rebelgirl0132

My ex and I have been broken up for about 2 1/2 years. He was my first love, and my first everything else. He broke up with me because he wanted to be by himself. After about two months of no contact, we finally started to talk and hang out with each other again. A month after that we started to sleep with each other, I didn't get my hopes up cause I knew it was just sex. When we were together he showed me affection like kissing me, and hugging me, and little things like that. After we broke up and started messing around, he never wanted to kiss me or hug me or anything. To him it was just sex and thats it. Then suddenly he starts to hug me more, and kiss me, put his hand on my leg, basically acting more like a boyfriend than a friend. Technically the golden rule for friends with benefits is just the sex and nothing else. No kissing, no real affection, just plain booty call. He knows I have been talking to another guy that I used to have a crush on, and everytime I talk to him about the other guy, he gets all jealous and stuff. Then I ask him why does he even care, he was the one that broke up with me. He doesn't answer, he just looks away. I don't want to get my hopes up about a reconciliation, I know he talks to other girls, and is probably messing around with one of them(dont worry we use protection) so I dont know why he would even act this way with me. Sorry so long, any advice is appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!

He did pull out but he was already cumming so some of his semen probably did go in.

I had sex with my bf on 5-16-05, and it was unprotected but by the time he pulled out he was already cumming, so he may have cum a little inside of me. I was wondering when is the soonest I can test? The first day of my last period was 5-1-05 and it lasted till 5-6 or 5-7. So I might have been fertile when we had sex. And is it possible to feel symptoms right now, I have been cramping all day today and yesterday. Today is 5-22-05 would it be too soon or not. My period isn't due till 5-31-05 or 6-1-05. Please help!!!!!

I was wondering, how long can sperm survive in your body, till they fertilize your egg. I know that you can get pregnant anytime of the month, but if you are not ovulating, how long can sperm wait for your egg to be released?

My bf and I had sex yesterday, and he wore a non-lubricated condom. He he came he pulled out and checked the condom, he squeezed it to make sure there were no leaks, and when he squeezed it he saw there was a hole and the semen was leaking out. Could it be possible for some sperm to have slipped through???? How long before I can test???[/b]

My ex and I still kinda see each other and stuff, but we are not officially back together. I still have feelings for him and I know he still has them for me. Anyway we broke up in August and we started to talk and see each other again in October. Since then we have been having sex, well we recently had sex on Jan. 14, it was unprotected and I know for a fact that some of his semen stayed inside of me. About a week later I started to feel really sick, and just plain weird. I noticed that I started to bleed a little, I was due for my period right around this time, but I bled very little and it only lasted for three to four days. No matter what my period has always been very,very heavy and for 7 days. Now almost four weeks later I have a doctors appointment scheduled for this friday, and my ex is going with me(what a guy!) but I am really scared any advice? Could I possibly be pregnant?[/b]