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  1. amtjrtcet
    Don't respond. I think she definitely still cares for you, but if she really wanted to reconcile or "reach out" she'd make more of an effort. She'd be upfront. Just let it go. If you two can and both want to work things out, she's gonna need to make actual effort.
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    If you find it let me know
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    Good question. Make sure you are out having a good time. When he calls, don't answer-call him back later. If he knows you're sitting at home waiting on him, then he won't have a problem goin out. But if he thinks you're having a good time with out him, he may change his mind about hanging out with the other women.
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    Beec is so right
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    Welcome to ENA! I can completely understand your anger and you being uncomfortable with this situation. I'm not sure why he would WANT to hang out with these women other then the facts its his sis, but still. He should be supporting you. His sister reminds me of my b/fs older sis. She doesn't like me b/c I'm not black, and they are. Another story. I think you should sit him down and have a serious convo with him about his. If he can't talk to you about it with out getting mad, then maybe you should re-evaluate your relationship. You guys have been together for 4 yrs, he should be more considerate.
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    I agree with Sparkle and Day Walker. Don't look at it as any thing more then he's interested in being your friend. And if something else comes of it then great.
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    sounds like a cheater, sorry, just my opinion
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    I'm laughing at how ridiculous she sounds. Thank goodness she left you, she did you a favor. Ignore the email. She sounds like a horrible person
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    The marriage isn't truly over until you are legally divorced. I totally understand where your girlfriend is coming from and you should too. Respect her decision to stay away til after the divorce and work on you for right now.
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    I agree, b/c i bet you 9 out of 10 women do it. Now whether they like it or not ????
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    definitely turns me on
  12. amtjrtcet
    Melrich, honey you sound disappointed. I honestly enjoy going down on my man....But in other relationships I haven't enjoyed it. I think it all depends on the couple.
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    I love going down on my man. I love pleasing him, and I enjoy making him feel good. It gives me pleasure. But that's just me, and that's just this man. I never liked it before in anyother relationship. I guess it just goes to show that everyone is different.
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    Sparkle, you took the words right of my mouth. wonderfulconfusion: Don't try to figure out "why". Don't read into it, or give yourself false hope. Just ignore it, and move on. Thats the only way you are goin to heal. If he wanted NC, he needs to stick to it. If he wants to reconcile, he would say so. Its hard letting go, whether you are the dumper or the dumpee. But try to keep moving forward, not backward.
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    I think he's just trying to let you down easy-and trying not to look like the bad guy. Don't answer. If he's wanting to date others, then he's just not that into you. Move on.
  16. amtjrtcet
    I think confidence makes a man more attractive. As far as apperance....kinda all depends on the individual. But I personally like: A man who stands up straight and walks with his head up. Clean, shaved, short hair (really short) Clothes that fit-not too baggy, not to small Smile
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    I work for the largest insurance company in the us. A person's credit and driving record are taken into account when establishing a rate of premium. Studys have proven that those with good credit are more likely to be careful drivers and are also more likely to pay their premiums on time. That is why your credit history effects your insurance premium. Yes, when your credit gets cleared up and as long as your driving record remains clear you should expect a decrease in your insurance premiums. Making the minimum payment does not effect your credit badly, but it doesn't help it either.
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    I like having sex in a armless chair. I have my bf sit in the chair while I straddle him. The position is amazing for both
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    I think if you bring up the idea of a relationship or dating again you'll really turn her off. She's clearly stated that she doesn't want that right now, and if you bring it up you won't be respecting what she's told you. It'll come accross as pushy. Let it go.
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    He's definitely in my prayers...........My brother is a Marine and he's also overseas. He's only 18. I pray for him everyday. God Bless Our Troops
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    I'm in an interacial relationship but he's African American and I'm Spanish/Italian. I think the biggest challange has been his sister-she is very rude to me being that I am the first woman my BF has dated outside his race. If the man treated me well and made me happy and I wanted to be with him, then race wouldn't be an issue I have been with him for 5 months, I am in love and I wouldn't change a thing.
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    I have to disagree Juliana............I told my b/f that I loved him first. About 2 wks ago. But my words were sincere and I wasn't looking for a response. He replied with "I've felt that way for a long time." He still hasn't said I LOVE YOU, but I don't care-he shows me. When you say "I love you" for the first time you can't expect to hear anything in return. He is always the one initiating intimacy. And I havn't said it since, but we are even more intimate then before. Daligal83: I am happy for you! Love is the most amazing thing. I woke up this morning with his arms around me and thanked God for blessing me with this kind of love. Keith Sweat said it best "When you're in a relationship & its good, even if nothing else in your life is right, you feel like your whole world is complete."
  23. amtjrtcet
    Don't read into this, regardless of why he sent it, tell yourself it was a mistake and move forward.
  24. amtjrtcet
    maybe you're not so stupid you've got this figured out
  25. amtjrtcet
    okay, I'm seeing your point................but come on............you can't just expect her to want to have sex all the time if you don't make her feel good.
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