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this is relly good. Simple yet exquisit. I like it. it's like you are truelly "seeing" me bravo

Hey everybody Having an issue in my relationship with my b/f any help is greatly appriciated. Background: Me and we'll call him "Jean" dated for about 6 months last year. Everything was going great for about 4 of them and then it just kinda went down hill. WE just didn't talk. He ignored me a lot and I just didn't feel good about it anymore. HE was starting to get even kinda of mean. So I broke it off in july. Well, sadly I saw myself wanting him back and I asked him to SAdie hawkins and we decided to give it another try. Now it's been about 2 months I just really don't know whats going on now. It's weird. One week he wants to hang out like ALL the time and I almost get sick of it. and the Next when ever I ask him to do something he "already has planns " with his best friend adam(they seem to be joined at the hip) and it just seems like he doesn't really understand me anymore...It's weird like I said. He got jelous the other day when I was tlaking about going to work on a porject with my best friend "Scott" but he went to go see a play at out rival highschool to see his ex girlfriend(they are still friends)twice. (I'm not jelous but I don't get him) I don't wnat to be the one to end it this time cause I just can't. I did it last time and It made me feel horrible. Please help! Sorry so long! I'm going to be away for the night so any pm's would be appriciated thanks

I totally agree. He's interested more in you than other girls if he pays more attention to you and he is obviously making a point to talk to you so just try and talk back. Just try and see and take note of the way he acts(but don't be too obvious...guys don't appriciate people taking notes on them )

Seeing someone "jsut as a friend" is totally fine. Thats how I see one of my friends. You need to be honest with him if you truly don't like him that way. But if you need time to think take it but be honest

I'm sure lots of people say this but I know what you are going through and really don't give up on yourself. First of all, guys are not everything and most of the time they can't see something wonderful right in front of their face. A lot of them don't realize it until it's too late or they just don't care. Try not to get bent out of shape about it cause I know this forsure, guys are definitely not everything and if you make them everything it just makes things worse. You sound like a wonderful person and shouldn't be putting yourself down. Do Not feel like youi are worthless cause no one is. And if you are trying your best at anything thats all anyone can ask for. You can't do better than your best so why say it's not good enough. TRy and hold on. It's hard I know but the worlds not always as crappy as it seems. and suicide is not the answer. It doesn't make anything work out or better. It just means your gone and there is no chance for things to improve. It means you are no longer there for the people who do care about you (and there are some I'm sure). If you need anything or whatever, you can pm me. please pulll that head up and wipe those tears. I wish you the best of luck and I shall be thinking of you -Emma

I like the idea of bowling, you can go for walks, hang out at your houses like suggested, go to the mall(suffer through it) or if you have snow, have a noswball fight or build a snow man. I know they sound slightly on the cheesy side but girls find them cute. Good luck

I think it's a great idea. It shows her that you care and it will help relieve her stress

I guess that I wouldn't go anywhere at 2 am. If he really wants to meet you he can wait until a time when it's safer. PUBLIC PLACE key words...it's safer

I'd say he is at least trying to catch your eye...and I highly doubt that he is trying to send the message that he wants what your friend thinks...It's probably his way of flirting with out being able to talk

I agree. It seems like guys pay for the first date but girls should offer because it is polite

I know you are frustrated believe me I was when I got to high school. I went into a shock/ half melt down and didn't know what to do. You act a ;ittle sensative to the gya issue but I know people who are gay and I have friends so maybe it's just me.. You need to surround yourself with the right people who will uspport you and not do things that will hurt you so bad. A good gorup of friends can make a reall difference in highschool, it has so far with me good luck

you should exspect her too but if you want her to make the move go ahead and wait but it might not happen. She might be thinging exactly as you are

dont try and pressure her into something she really doesn't want...she'lll just move farther and farther away and you can do more damage than good. I'm sdure there is a deeper reason for her not wanting a b/f and it is probably a good one. It's hard to change a girls minbd and often not a good idea. I believe you should just try and accept it. You don't have to stop liking her but you shouldn't try and pressure her to change her mind

I too am glad that you are going to see a doctor...It shows that there is a part inside you that knows you need some help. It is a good step. TRy and eliminate stress elements in your life if possible, even if it upsets others (trust me even little things can make a big difference) I hope everything goes well at the doctors

Well, If you know her prettty well like she's already a friend, then maybe try and drop some subtle hints into conversation without acting to out of the ordinary before you know if she likes you back.....If you don't know her too well, try just starting up a conversation