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  1. rightfromthestart
    is everyone really that fragile out there in enotalone land? like, helllllllllllllllllllllllllo! deep breath everyone. sheeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeesh
  2. rightfromthestart
    instead of the header being 'turn the page' how about changing it to 'buy a new book'
  3. rightfromthestart
    Example: Fair Expectation: huntress' is too much
  4. rightfromthestart
    I am busy with work and some new music/film/web projects as well. plus, i am writing a novella entitled 'bed head and the bathrobe' should be a best seller
  5. rightfromthestart
    where's my notebook? anyone got a pen? lol
  6. rightfromthestart
    spooky - i just posted
  7. rightfromthestart
    either way she knows now that everything is gonna be alright. time heals. no worries ok? stay kewl.
  8. rightfromthestart
    how are u and lindsay doing? i hope u both are well and know u can call anytime if u need to ok? stay kewl
  9. rightfromthestart
    just so things are clear...you have clearence to call at anytime...u can only go round and round for so long....
  10. rightfromthestart
    grabs his guitar.,...hands annnnnnnn a microphone...and a 1, and a 2....
  11. rightfromthestart
    meant in a positive, supportive way...wink If you wake up and don't want to smile, If it takes just a little while, Open your eyes and look at the day, You'll see things in a different way. Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow, Don't stop, it'll soon be here, It'll be, better than before, Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone. Why not think about times to come, And not about the things that you've done, If your life was bad to you, Just think what tomorrow will do. Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow, Don't stop, it'll soon be here, It'll be, better than before, Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone. All I want is to see you smile, If it takes just a little while, I know you don't believe that it's true, I never meant any harm to you. Don't stop, thinking about tomorrow, Don't stop, it'll soon be here, It'll be, better than before, Yesterday's gone, yesterday's gone. Don't you look back, Don't you look back. Loving you Isn't the right thing to do How can I ever change things That I feel If I could Maybe I'd give you my world How can I When you won't take it from me You can go your own way Go your own way You an call it Another lonely day You can go your own way Go your own way Tell me why Everything turned around Packing up Shacking up is all you wanna do If I could Baby I'd give you my world Open up Everything's waiting for you You can go your own way Go your own way You an call it Another lonely day You can go your own way go your own way
  12. rightfromthestart
    Once there was a way to get back homeward Once there was a way to get back home Sleep pretty darling do not cry And I will sing a lullabye Golden slumbers fill your eyes Smiles awake you when you rise Sleep pretty darling do not cry And I will sing a lullabye Once there was a way to get back homeward Once there was a way to get back home Sleep pretty darling do not cry And I will sing a lullabye I give her all my love, that's all I do, and if you saw my love, you'd love her too, I love her. She gives me ev'rything, and tenderly, the kiss my lover brings, she brings to me, and I love her A love like ours, could never die, as long as I, have you near me. Bright are the stars that shine, dark is the sky, I know this love of mine, will never die, and I love her. Bright are the stars that shine, dark is the sky, I know this love of mine, will never die, and I love her.
  13. rightfromthestart
    "We went back to her place, had a fight (as usual, about her telling me stuff I don't want to hear, and bickering about why we broke up) but this time I really held my ground and stood up to her, almost mocking her self-pity. She told me she had recently thought about getting back together, and instead of bowing to her knees, I basically told her I wasn't interested because I don't trust her. Then she decided to tell me that she had slept with a few guys since we've broken up. We went to bed in silence, both very pissed off. We were lying in bed and I just started kissing her, started with her neck and face, for about 2-3 minutes and she didn't respond... then she suddenly got turned on because we had what I would honestly call the best sex of my life. She just kept saying "oh my god" after it was over and we cuddled and went to bed." ok..is it just me that thinks this is weird....this couple has gone thru a strained relationship, and the evening is filled with awkward moments - up and downs - and then after gawd knows how long, they jump in the sack and do the nasty? sounds like a relationship based on sex. just my 2 cents.
  14. rightfromthestart
    i agree,....everyone makes their own decision...i would not tell u what is best for you - just show u both sides of the coin....u pick...
