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  1. misery12
    yeah, makes sense. but what if she doesn't say anything?? what if she just says.. oh, thanks it might be a little awkward
  2. misery12
    Hey, many of you probably already know my story. My ex and I broke up about 2 and a half weeks ago.. but we're still really close, she came over last saturday and we hung out for 12 hours! We're going to our last dance together tonight, and I wanted to know, if I should get her a rose? Everyone else is getting their dates a corsage.. I don't know what to do.. I think she might like a rose, because it's different, and I don't think she will like a corsage, and I don't expect her to get me a boutenir either. Ladies? What do you prefer? Guy? Do you think this is a good idea? Remember that we're not going out together, but we seem to have a better relationship now, that we're out of the fighting stage. I want to get back with her, and I still really like her, but Im not letting it get in the way. We have plans together for the summer too.. pool parties, soccer games, cottage.. Do you think I should just wait it out? be her friend.. and let her come to me? Thanks!
  3. misery12
    That doesn't make sense. If they'd cry.. it would be because they care for you!! they love you!! if you commit suicide.. your parents would feel so guilty, and that would seriously ruin their lives... as much as you don't want to admit it, don't be so selfish to take your life, you're taking away your future, and your parents son. They want to have grandchildren.. There are other ways out. Parents are NOT suppose to bury their children.
  4. misery12
    Seriously, think about it. Do you really think that you're parents would be like "you're suicidal, we're not helping you". NO. Believe me, seek help.. and if they find out.. then meh, at least you've seeked help, and they should be greatful that they've raised a smart enough son to seek help, and look at other options, before taking his well earned life.
  5. misery12
    great job
  6. misery12
    I just want to say, I love posting on here, it lets me get out everything in my head, and get some great opinions. Sometimes all you need to do, is talk to a total stranger. Anyways, I just have something short.. You all probably know my whole relationship story right now.. broken up 2 weeks, and am now close with my ex. We hung out all yesterday (12 hours straight). Today, we haven't spoken. We haven't been online at the same time, and I went to a movie with my buddy tonight. Do you think this is okay? Hanging out and getting close one day, and then the next.. not talking? it's not like we avoided each other, it's just we didn't run accross each others paths today. Yesterday we flirted and stuff, she was bitten my shoulder and things.. and we had really upbeat/funny conversations all day. So where do I go from here... tomorrow I am going to watch an awards show at my school with her, and then we have prom the next day, and we're going together. Does this sound fine? Should I worry about anything.. My opinion is that, I have given her space since our break up, and I think that's what's drawing her back to me. She has been eager to talk to me whenever she can it seems now.. so is it alright to not talk for a day? Maybe it will show her I have my own life, and we can talk about our day tomorrow, or something. Please reply, Thanks!
  7. misery12
    Okay, so me and my ex broke up about 2 weeks ago, but she told me that she still wants to remain good friends. Anyways, i've given her space, and now it seems like she's interested in me again. Whenever I come online, she is the first person to say "hey" to me.. even if she comes online after me. At school we stil walk around together, and hang out with our friends, and she just seems to like to hang around me a lot now. Yesterday, she came over and helped my mom and I, with our yardsale (her and my mom are pretty close) and then we went and watched my sisters dance recital together. Last night, me, her, and her 2 friends (who I am also friends with) came over, and we hung out all night. Me and my ex, had lots of fun convo's, and we did lots of fun stuff yesterday alone. She made lunch for us.. we went swimming, stuff like that. We spent about 12 hours together yesterday! and when Iwas on the computer she seemed into me.. she would bite my shoulder and stuff, and put her chin into my back and things like that. We have plans for the summer too, parties, cottage, swimming.. things like that. Any advice, and opinions for my situation?
  8. misery12
    He clearly did this, because he probably felt that you were having a rough time getting over him, so when he finally see's the truth that you're just fine without him in your life, he freaked out, and acted out in an immature fashion, which ruined your night. Just forget him... if you meet up again, just ignore him. Don't try to contact him and try to sort it out, or find out answers, because that will make him think that you've been thinking about him. Show him you're strong, and happy even without him. You can smile without him.
  9. misery12
    Yeah, I agree totally! I never do it to the point where I am stumbling around, we're always responsible and NEVER drive, we just sit and watch a movie or something. And we rarely do it, and I know my boundaries, and I stick to them.
  10. misery12
    alright thanks a lot. I didn't come here to debate, I came here to seek the truth. thanks for taking your time to research this.. I think I will stop for a while, as long as possible. It's really hard at my age not running into these things, but I am very emotionally/mentally strong, so I don't crumble under peer pressure. I don't do it to fit in or anything, but I enjoy the times when I am high. I do it only occasionally and plan to cut back more and more over time.
  11. misery12
    You should go to the website I posted. link removed and go to the myths section. Read from there.. I have. all of these effects only happen if you do a lot more than normal.. A lot, and with frequent usage. What's frequent.. weekends? I am only 17. I will stop sooner or later, and I have only done it for a year or less. i've played soccer before, and they've never tested me.. and all of my teammates do it a lot more than I do. Smoking kills braincells too... is it illegal? No.. because the government has control over who produces it.
