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Rayana

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  1. I so agree Bthany. I dont know why you put yourself in this position. You shouldnt have called her to start off with! You could have both attended the party and ignored each other. You really cannot go now.
  2. I would never accept 'im drunk' as an excuse for anything. Too many people get away with doing bad things and blaming it on alcohol.
  3. I think you should contact him. If nothing else its always nice to have him as a friend.
  4. s a common problam. Visit you dermotologist and ask him/her tobotox your underarms. The botox will paralyze your sweat glands and you wont sweat at all. Its a very common procedure.
  5. Even though she is not married to this guy they still have some sort of marriage seeing the amount of things they share. Hint to her about how you feel, you never know she could be unhappy in her relationship and want out.
  6. Choose one of them fast. The more women in your life the more complicated it will become.
  7. Its too soon in the relationship to be celebrating valentines day together. Just my opinoin.
  8. Yes you should move on with your life. If he truly loved you he wouldnt accept to be aprt form you.
  9. If i were you i would: Run for my life. You are a person that should be loved and respected, dont settle for anything less.
  10. Im 6 ft and cant wear high heels . Even if i find a man taller than me the minute im in heels i tower over him.
  11. It takes two to make a relationship. The one thng you cannot control is human emotions! These feelings are natural. Give it time and you will feel better.
  12. I wouldnt allow my kids near those people, even if it is their father and uncle. Its better to be safe then sorry. if any of my girls were abused it would haunt me for the rest of my life not to mention affect my daughters future and relationships with men. I would however allow them to meet with their father as long as i or someone i trust were present. I know my viewpoint is a bit different but i have no tollerance for sexual abusers and rapist. Father or not father, he is still capable of causing damage.
  13. I doubt you are pregnant.
  14. I would run for my life. As far away from him as possible. If he cant be bothered to make an effort for you then he's better off being chucked out.
  15. Rayana

    Second wife?

    Its so difficult, all i do is cry. I love him but cant be with him. Towards the end all he did was defend his ex. I took one look at what my life would be like married to him and ran for the hills! There is no way i will EVER play second best... EVER! The pain will pass, its just a question of time.
  16. Rayana

    Second wife?

    Yes we have broken up. Its over! Three years down the drain. I cant be with him anymore. Im actually relieved. But, how does one recover from a broken heart? Its so painful.
  17. Rayana

    Second wife?

    Thank you for your inspirational words! I wish you all the best as well.
  18. Rayana

    Second wife?

    Lately we seem to disagree over everyhting. His ex wife knows exactly what to do to push my buttons! And he is starting to stick up for her. I cant imagine spending my life lving in the shadow of another woman. It obvious he cant see how affected i was by the whole thing, and he never took my feelings to account. I wish him the best, but i cannot do it anymore, its too painful.
  19. Rayana

    Second wife?

    Update: I left him, i cant take his bagage. I love him but i love me more, and that woman and child are driving me mad. If i have him i have to put up with his son for the rest of my life and worse than that his ex wife. I cannot do it. I am biting my tongue and not listening to the pain my heart feels. Its over, if he needs to blame someone for our break up, he can blame his baggage.
  20. Dear Bamia, I am a muslim too and can tell you one thing. If you are bron a muslim or convert to islam, there is not turning back. You cannot convert to any other religion. So, the reality of the situation is that you are still a muslim and always will be one. So your husbands excuse of not wanting children with a christian is invalid, because you were born a muslim and there is no way out of that. Even if you practice christianity, you are still a muslim. Please speak to an isalmic scholar who can confirm the above with you, i know this is harsh but the penalty of denouncing islam is death! I certainly hope you dont live in saudi arabia. My opinion is that you need to decide if you truly love this man, can you put up with the porn and other issues???? remember having a baby to help 'fix' a relationship is the most tried and FAILED method in the world. If anything a baby brigns more pressure and stress into a marriage. Only have this child if it is truly wanted by both its parents and can be brought into a stable home with parents on the same wavelenght.
  21. Get some volumising hair extensions. I have a friend with a similar problem and she had natural hair extensions added and it looks great. You can have the extensions put for either volumising or lenghtening or both! Good luck!
  22. Thats nonsense, dont listen to that rubbish. Millions of boys and men are circumsized around the world. It is cleaner and more hygienic. And has no effect on your sex life. Your problems are either phscological or you are still healing from the surgery. My guess is the latter.
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