Jamiegirl

thanks ok I guess I was just thinking too much about it.

I dont know why but my bf is all of a sudden being more loving. Hes always hugging me and sitting by me and stuff. We have been togeather for a long time and have been living togeather for a year and a half so its not like we never see each other in fact we sometimes get sick of each other. Well all of a sudden hes allover me like flies on well you know. He wants to have sex all the time too. I think it might be because Im gone alot now. I have just started my fall semseter of school and I never get home till 7pm on most days. But could there be anything else? And I dont mean like is he cheating on me because I know hes not. But there has to be something or maybe Im just thinking to much about this.

Theres really nothing you can do. They have to realize first for them selfs that they are making the wrong decisions with choosing the wrong guys. Until then you can just tell them and tell them but dont push it too much because you might lose there friendship. but until they realize all you can really do is support them like a friend should.

of course it matters , only if you think it does. If you think it should be special then that is totally up to you. Make sure its right and let the other person know you want it to be special. Its all up to you because well... its your life and your body.

i personally have brazillian most of the time. when I am not too lazy yo do that agian. I have never waxed though? So I also want to know if its painful.

well i think she may still like you also but then agian you never know. Maybe she just wants to flirt and thats it. you should just take the chance and ask her whats up.

I think that this may mean something. He did give his number I think maybe he needed an excuse to give you the number so he didnt have to say he was interested. who knows some guys are shy like that and have a hard time approachinf girls.

Sorry but I dont aggree with the last people. Although yes he isn't worth being a friend too. But you dont want him to know that you are pissed because then he will know that he has gotten you. Be strong and when he calls just answer the phone and be polite but instead of having a converstation with him. Just make up some excuse like Sorry I cant talk right now I have homework to do. Or I want to watch this movie right now call me later. Something like that. And then you will be the one blowinghim off maybe thats something hes not used to and then he'll think twice. Trust me on this one I have dont this before it works everytime. Good Luck

Yep you definetly need to do something about this. you should contact the police and dont tell him you are doing so either if you catch him outside your house agian. If you dont want to contact the police than you should just stay with friend or something. or have a friend stay with you. And dont lie to him about not being home. Show him your not scared and just lock all doors and windows. Tell him you dont want to talk to him now that hes acting like a stalker. I hope I have helped Good LUck

I used to have that and sometimes i would put makeup on my arm and nobody noticed. I dont know if it will work for you though

maybe this dream is telling you something

I sorta feel the same way. But this is how my man thinks and I think maybe how most guys think. Why not just have more than one. They like you but they also want more. Thats just how some guys are. So your body is sexy enough for them they just want to see others. Its not\rmal for this. Yet I say all that honestly I would be jealous deep down inside. I know I couldnt be a stripper so i would be like man they look better than me and he would rather see them. I dont know maybe I am just rambling. Hopefully am making sense.

I am a girl and I dont know alot about this. But what my thory is about this is that its not because your getting older I think maybe your just not as interested as she is. Or you have other things on your mind other than that, this can cause you to just not want to do. Especially if its something that is highly stressful. I hope I helped here

Although I am only 19 I know what you are going through. I think you are doing the right thing. You should have told him from the begging that as long as you are in charge your rules apply and then set the rules with him ahead of time. And maybe you should have talked it over with his parents also. Not sure if you did this or not but its a good idea, that way when they come back the son cant play you agianst them or visa versa. I have the same problem I live with my bfs little sister and shes almost 11 years old and she treats my daughter like crap. My daughter is only 16 months old. And she always teases her and is just plain mean to her. I have tried disiplining her because her parents dont. There too old to disipline plus shes the baby of her family. Anyways shes basically jealous of brie and because I tell her to stop being mean to her and stuff then she totally hates. But I dont really care, thats because she needs to learn. I have tried posistive reinforcement too that sometimes work. I suggest you try the possitive reinforcemt first then try the negative. Good LUck with this I hope this helps you.

Who are you referring too. What do you mean by this?

I like guys with shaggy hair also, but some guys look good with the styled hair too. it depends on the guy. Sometimes shaggy hair doesnt look good on some guys.

maybe you have been watching to much WRC if you know what that is. Which it sounds like you do

Yeah so far my daughter has only used the bottle once this whole week. So I think she is done with the bottle. Thanks for the advice

I love to hear about other peoples dreams, but I didnt know that they were as weird as mine. Interesting I want to hear more. Does anybody have any idea about what these dreams mean. Also to Princess777, I told my mom about this dream. She also said I was stressed out and/or I was depressed. Although I dont feel depressed.

I think of dreams as a free movie and you get to be the star. Most of the time. Does anybody have any interesting dreams they want to share?? The other night I had a dream that My and my bf were going to this place to see a house. But it was in an apartment building and it was on the eighth floor. But that whole floor was a house. Anyways while we were there this guy started flirting with me. Then my bf came up to me and said well im gonna go now. You can stay here if you want with him. He didnt say it in a jealous way either. ANyways he left then moments after he left I decided not to stay I wanted to go. i felt guilty that I had stayed. THen I went out side. I deciceded to walk home because well the bf took the car. Then the alqueda attacked the USA out of no where. The streets were filled with bodies and bullets flying everywhere. Then I seen this girl behind her car with a bazoka. I ran up to her and asked her if I could use her cell pphone so I can call my bf and see if my daughter was ok. No answer... Then I managed to get home without getting killed. I ran up the stairs and found my daughter and bf dead. My bf was lying at the edge of the bed hold in my daughter in his arms she had a pen through her head. No blood around it either. What I think happened is that my bf killed my daughter then posioned himself. So they wouldnt die in the war. Anyways I screammed no not my baby, not my baby. Then she woke up and smiled at me and so did my bf. Like everything was ok. And nothing happened. I still dont understand what happened but after I woke up I had to check on my daughter. And i was thankful I had them both. Maybe I have been watchin too much tv HAHA

I think your thinking to much about this. You should just give it more time. As they say time will tell. Also girls are mysterious maybe shes messin with you. Maybe shes not who she says she is. There can be many factors like I said just weight and see what happens.

Dont feel alone. I need to find a activity partner in sacramento though. Anyone live in Sacramento and want to work out with me.?

I dont know I think this person is bluffin, because i read some of the previous posts from this person and he talks about losin his virginity. But maybe he is talking about the biological part. Like what happens scientifically. Honestly I dont know why he came to us to ask this question, there is plenty of info on the internet anyways. All you have to do is type in the search bar on any search engine "How Are Babies Made?" or something like that. Anyways real or not good luck figurin this one out.

Thanks so much scout for all of your support. I think you have posted on this topic more than I have. But I love it. It really motivates me and so does that story.

I can see your parents kept you sheltered. If your 18 and dont know about this yet. Dont worry there is nothing wrong with that though. You need to tell you mom, that you are not a child anymore and you need to know the truth. Tell her that your friends make fun of you because you dont know. bacially tell her what you told us. Hopefully she will tell you.