ConfusedHubby
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I think I'm at the re-evaluation stage but I'm not sure where to go from here. I have good sex with my wife and we are really good friends but sometimes I wonder what else might I be missing.
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Everyone on here has been very helpful. The only thing is that all the comments assume that this woman is really attracted to me. My wife tells me how attractive I am all the time but when other women show interest it makes me feel more like a man. I must have some serious self esteem issue to need the affirmation of other women. Guess I'll get some therapy.
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Thanks for all the advise. The biggest challenge I've had with all of this is that I really respect this woman and only want the best for everyone. We're both good friends and she knows my wife which makes it more sticky since my wife is a little jealous of our working relationship. I've assured my wife that there's nothing going on and now I almost feel like I'm lying because of how I've been feeling about this other woman. How do you stop liking someone that you're around all the time and convince your spouse they have nothing to worry about. The thing that scares me the most is that if this other woman made a move I can't say for sure I wouldn't go for it!
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I think you're right. The hardest part is feeling like a school boy and finding myself daydreaming about her. For now though I'll keep it strictly professional and not say a word.
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Maybe I'm trying to convince myself that I'm happy in my marriage when that's not the case. The real question is - Should I keep working with her if I can't change how I'm feeling?
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I think the only reason I've even thought about her is because this is the first time I've felt so alive in many years. When I'm around her I feel like I can take on the world. I find myself wanting to spend time with her and hear her voice. My wife doesn't make me feel like that any more even though I care about her still. I guess I'm being selfish here and not considering everyone else involved. I'm not really sure why I have a school boy crush on a married woman but the feelings are real and I'm having a hard time hiding them. Maybe the best thing for all is to distance mysellf from her until I can deal with what I'm feeling.
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I'm a happily married man (for the most part) and have a working relationship with a married woman who I'm very attracted to. She seems to be happy in her marriage but it seems like sometimes she flirts with me in a subtle way. I'm not sure what to do since now I find myself thinking about her all the time. I can't tell if she's really interested in me and am wondering if I should tell her how I feel. My problem is should I continue working with her and not say anything? Should I stop working with her or tell her how I feel? The last thing I want to do is to ruin our friendship and possibly our marriages. I just wish I knew what to do.