these fears at such a young age. I try to help her not be scared but even then she's still scared and crying and screaming.

Hi i have the same problem except my daughter is 3 years old. I dont know what her deal is.!

I think you should just tell him the truth when he asks you to go out with him agian. Dont say that ur busy because u'll be bs ing him like he was you.

New info on the new guy though... He said before that he was kinda seeing someone else. But then he told me he talked to her on the phone and broke it off with her. I'm hoping things are gonna go good because of this. I asked him why he broke it off with her, he said because he just thought it was wrong to see two ppl at once. But who's to say he wont do this to me. I'm still kinda confused all though I got some good advice soo far, he seems to be showing me the opposite of what hes saying or his he just trying to keep me under his thumb?

HI, its been awhile since the last time I posted. Probably a year or so. ANyways this is my story. Im with someone that is I guess a good guy, but has put me through hell for the time that I have been with him. From mental abuse to physical. Allthough, now things arnt like that anymore. I was feed up with the situation and I told him that I wanted to have an OPEN RELATIONSHIP. Meaning we can date other people or what not. I think basically I'm just to scared to leave him because we have a daughter togeather. Recently I started seeing someone, and I'm starting to fall for him. This new guy though told me that he wants to take things slow which im ok with but he also wants like a non committed thing I guess. I told him that I understand. But I would like to take this somewhere. BUt im not sure if thats going to happen. Plus he lives in San Fransico and I live in Sacramento. The thing is, is that this guy is really like caring about me and really nice, and when I went to SF to see him he showed me a good time and I felt we connected at a nice level. I'm just confused and I'm scared my feelings are going to take over. What should I do. Should I just break it off with this guy before I get hurt, or should I just see where things go. I hope I made sense and if I didnt ask me any questions to clarify things. Jamie

I think you should just leave him. I totally understand your situtation, it not only sounds like hes scared to end it with you. But you are scared to end it with him. I am actually going through the same thing with my bf right now. and we have a kid> but i will post my situation later. It seems to me that he's so into this new lady that he can't get intimate with you without feeling some kinda guilt about what hes doing wrong. Maybe you should just separate for awhile and see how that works. Like dont really talk to him for like 2 months or so unless it has something to do with you child. and then at the end of that 2 months get togeather for like dinner or something Alone. and just talk about what should be done or what the next step should be. Let me know what you do. Jamie

I have to tell the same thing happened to me when i got pregnant. You need to go to a doctor and get tested ASAP. I felt symptoms with in two weeks of my pregnancy. My bf pulled out also and didnt cum inside at all and I still got pregnant. I dont understand that but I was pregnant anyhow. I suggest you get a test done. Best wishes. Jamie

I think you need to tell her because she needs to know what you did. and then if she decides to break up with you then that is the consiquence you will have to live with. But she needs to know the truth. She might be mad but she might decide that hey at least he told me and not break up with you. Good Luck with this

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Sounds like what I had,and what I just got over... I had strep throat. But it could also be the flu... because those symptoms are the same. You should talk to a doctor that would be your best bet. Good Luck with this And get well soon

I second that, but it also depends on how these men where raised, now days parents are showing there boys that its ok to show there emotions and not look weak. Although it also depends on the guy as well, b/c in my bfs case his mom raised him not to cry in front of people and he crys in front of me and is sorta emotional but not over emotional... but anyways this isnt about me. But I hoped this helped anyways.