  15. rightfromthestart
    if u like confidence in a man....then have confidence in yourself....only have expectations of others which u can do yourself...only fair
  16. rightfromthestart
    "You know one thing I hate, is that rightnow, I've got a bad reputation with my friends, my family and especially my ex. Like "who's this sad guy" and "awww, look how sad he is, he can do so much better". MAN I WANNA WOW THEM!!!!! i wanna make myself better for myself." ok - that is #1 - stop thinking or worrying what other people think of u and if u must flip that thought upside down...maybe they are actually proud of u. "I was talking to my ex awhile back and she said, "I'm happy now". she was happy for being single, independent and can do whatever she wants. I live alone now, no job, and no direction as to how to make my life better. how can I find my own self? my mojo? how can I make her want me back? You know, i might not even want her back later on, but right now, its like, comparing yourself to someone who thought they were better off without you. anyone know what i mean?" see, again, you are comparing. once u stop doing that u will fly. u can do it sending positive vibes yer way
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    "You know one thing I hate, is that rightnow, I've got a bad reputation with my friends, my family and especially my ex. Like "who's this sad guy" and "awww, look how sad he is, he can do so much better". MAN I WANNA WOW THEM!!!!! i wanna make myself better for myself." ok - that is #1 - stop thinking or worrying what other people think of u and if u must flip that thought upside down...maybe they are actually proud of u. "I was talking to my ex awhile back and she said, "I'm happy now". she was happy for being single, independent and can do whatever she wants. I live alone now, no job, and no direction as to how to make my life better. how can I find my own self? my mojo? how can I make her want me back? You know, i might not even want her back later on, but right now, its like, comparing yourself to someone who thought they were better off without you. anyone know what i mean?" see, again, you are comparing. once u stop doing that u will fly. u can do it
  18. rightfromthestart
    too short to carry the weight of being jaded around...marriage is not the piece of paper u receive or the laws and contracts that come along with it, it is the acknowledgement of faith in belief in one another. and, there is no rule book on this stuff. i read once where david susuki was giving a lecture at u of bc and a woman in the crowd asked him a question. she later came over and asked him to sign her copy of his book. he said he would only if she went on a date with him. she agreed. they rented a cabin in the interior of bc and he proposed that weekend. they have 4 great kids and have been married for over 35 years. endless possibilities. just keep the mind open and don't create your own roadblocks.
  19. rightfromthestart
    i guess it really depends on the motivation and the intent behind the flirting...not all flirting is related to sexual interest you know....people flirt for many reasons...and if u know the person and their morals then u know what the intension is...make sense?
  20. rightfromthestart
    "I'd rather be lonely Than searching for the comfort I was longing for Which may never come I give up" take another look at this last part... doing so 'giving up' is the comfort because you release the longing and the feelings of loneliness, the searching, when u just stop - erase those negatives and start taking the steps back up. the end is the beginning. find comfort in that.
  21. rightfromthestart
    "I think the big reason you could say you are too clingy is because she is seeing it that way." exactly. so who has the problem really? perhaps a little one on one talk would help instead of building up resentment over an issue such as 'clingy' - shhhhhhhhhhhhhhhheeeeeeeeeesh. because it really not about the clingy stuff its about why someone feels suffocated - usually that comes from someone that has not had a lot of love shown them and it is overwhelmeing and they revert back to 'survivial mode'. its a lose/lose situation that comes from past relationships. damn, if someone showered me with love - i'd say 'bring it on!'
  22. rightfromthestart
    u have the attitude that part of someone, in your eyes, is an 'inner wuss' - then how in the world do u expect anything other than what u have already predetermined. man, u are disrespecting someone and projecting your stuff on him. maybe its not him that needs to look in the mirror. if u are harbouring negative thoughts even before the games begin - then that's a setup for failure.
  23. rightfromthestart
    "When he gets to the beach... he finds out.... the dream woman is ...... HIS MOTHER" i was making a joke related to this comment
  24. rightfromthestart
    Hello I've waited here for you Everlong Tonight I throw myself into And out of the red, out of her head she sang Come down And waste away with me Down with me Slow how You wanted it to be I'm over my head, out of her head she sang And I wonder When I sing along with you If everything could ever feel this real forever If anything could ever be this good again The only thing I'll ever ask of you You've got to promise not to stop when I say when She sang Breathe out So I can breathe you in Hold you in And now I know you've always been Out of your head, out of my head I sang And I wonder When I sing along with you If everything could ever feel this real forever If anything could ever be this good again The only thing I'll ever ask of you You've got to promise not to stop when I say when She sang And I wonder If everything could ever feel this real forever If anything could ever be this good again The only thing I'll ever ask of you You've got to promise not to stop when I say when She sang
  25. rightfromthestart
    i never went NC - i kept all lines of communication as open as i could. third party opinions are helpful because they can see and tell u things u don't see when emotions run high. i don't think either of us failed. i am sure NC worked for my ex. see, the problem with NC is one makes that decision and the other is forced to work around that. that makes your resourceful and instead of focussing on a moment frozen in time and healing just yourself, you see everyone else involved - family, friends, children, etc. it takes you outside the bubble. not the reverse. so, in one way, having that imposed on you is a form of NC - only if you use it as the other is - its like a weapon - a sword instead of a pen. just my 2 cents tho. everyone is unique.
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