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  1. misery12
    I am sort of confused.. Is she your girlfriend, or just your friend? Also, did Megan ever tell you why they don't want her talking to you?
  2. misery12
    I don't understand why you just don't kiss him.. Maybe once you give it a kick - start, he'll start initiating it more.
  3. misery12
    Me too.. you said he had a girlfriend, but then he said he wants you back? what happened to the girlfriend?
  4. misery12
    Maybe ask her if she's a virgin for one.. unless you're the one wanting to know if they can tell.. then you must be wanting to keep something from them, so just lie.. I guess? and to make it tighter? um.. try tensing up down there while he's inside.. and making all the muscles surround his member, is all I can say.
  5. misery12
    I agree with Iceman, the only real way you're going to solve this is to ask him yourself. By posting on here all we can give you is advice, we cannot give you an answer to your question because frankly, you know more than us right now. The only answer you will get from any of us, is to tell you to ask him about it. I'm sorry, but it seems that is the only way you'll find out, and you can put this misery and worrying to rest.
  6. misery12
    Well try getting into a humurous conversation with him.. and jokingly bring it up.. like "so have you married her yet?" or something like that. He won't lie.
  7. misery12
    If he wasn't ashamed of his potential wife, he'd tell you he was married himself.. so you'd know.. and if he hasn't told you, would you want to be in a relationship with a guy that doesn't tell people you're commited to each other?
  8. misery12
    Okay guys, a little advice needed. It's not really about what I should do next with my ex, but something else. To fill you all in.. my ex and I went to the beach on Tuesday with a few of her girl friends.. and we had an awesome time.. swam, burried me haha.. etc, then me, my ex, and one of her friends came back here, and I cooked some steaks and chicken on the BBQ for them, which were very well done then we swam for a few hours together, during this time she got me to pick her up in the pool, and she stuck a hose down my shorts and held it there, and she slapped my butt a few times when I was out of the pool and we were obviously flirting. Then this mutual female friend of ours came over ... and my ex's friend left, so it was just the 3 of us.. and i was swimming around in the pool, and I saw my ex and my friend talking. Half an hour or so passed.. and my ex left, so it was just me and the friend. She told me that my ex said that she likes me now.. she said that she likes me. I was like.. Wow! She then came over the next day for a few hours to swim, and slapped my butt again with the fly swatter! and then had to go to soccer. And im having my pool party saturday and my parents aren't home, but they know about it.. and im having my friends over, (her included). Anyways, that's where I stand now... and what I am wondering is.. when I come online on msn/icq now, she doesn't talk to me right away.. I usually talk to her, because I have to tel her something. It's been about 20 minutes since i've come online, and she hasn't said anything.. he status is "Away" but she is usually there. I'm not asking for advice on what to do with my ex in a relationship sense because on saturday, I have a plan.. but im wondering, what should I do in this situation, should I just talk to her?? or should I just not bother.. so she knows that im not bending over backwards for her. I don't feel obligated to talk, and I don't feel the pressure that I did when we were together before, this is what shows me that i've changed, or at least that im changing.. because I feel a lot more calm, and my heart does't race when she comes online, but I still LOVE talking/spending time with her. I've realized she's just another human being.. and it's nothing to be worked up about.. but What do I do??
  9. misery12
    Haha, well if I was doing like air guitar or something, I think i'd be a little embarrassed, unless it was a GREAT song.. I'd probably be stuck on the beat and continue, i'm a pretty open person.
  10. misery12
    Well, it seems that this guy of yours has some issues that he needs to figure out. It looks as if he only has time for you, when he wants it. The key to relationship is working together, and nobody should be working harder than the other.. I'd tell him that if he wants to see you before you go, then he has to come to you.. no excuses. If he does, you'll know if he is true to you, if he doesn't.. you'll know if he's not. Good Luck!
  11. misery12
    That's awesome man, I know the feeling. Just think about yourself, and your own health and happiness, and if you're happy, she should be happy.. and things will fall into place from there. If you don't think you two are meant to be, then just stay friends, and take time for yourself if needed. Good Luck!
  12. misery12
    We're allowed to have mentality dude. Brush your teeth, see a dentist.. that's that.
  13. misery12
    I agree with these posters, but also, you have to realize that saying I Love You should not be forced, he does love you, and he probably feels secure to say it when he feels it's needed. I know you love to hear it, but don't base your conversations with him to see the big finish if he'll say it or not. Just don't get caught in a cycle where you're counting the times he says it per week, you'll get way too tangled emotionally and he'll be confused when you start throwing numbers, and facts at him. He's done nothing wrong, and you should accept him for what he's done, and who he is. I am sure you have flaws that he doesn't bring into the open, or ease his way into making you correct. Just let him be, you know he's your man.. don't worry about anything else.
  14. misery12
    I'll try not to post until something acually important comes up.
  15. misery12
    ummm... okay sorry? It's a little harder than that.. you of all people must know that you cannot post exactly what you're feeling, nor what exactly happens in every situation. I would have asked her already, but I never have the oppurtunity too. I don't want to ask her over IM.. so I wait until I see her in person, and that comes to be at a soccer game or something where it isn't suitable!! So now we're going to the beach.. we're going to have a good time, and at my pool party I will talk to her. When we're alone, I will ask her if she wants to take things slow again with me, I have this already thought out. I was just looking for input. Also, we were deciding who we wanted because we have the same friends and she is one of my best friends, so why not? I like the same people she does, she dislikes the same people I do.