  12. misery12
    ok.. im new to this im misery12 brother. im just wondering how much pot.. is too much? I smoke weed a few times each weekend.. sometimes i skip weekends if i dont have a chance too. i never do it alone, only with friends. i have done some research and it tells me that they tested on monkeys and such.. and after many tests, lung/brain damage only occurs after much more THC levels is taken in, than average. like 200 x link removed i play soccer now because of summer, but is it stil okay if i smoke weed occasionally. i dont abuse it.. and never do it during the week.. ever. when i do it.. i never smoke a whole gram to myself either. please help
  13. misery12
    I know, thanks a lot though The thing that I notice though.. is she has a few guy friends, not as many as girl.. but with her guys.. even the ones she has known from primary, she does not do these kind of things with. I'm not asking for advice anymore, just telling you all my position, but advice is accepted. If you were in my position, I know you'd feel the same, because I know her so well, and a lot of the time, I know her reactions to things, time will tell.
  14. misery12
    Update: As soon as she came online, she was talking to me. She then started up an audio conversation and we talked for an hour or so. We're having a yard sale tomorrow and she really wanted to come and help mom out, and hang out, and then we're going to my sisters dance recital, which she also wanted to go to. Things seem to be turning out pretty good. She was the one that said "I will come help, or I will come watch" I didn't even have to ask.
  15. misery12
    Lifeiscash - that is awesome advice. I have a few questions though. Have you ever had a conversation with this girl before? Outside of Class? Also.. are you friends with people in her 'group'?
  16. misery12
    Yeah, I know what you mean, but I guess I worded it wrong. My mom isn't pushy at all, she just knows my ex really well and likes her, and knows that we're getting close again, so she just suggested it. I know I shouldn't talk about relationships, and I won't. I just need some plans on what we could do? maybe just the two of us.. without being too romantic, or heavy. thanks
  17. misery12
    Yeah, I know what you mean, but I guess I worded it wrong. My mom isn't pushy at all, she just knows my ex really well and likes her, and knows that we're getting close again, so she just suggested it. I know I shouldn't talk about relationships, and I won't. I just need some plans on what we could do? maybe just the two of us.. without being too romantic, or heavy. thanks
  18. misery12
    I totally agree with the last post.. I am not at all interested in girls with HUGE breasts, or even big. I am more attracted to her face, and her body's shape. Breasts aren't really an issue for me, as long as she's not completely lacking.. or if they're Gigantic! Somewhere in between will suit me just fine.
  19. misery12
    I say break up with your bf.. give it time. You may realize that his friend just helped you realize that you don't like your bf anymore, but you don't have feelings for his friend too. If you don't like your situation with your boyfriend, let him off easy. Take time to think, then make a decision.
  20. misery12
    Update: It's almost been 2 weeks since we broke up, but now at school.. she seems to love hanging out with me. After eating lunch today she came over to me, and we walked around and talked, and we had really good/fun conversations. Later that day, we did the same thing.. and we just flirted and stuff like that. She came inside to find me, and then we walked around by ourselves and talked, I said a joke at the end of the day which really made her smile, and she gave me one of those "I think I like you" looks. Then said bye, and we went to our busses. Neither of us have plans tonight, and my sister has a dance recital tomorrow, which my mom wants me to ask her to come to. I think we should hang out alone with each other soon, just to see if there are any feelings.. and idea what we could do? P.S - We're going to prom together too
  21. misery12
    I don't know if this is the right forum, but our last dance of the year is coming up, and I am going with my ex girlfriend, we are still really close, maybe closer than ever, and I just want to look good. It's not a prom, since im only in grade 10, but I want to look good. It's a semi formal so no jeans.. and there is no corsages or whatever, but I want to have some fashion advice from some people, if you're willing to give it. Thanks!
  22. misery12
    He;s an idiot, he says you're being too dramatic? He is the one freaking out. You did nothing wrong. He just seems that he doesn't know what he has with you. Maybe you should tell him you want a break or something, don't say it's over, just tell him you need space, but do it right after he blows up in your face, so he realizes what he is doing to deserve this. If he comes back, he's yours.. if not.. you know.
  23. misery12
    I don't see how this could work out at all. If you did end up breaking up with your boyfrined, and getting together with his best.. best.. friend, then in time.. your current boyfrined and his BEST frined will get into fights, and then neither of them will want you, because of all the drama that comes with it. I say, if you want things to work out for the best, tell your boyfriend you want a break, just so you will realize what you truly have with him. If in time, you don't miss him, break up with him. For the right reasons.
  24. misery12
    Hahaha wow! you're good. Yeah, i understand what you're saying. But we've talked and worked things out. We've been in a few fights the past few days, and now we're fine. But is it too late to say anything? And I love her company, by the way.
  25. misery12
    I still have feelings for my ex. She broke up with me about a week or so ago, because she said she just wanted to be friends. But she also told me that she wants to stay best frineds, and hang out like we did when we were going out.. She says she loves hanging out with me, and still wants to come to my cottage with my family this summer again, and hang out, pool parties, and stuff. Is this good?? I feel like I got a good cut of the deal, she didn't want to stay with me, but at least I am still in her life like I was before. We didn't really act like boyfriend/girlfrined for the last few months, we were like best frineds, that hung out.. (and casually fooled around sometimes) . Now, when I talk to her on msn, we are having better conversations, because we don't talk a lot each day.. just a few times at school, and then in the night. It's not whenever she comes online.. also, our prom is coming up, and I want to ask her.. because we're still so close, and she is not going with anyone yet. Sometimes when she's talking to me on msn or somehting, she will say "g2g cya" and then she logs offline right after. But she did this while we were going out too.. just logs off quick. Does this sound good?? I stil have feelings for her, but as long as I spend time with her, I am happy for now. My sister has a dance recital this weekend too, and I would like to invite her to come watch it with me, she watch my mom in a play with me a few months ago, and enjoyed it. Do you think this is a good idea too? thanks a lot!
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