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Helllo all, I started to date a guy. We went out for 2 times. He seems a good guy but he is twice my weight. I'm just 5ft 3 in/95lb and he is 6ft 1 in/212lb. I feel somehow uncomfortable to walk on the street with him. Does weight matter in a relation? I need your opinion on this matter. Thanks, PLC

I had some dates with guys I know from Internet. We went for coffee. The conversation was good. Some asked if he can have dinner with me next time and I said "sure" but then nothing happen after all... Some did call back after several weeks that made me hard to remember who he is...What should I do next time when we finish our coffee talk? Are guys supposed to call/sms me back or I can do it? Is there any clue or hint that help me to know about the meet's result so that I can consider to remove his phone # and move to the next one? Please share with me your experience.

Hello everyone, I started to go out with a guy. We are not really in a relation yet. Just go out to have some coffee, sort of friendship first. Is it offensive if I ask him to let me share the bill? Looking forward to hearing your opinion. Thanks

I broke up with my bf but what should I do the next time with a new one? Should I be patient to try it in pain for a while or should I tell my bf in advance about this problem?

I just get acquainted with a man from dating website for few weeks. He seems to be kind and nice person but we don't keep in touch daily by chat, mail or phone. Just few times chat and one phone call from him. He had plan to visit my country in Feb next year but it seems that he cannot wait... to see me. Now, he asked me if I can go to Paris this XMas to meet him. It's his invitation which means he will pay for the air ticket and hotel. Sounds strange to me that one can pay (quite a figure) for someone who he's never met. So I said that I will have to think more about it. I myself will likely refuse this offer. He still can meet me in Feb in my country which is safer and if we can build something together, we'll see what to do next. How do you think? Please tell me your opinion.

I finally ended up with a instant messenger chat with him. I asked him why he wanted to re-connect and what was his expectation by going back to have conversation with me. He said he just wants to make sure that I am fine. Whatever happen, I am still part of his heart and mind. He does not expect anything special. Then he was trying to know if I am seeing someone else and try to make me feel that he is very happy with his gf. This kind of "well-beining" checking made me SICK. I also wonder that how many women are still part of his heart and mind, hehehe...

I'm 32 years old and I am always attracted to older men. I find that older men are more mature, experienced, and intelligent. Everyone my age I find completely boring. Then I had a relation with a man who is 22 years older than me. I thought our relation will long lasting but then the more I've been with him, the more incompatible things appeared. Worst, one day, when I woke up and look at him in bed, there was such a bad feeling that he is too old for me and I won't have any good future with him. We finally falled apart... but I still keep my interesting in older men. Seems like I conflict within myself...What should I do?

I can let my bf go down on me but I really don't like to go down on him for blow job. He likes it but I don't feel comfortable. Is it normal to be like that? What should I do?

Our relation was going wrong and we've separated. The last conversation was full of arguments and we did not have proper meet to say good bye. Everything was ended over... email. One week after the break up, he got a new gf but still try to get know how I am doing by asking my sister and her husband as they are friends. I kept a good NC for 4 months and recently, he IM me. He began by saying whatever happened, I still have a place in his heart and mind. Then trying to get know if I am seeing someone or not. I was curious to break the NC to chat with him, which is really a bad move. I asked him why he wants to contact me. He said he wants to make sure if I am fine and for his new relation, he explained that he suffered so much from our falling apart then someone could see it and offer comfort... nothing more than comfort so he goes for it. He think it helps... My gut instinc is our relation did not go well. Instead of discussing together to make it better, he was trying to get know so else. Once he has found that person, he left me to go for it... And he've never admitted that. Can you please tell me what is exactly this man want? Even I think it's no way to go back with him, I am still very curious to know. What should I do?

I am 32 yo, successfull in career but I don't have many opportunities to find good people to have good relation. My job nature does not give me chances to meet new people. As the top person in the company, many male colleages just keep the distance. Apparently, I don't find any of them is fit for me. The only channel I have now is Internet dating sites. Many sound-like-good people are there but they are much older than me. Any idea or advice on how I can find more chances to meet good people for me? Thanks.

Hi all, I just started the chatting with one guy from the dating website. It's just 30 minutes on the first day and on the second day, he begins to pour lot of sweet-talks like he can't wait to meet me, he can't wait to kiss me, sweet dream about me blah blah blah...It sounds weird to me...to say so with a person you just know from the Internet. How do I know if this guy is playing game or not? Any opion or idea on how to find out? Thanks

While most of my friends and colleagues already had kids, I am still single and have NO interesting in having a baby. I'm 32 yo now and everyone begins to ask why? I don't know why either. Sometimes, I think it maybe a dramatic change for me to have a baby. Most of the time, I think it's too complicated to have and raise a baby.It has tons of efforts, responsibilities and worry... Is it alright to live a life without having baby? What about marriage-without-having kids? Will it be as normal and happy as a marriage-with-kids? Please give me your opinions.

I don't like pets because I don't like their smell, their existence... no alergy or any other reason

How to have a win-win solution for this conflict? I just can't stand any kind of pet. And he said, you can live with me, a big animal so you can live with a small one...sound ironic huh? Please advise. Thanks

Thanks for your advice. I was so curious to know what he wants to do so I added him back to my Yahoo list. However, I realized it's a moving backward action which is no good for me so this morning, I REMOVED him out of my list. I will keep NC and let my curiosity go.