  16. misery12
    That's what I was wondering myself, because that's a tough place.. because you cannot just walk in. This is where i'd seek opinions from the pro's.. such as DN, Hope75, and annie24. they've helped me through a lot, and im sure if you PM them, they will give you some excellent pointers.
  17. misery12
    Well I don't think you have anything to worry about.. He says it in person which is MUCH better than the phone if you ask me. He's been true, and genuine to you for 5.5 years now, he seems like a great guy, and I don't think you should be worried AT ALL. Maybe if you keep pestering him to say it.. he will feel obliged to say it all the time, and it will become less sincere slowly, and you will be the cause. So just don't make too big of a deal about it, you know he loves you.. and he says it whenever he see's you, and even occasionally on the phone. He told you that it makes him feel weird, you should respect that. Believe me, some girls don't hear it from their guys at all... be thankful you have a guy like that. Hope this helps.
  18. misery12
    Today, I talked to my ex after my soccer game, and I told her I scored, because I am in a league older than my age, and she always jokes about how im not good, so I had to show her! OFF TOPIC anyways, we started talking, and I asked what she did today, she said she hung out with 3 of her girl friends, and then at around 3 a guy named Steve came up to her house, because he was babysitting down the road. She was telling me about the fun they had.. how they pushed him in the pool, and things like that. Well, she used to like him for a little bit.. about 2 months before we started going out. He has a girlfriend too, but she wasn't there. Anyways, my ex says that they're having "funday mondays" every weekend from now on, because he babysits up the road, and he is gonna start to come and hang out with the 4 of them every monday now.. the thing is, he's only there for a few hours because then the girls have to go to soccer every monday night. I started to feel jealous, and then I asked her what she's doing tomorrow, and she said "going to the beach, you can come". so now tomorrow I am going to the beach with her and some people (steve isn't coming) and then me, my ex, my friend, and his girlfriend are coming back to my house around 5 to have a BBQ and swim. Then this weekend I am havinga pool party (steve's not coming) . My ex and I listed who we want coming yesterday. So, I am just asking for opinions.. does it just seem that he's just coming up to hang out? I just felt jealous that they're doing this every week now.. but the thing is.. the other 3 girls are all single.. and he has a girlfriend, so I don't think I have too much to be worried about, plus we're hanging out all tomorrow together, and this weekend too! P.S - there's a chance my ex and I will get back together in the future, she told a mutual female friend of ours that she wants to be friends for right now, and then she;ll see how things go. at least she's considering. SO, what do you guys think, am I just worrying about nothing, and should I just show her that im cool with it, so I don't come off as this insecure needy guy. Tonight when she told me, I was really up beat, and I was laughing with her and stuff, and said "that must have been really fun" and things like that.
  19. misery12
    PlayBrat, that pretty much sums it up, despite a few others that are personals. Good job, must have been tough on you this past week, and you're very strong for being able to prepare a list like this, shows your dignity, and self-respect, Good Work!
  20. misery12
    I'm sort of curious as well.. What sort of changes? and how should you react?
  21. misery12
    Sorry, I re-read your post.. and you're not looking for a relationship. But yeah, it does seem like she was flirting with you, so when you are ready for a relationship.. this is how girls flirt, for future reference Now you'll be more experienced for the next sexy dental assistant out there.
  22. misery12
    Well this definatley seems like she is interested in you, because she was flirting with you. Or maybe it was that she breathed in some laughing gas from a previous patient? I'd say if you are interested in starting something with her, maybe get your friend to punch you in your teeth so you can visit her again, joking! I don't really know how you would approach a woman like this outside of work, anyone else?
  23. misery12
    Well it seems that you are feeling left out, because when he isn't with you, he's busy, and you are the one staying home, waiting for him. I think that if you had other friends, or other hobbies to occupy your time away from him, that you'd be much happier, and this would give you guys something to talk about instead of just feeling on the relationship. Maybe get a job or something? Join a club, or a sports team? This way you can get out of the house, and make friends/money while you're at it. While he's gone, you can call him everday or every other day, and tell him how your day went at this club, or job.. or whatever you do. Maybe you should be the one to say goodbye once in awhile, so you wil feel in control occasionally. Next time you're angry.. don't call him.. just simmer down, and wait until you're calm, and then tell him how you actaully feel, and say that you won't let it get in the way of you two having a good time together. Once he see's that you are starting to be in a good mood, and are more fun to be around, rather than just sit around the house all day waiting for him to return from his other plans. Good luck.
  24. misery12
    Well, from what I see, you are unsure about this woman. Do you not trust her? I'd say give it another shot, if you spend this much time thinking about her, and even posting about her.. why not go for it? She seems interested in you, so I wouldn't say you're an idiot for being curious as to what could come of you two. GO FOR IT!
  25. misery12
    It's not gender oriented if ask you me. There are so many people out there, with so many different personalities, nobody will ever know the exact number, or the actual facts of dating. The thing I notice is.. if a guy wants to ask out a girl, he will.. unless he's shy, insecure, self-conscious.. things like this, which will prevent him from being more confident and pursuing to ask the girl out like everyone thinks he should. I believe it's about personality, and about the person themself, and not their gender or the number/facts that the world gives to us. Some girls feel that it's the guys duty to ask them out.. but that doesn't apply to everyone, because there's many women out there who are very confident and have high self-esteem, and will do the initiating. Plain and simple.
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